Kuumbwa kwepfungwa mupfungwa dze rudo rwevabereki

Kuumbwa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa dze rudo rwevabereki panguva ino ndechidzidzo chakakosha uye chakanyatsodzidzwa. Zvigumisiro zvaro zvichabatsira kunyatsoziva kusanzwisisika kwechirwere chepfungwa zvakadzama, kufanana nerudo rwevabereki, uye zvizere zvepfungwa dzaro dzepfungwa zvichabatsira kusimbisa kudzidzisa uye dzimwe nzira dzekukurudzira kuti dzikudziridzire. Vanhu vazhinji vanoteerera nezita iri, pakutanga rinoratidzika kuva upenzi. Mushure mezvose, sei, rudo rwevabereki - harina chokwadi, rutsvene, uye harina maturo kuti ruchengetedze pamasherufu epfungwa, sei tichichera mune zvatinonzwa isu tose? Chimwe chikamu hachidikanwi kune ani zvake anofunga ... Nhamo, izvi hazvisi izvo, uye uchapupu hweizvi ndechokuti havasi vabereki vose vanoda vana vavo. Izvi zvinotsigirwa nezviito zvechisimba mumhuri, utsinye, kusava nemafungiro, kusavapo kwemhuri isingabatsiri, uye vana vakawanda munherera. Mushure mezvose, ivo ndivo vakanyanya, kurarama mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipa akadaro, vanotambudzwa nemibvunzo: "Sei vabereki vangu vasina kundida? Chii chakashata neni? Ndakaita chii chakaipa kwavari, chii chandisingafariri pamusoro pavo? "

Nokudaro, dambudziko rerudo rwevabereki nhasi rinokosha zvikuru. Kazhinji uye kakawanda kune mamiriro ezvinhu anotyisa ekuuraya mwana wako, achikandira kunze, nezvimwewo. Basa rakaoma nderokudzidza maitiro akafanana, uyewo zvakasiyana, kuwana manzwiro uye mupfungwa zvinotitungamirira kune chinangwa. Asi zvakadaro takakwanisa kuwana mamwe mazano, ayo ari kuumbwa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa dze rudo rwevabereki, uyewo zvinhu zvinodiwa kuti zviite.

Chii chinonzi rudo rwevabereki? Nyanzvi dzakawanda dzepfungwa uye mafilosofi vave vakaedza kwemazana emakore kuti vatsvake mhinduro mimwe yekunzwa uku, uye nguva imwe neimwe yaive yakasiyana. Ichi chinhu chakanaka, chakajeka, chakakwirira cherudo, icho vanhu vazhinji vanoona sechipo chakakwirira zvikuru uye mufaro, izvo zvisingagoni kuenzaniswa nemamwe marudzi erudo rwakanzwisiswa kare. Kuva mubereki ndeyekuva munhu anofara uye kupiwa mubairo nemukana uyu-kunzwisisa mufaro wechokwadi. Sukhomlinsky akataura kuti rudo rwevabereki ndiko kukwanisa kunzwa zvakanakisisa zvinodiwa zvomudzimu zvemwana nemoyo. Uyezve, pakati pekuda vanhu ikoko kune simba rinokosha rekubatanidza, intuition, chido chekuswedera pedyo. Asi vamwe mumagumo avo vanosimbisa kuti munhu haagoni kuona rudo rwevabereki sekunzwa, nokuti, chokwadi, rudo runosanganisira zvimwe zviito, nokuti kana iwe uchinzwa chete, asi iwe usingaiti chinhu kumwana, zvino chiito ichi hachizove uchapupu hunobudirira hworudo , - vakawanda vanotenda.

Nokuunganidza pamwechete maonero akasiyana, tinogona kudonongodza zvinhu izvo rudo rwevabereki rwakanyorwa. Chimiro chepfungwa chinosanganisira zvikamu zvina: manzwiro, semuenzaniso wezvakaitika uye manzwiro pamusoro pemwana, hukuru hwemamiriro ezvinhu uye kugamuchirwa kwemwana, kuongorora kwayo, kushamwaridzana kwemubereki nemwana. Psychophysiological factor inoreva kukwezva komubereki kumwana, chido chokuda kufanana naye, kufungidzira kwemubereki, chido chokumugamuchira, kubata, kugara naye uye kwete chikamu. Mukufungisisa tinotarisa kunzwisisa kwe rudo rwevabereki, intuition uye zvose izvo zvisinganzwisisiki zvinobva mumhuri yemubereki kumwana. Uye icho chekupedzisira ndicho chimiro chekuita, chinoratidza kubudirira kwe rudo rwevabereki uye kuratidza hukama, mararamiro emubereki kumwana, kumuchengeta.

Chimiro chakadaro hachiwanzoshanda nguva dzose, uye izvi zvinoenderana nezera, zvakasiyana zveumwe wevabereki. Zvimwe zvinhu kubva pakugadzirwa kwepfungwa zvinogona kutonga vamwe.

Chinhu chinonakidza ndechokuti rudo rwevabereki rune kusiyana kwepabonde, uye rudo rwemucheche rwakasiyana zvakanyanya nerudo rwebaba. Nokuti amai vanoratidzirwa nekugamuchirwa kwechikonzero chemwana, vachipa mwana mukana wekutaura maonero ake, asi baba kakawanda vanoramba kutonga uye kuenzana nemwana. Asi zvave zvichiratidzwa kwenguva refu kuti pakuzadzika kwepfungwa kwehutano hwevana, mumwe nemumwe mubereki anodikanwa, uye hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti vanaamai vanobata vana zviri nani kupfuura vanababa, kana zvimwewo.

Kuti uwane ruzivo rwe rudo rwevabereki, uyewo kuti rakagadzirwa zvakanaka, munhu anofanira kugutsa zvimwe zvimiro, zvakadai sokukwanisa kugamuchira uye kugamuchira iyeye nevamwe, kugona kwepfungwa uye kwekunetseka kwomumwe munhu. Kune zvakawanda zvinodiwa zve "mubereki akanaka" uyo anoda kurera mwana wake zvakachengeteka, kuti aite zvakanakisisa mamiriro ake. Pano, unyanzvi hwakasiyana siyana uye unyanzvi hunofungidzirwa, mukana wekupa mwana zvinhu zvose zvakakosha kwaari. Kunyangwe zvave zvichiratidzwa kwenguva refu kuti rudo rwevabereki - ichi ndicho chinhu chinokosha chinodiwa nemwana, pamwe chete nezvinodiwa pakuzara kwayo nekuvandudzwa kwepfungwa.

Rudo rwevabereki runogona kunyatsogadzirwa kuburikidza nepurogiramu kuburikidza nekugadzirwa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa dze rudo rwevabereki. Pano mubereki anoumba mamiriro ehumwe ehumwe anokonzera kuumbwa kwepfungwa dzepfungwa maererano nehutano hwevabereki vane rudo. Inofungawo nezvekuvandudzwa kweunhu hwakadaro mumubereki. Paunoumba rudzi urwu rwe rudo, chinhu ichocho chinokoshawo, kuti munhu wacho aibatwa sei somwana, zvisinei kuti vabereki vake vakaratidza rudo. Kazhinji vana vanowanzofananidza maitiro evabereki vavo, maitiro avo, zviratidzo uye chiso chemaziso, kusanganisira pfungwa ye rudo rwevabereki uye kuratidzwa kwayo. Chero mamiriro ose ezvinhu, funga kudiwa kwevana vako kunzwisisa kuti unovada, kuti vanonzwa uye vanoziva nguva dzose kuti unogona kuvimba, kuti iwe uri munhu wavo wepedyo, ane rudo uye ane rudo. Ipapo iwe uchaziva mutendi uye rudo rwawo, uchidzidza kuti uyu ndeumwe, pasina mubvunzo mufaro.