Rudo nokuda kweizvi kana rudzi rwekuzorora iko mufananidzo wakajeka wehutano hwemwana, zvaanoda uye zvaanoda. Uyewo zvinokosha ndiyo nguva inowanikwa, tichifunga kuti unogona kuita upenyu hwako hwezhizha zvikuru, hunofadza zvikuru kumwana.
Chokutanga, ngatiedzei kunzwisisa chii chaizvoizvo mwana asingadi munyika. Chokutanga pane zvose, uku ndiko kusavapo kwe "shamwari" dzehama. Izvo muhucheche hwedu muguta zvokuti anenge asina munhu akanga ari kunze muzhizha: vana vakatumirwa kumakambani ehurumende, vanasekuru navanasekuru vaigara mumisha, iyo yatakatamburira "kusununguka." Nharo yechipiri: varaidzo yedu muguta uye mumaruwa yakanga isina kusiyana zvakasiyana-siyana pano uye pano takatamba tichiviga-uye-kutsva, vatorwa veCossack nemimwe mitambo yekunze. Vana vemazuva ano vanopedza nguva yakawanda pa kombiyuta uye pamberi peTV, iyo iri munyika inogona kubviswa. Nokudaro, mubvunzo weimwe nzira inosvika pakarepo inomuka: mwana angave anofarira sei munyika "kunze kwekona"? Saka, ngationei kugadziriswa kwezvinonyanya kukanganisa dacha varaidzo uye edza kuvaka zvakare nyika yehupenyu kuitira kuti vana vasanetswa.
6-8 makore
Panguva ino, vana vakawanda vanoda kutaura nevezera ravo, asi havazivi kuti vangaziva sei, nokuti mumazuva ano havanzwi kuti zvakakodzera. Kushaikwa kwenguva yekusununguka kunobata: ikozvino vazhinji vevana vari muzera rino vari kuita zvidzidzo uye mabasa akasiyana-siyana - vanozivana munharaunda yavo vanoitika mumasangano akadaro, uye kwete mu "kushanya pasina". Saka, basa rako nderokuwana kambani yevana. Kazhinji chinzvimbo cheupenyu hwezhizha chidziva kana rwizi. Kurukura nevatori vezororo pamahombekombe nemamwe mhuri, kumbira kuti vashanyire. Mubereki chero upi zvake achasangana newe, nokuti ane matambudziko akafanana nemwana wake.
Chinhu chakanaka ndechekukoka kune dacha yako shamwari yezera rimwechete: muzukuru, shamwari yechikoro kana munda. Panguva ino, nevana vaviri, pachava nezvinetso zvishoma pane imwe chete, nokuti haisi vana vanofanira kutungamirirwa nemubati.
Nezvichave zvichibatanidzwa nevechidiki kubva kure kubva kuTV inodakidzana nekombiyuta, zviri nani kufungisisa nguva yakareba munharaunda yekuvaraidza inoshandiswa kumusha. Edza kufungidzira pfungwa yekusika yakaisvonaka album yehupenyu hwepanyika. Tenga kamera isingadhuri, shandura mapurisa akasarudzwa, kubatsira kubvisa album nemashizha akaomeswa nemaruva.
Imwe pfungwa ndeye vana dacha theatre. Mumasikati, varume vacho vachadzidza zvinyorwa, kuita zvipfeko uye nzvimbo, uye manheru anoita pamberi pevanhu vakuru. Uye mumwe munhu akatoziva kamera, iwe unogona kusarudza "munyori". Imwe pepanhau rekutanga rakagadzirirwa rakagadzirirwa kushanda ndiro rakanakisisa yekuyeuka kwemajaya asina kusimba echando.
Makore 9-12
Vana vezera iri, kushamwaridzana nevezera ravo kunogona kuvhiringidza. Asi kana iwe ukangoshamwaridzana nemhuri, saka vana vachakwevedzwa mukukurukurirana. Dare rekukoka shamwari kune dacha pano inokosha. Iwe uchaita kuti upenyu huve nyore kwauri uye kune vamwe vabereki.
Kuuya kuvaraidzo kune vana "preadolescent" age, iwe unofanirwa kuyeuka nezvezvinhu zvazvo. Ava vana vanoita sevanokura zvikuru mune chimwe chinhu, uye mune chimwe chinhu chiduku. Kune rumwe rutivi, vari kukurukurirana nyaya dzevanhu vakuru nekushingaira uye kuipa kwekurambana nemitengo yemotokari, pane imwe - ivo vachiri kudavira munhau. Batsira vana kuronga chimwe chinhu chichagutsa chido chavo chekukura uye kurarama munyika inofadza panguva imwe chete. Chokutanga pane zvose, imhuri yega. Vose vasikana nevakomana muzera rino vanofara kubvumirana kurarama kuDacha kana vane nharaunda yavo pachavo, iyo yavanogona kuigadzirira ivo pachavo. Paine vana, unogona kupa rakateurwa kana rakateurwa uye unoita kuti vaite chero chavanoda. Kugovera ivo paints, zvinhu zvokuvaka, micheka uye, kunyanya kukosha, kwete kudzidzisa hupenyu, asi kungopindura mibvunzo, kana ikasimuka. Uori hwezvinhu zvose zvinoshandiswa hunovimbiswa, asi basa rakadaro rinogona kutora vana kwenguva yakareba.
Usazvidza kukwanisa kwevana kukura chimwe chinhu pachavo. Hungu, vanovenga kurora mabhedha ambuya, asi zucchini yavo pachavo kana maruva anoshamisa zvinonakidza. Iwe unogona kuronga mupikisano weguru uye muzukuru: ndiani achava nemiti yakasimba. Ichokwadi kuti mwana anofanira kugovera zvakanakisisa mubindu, kuitira kuti kubudirira kwake kuoneke kwaari.
Uyezve, mwana anokwanisa kuratidzira kuratidza kubatsirika kwehupenyu hwemumugwagwa: somuenzaniso, mumhepo unogona kutamba mitambo yakarambidzwa muguta reimba - svetera "mumabhanhire erubharu", kanda mapfumo pasi.
Kana iwe uine imbwa, ipapo mwana wezera rino anogona kutsanangura kuti zvakakosha sei kuva mune zvakasikwa. Ne imbwa, mwana anogona kufamba zvakanyanya sezvaanoda, uye nyore nyore kuenda kutsvaga kusagadzirisa matambudziko.
13-15 wemakore
Pazera iri, kunyengedza mwana, shamwari dzose uye zvinhu zvinovaraidza zveavo vanoramba vari muguta, kupinda munzvimbo inoshandiswa yekuvaraidza pa dacha, uye kunyange kwenguva yakareba, zvinenge zvisingaiti. Kukurukurirana nevezera rako ndiko kunonyanya kukosha kwevechiri kuyaruka, saka kana mwana asina "kamuzha yezhizha", anoramba kuenda kunze kweguta. Nekambani kana shamwari imwe chete, iye achaenda kune dacha nemufaro, asi chete kana akapiwa rusununguko ruduku kupfuura rweguta.
Vechidiki vanoda imba yakasiyana. Kana mukamuri, iyo iri yoga, uye kwete. Pazera iri, chido chokuva nenzvimbo yega yakaoma kwazvo zvokuti vazhinji vanobvumirana ... kunyange vanogara mutende. Kuchena uye pane chimwe chinhu chaunofanira kuratidza pamberi pehama dzeguta! Bvumira vechidiki kuti vaite gorofu manheru, vavake moto, uye ushamwari hwakasviba neshamwari kuti vashandise husiku husiku hwehusi. Kusuruvara havatyi kuvhundutsa - zvakanyanya kukosha ndezvekuita rudo rweusiku uye rusununguko. Kana iwe unogona kugadzira manzwiro ekuti vechidiki vakasiiwa ivo pachavo, unogona kuzvichengeta zviri nyore ku dacha.
Vechidiki vanoda kukunda masango matsva. Zvakakosha kuvabvumira kuti vaende kunze kwenyika. Vanhu vazhinji vanoda kutasva motokari yemagetsi, kunyange kwekudya, kuti vabuda kunze kwekuenda kune rimwe guta iri pedyo kana musha. Dzidza kuvimba navo!
Kana wechidiki ane shamwari yezera rake dacha, asi iye haadi hake kuenda ikoko, ona kuti chinetso chii. Kazhinji chikonzero chikonzero chekusabvumirana kwezvinhu zvinowanzodiwa. Kumanikidzira mwana kuti ataure zvose zhizha nevasingazivi mumweya - maitiro asina kururama. Yeuka - akwegura zvakakwana kuti aite zvisarudzo zvakadaro pachake.
Kana zvichikwanisika, ipai wechidiki nemutambo wake wekuvaraidza: kombiyuta uye mutambo wemutambo zvinogona kutorwa pamwe naye, zvigadzirwa zvemazuva ano zvinogona kukupa iwe ne "dacha" Internet. Asi zvose zvakafanana, usakanganwa: pfungwa huru yekuzorora seiyo inoshanduka mamiriro ezvinhu. Imba yezororo inhau inokosha, yakakwana uye yakasungirirwa zvachose kusvika pedo nechisikwa, uye kwete kuzvibereko zvehupfumi.
Tinodzidza nyore uye nemufaro!
Haisi chakavanzika chokuti vana vazhinji vanopiwa basa rezhizha. Chaizvoizvo, iyi imba yekuverenga kumba kwechikoro chekunyora. Chigaro checheche yebhuku panguva ye "yepamutemo" yezororo haisi nyore. Edza kutamba chidzidzo ichi mune imwe yenzira dzinotevera:
- ita mibvunzo purogiramu inoshanda nemishandira;
- Kumbira mwana kuti auye nekuenderera mberi kwenyaya yacho uye kurukurirane nayo;
- Kumbira mwana kuti atumire zviitiko zvebasa kune hupenyu hwemazuva ano (kunyanya kufarira vana 12-15 wemakore);
- Bvunza mwana kuti adzokere nyaya iyi pamusoro peiyo (kunze kwekuti, chokwadi, wakagadzirira kuinzwa uye usapomera!). Kana mwana wacho akasara shure kwezvimwe zvezvinhu, usazviisa pamabhuku. Edza kutsvaga mabhuku anofadza panyaya iyi, somuenzaniso Perelman's "Kufarira Physics", Gasparov's "Kufarira Girisi", nezvimwewo, uye shandura mabhuku aya kana mwana achizorora kubva kuchikoro, ndiko kuti; semitemo, kwete pamberi peJuly.
Uye kana iwe unoshanda?
Usashandisa mwana wako somunhu ane ruzivo rwakadzika, ane ruzivo rwakakwana kana asingadi kukubatsira iwe, zvisinei iwe uchangobva kunzwa kuti haadi kuenda kune dacha kuitira kuti arege "kutuka".
Vimba naye nebasa rinotarisirwa, uchitaura kuti zvakaoma, somuenzaniso, kutora strawberries. Basa racho richava rinofadza kumwana kana akawana mugumisiro wake pachake, uye kwete "unozviitira amai vake." Kubva kune shriberi, anogona kugadzira mousse pachake, kuronga "pokugara pirate" mune imwe nzvimbo yakarongedzwa zvakanaka kuti achengetedze "zvakapambwa", nezvimwewo. Yeuka kuti vana vakawanda vanofarira kupinda musango kana vakanyatsopindirana muchechina wekugadzira: pamwe chete iwe uchabika jam kana munyu mushroom. Uye inofadza, iyo mwana akagadzirira, regai imwe, asi yakakwana chose chirongo. Iwe unogona kuita chisiti chekuyeuka pairi.