Zvinokwanisika kuwira murudo ne interlocutor chaiyo here?

Iro network - iyi pfungwa yakanyatsopindira muupenyu hwedu mune makumi mapfumbamwe uye haigoni kubuda mairi nokukurumidza. IInternet yava chinhu chinokosha chehupenyu, inoshanda, inonakidza, uye inotsvaga ruzivo. Kazhinji, yatotanga kuva rudzi rwekugara. Akava sangano rakagadzirwa, muenzaniso wevanhu. Uye izvo vanhu vanoita munzanga, vanhu vanotaurirana.

Kukurukurirana paInternet kune mikana yekusingaperi. Kudanana nzvimbo. Nzvimbo dzehutano dzevanhu, mharaunda yakasiyana-siyana inofarira, maforamu, macheza, blogs, diaries, vakadzi. zvose uye kwete kunyora. Pane maonero ekukurukurirana kwakakwana nguva dzose uye haapi kupa zvakadzama zvekufunga, asi, mumaonero angu, hazvisi izvo. Ndinotenda kuti kana munhu ane chimwe chinhu chingareva muhupenyu chaihwo, zvino zvichave zvichifadza kutaurirana naye paInternet.

Asi kana pane hutaurirano mumutambo, saka mubvunzo unonzwisisika unomuka, unogona kunzwa manzwiro chaiwo mauri here, unogona kuwira murudo ne interlocutor chaiyo? Uyu mubvunzo munguva yepasi rese uye mapikicha anomuka, ngatiedzei kupindura.

Ngatitange kuzarura dzimwe tsanangudzo, kutanga pane zvose tichazotaura pamusoro pekusava nekutarisana kukurukurirana, i.e. kana tisingaoni munhu, chitarisiko chake, chiso chekunaka, kureva, mune mamwe mazwi, hatishandisi webcam nezvimwe zvigadzirwa zvemagetsi. Ishamwari yedu yakakwana zvachose, patinonyanya kuona isu avvararku uye imwe yemifananidzo.

Saka chii chirikukurukurirana, kupfuura chinopesana nedzimwe nzira dzakawanda dzekukurukurirana. Kutaura chokwadi, chokwadi ndechekuti hationi munhu we interlocutor. Pakutanga kuona, ichi ndicho chipingamupinyi chikuru pakukudziridza manzwiro emusangano wekutengesa. Asi kana tikatarisa maonero akajeka, tichaona kuti vanhu vave vatotora makore zviuru zvitanhatu, vanobatanidza kunyora tsamba kune mumwe nemumwe nekukurukurirana muzvinyorwa, sezvakangoita. Ingoshandisa izvozvi kwete nzira dzechidimbu dzekutumira data, asi pepa pepa uye mail.

Munhoroondo, pane mienzaniso yakawanda yehukama hwakatungamirirwa zvikuru kuburikidza nemakorani, saBalzac, Mayakovsky, uye Tsvetaeva. Kunyora kwavo vanhu vanoverenga mushure memazana emakumi nemazana, kunyange kana iwe uchinzwisisa, zvinowanikwa mumakadhi aya sevamwe vanhu vanobatana. Munguva yeHondo Yenyika Yechipiri, vasikana vazhinji vakafananidza nemasoja avo vakanga vasingazivikanwi kwavari vachichema pamberi, paawa awa vanhu vaisati vazivana, asi hukama hwakagadzirirwa nenzira iyi mushure mokunge hondo yapera yakatungamirira kumhuri inofara.

Kusiyana kwakasiyana pakati pekukurukurirana kwemazuva ano pamusoro pemaketani ndiko kukurumidza kutumira mameseji. Asi zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti chinhu ichi hachikwanise kuva nechakaipa pamusana pekuvandudzwa kwemanzwiro pakati pevatauriri.

Kubva pamusoro apa, ndinogona kugumisa kuti muIndaneti nzvimbo, pakati pevamwe vatendi, maonero nemafungiro chaiwo angasimbiswa.

Asi mubvunzo unomuka kana kunzwa uku kunogona kunzi rudo, uye rudzi rwekuenderera rungave narwo naye. Kana tikaratidza kufanana, uye tinotaurirana nemanyorerwo akafanana netsamba, zvino tinoona kuti kungoenderera mberi kwekubudirira kwekutaurirana kwechokwadi ndiko musangano chaiye.

Mushure mezvose, zvisinei kuti yakawanda sei syllable, uye epithets yakanaka, tinorarama munyika chaiye. Uye rudo imanzwiro ayo, pasinei nezvose zvaro, haagoni kugutsikana nemabhuku chete. Anoda kutaurirana chaiyo nemunhu, zvakakosha kumuona, kumubata, kunzwa kunhuwa kwake.

Nokuda kweizvi zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti paunopindura mubvunzo uyu, munhu anogona kana asingakwanisi kuwirirana ne interlocutor chaiyo, ndinogona kutaura kuti zvinobvira, asi kuitira kuti rudo urwu rurege kuva mune chimwe chinhu, rinofanirwa kushandurwa kubva kubva kune imwe nzvimbo kusvika kune chaiye.