Iwe unoziva manzwiro ako apo iwe haunosangana nejaya, iwe wakagadzirira kumupa zvose kamwechete? Kana zvakadaro, chenjerera! Zvichida iwe wakagadzirirwa kuita basa nounyanzvi semufananidzo uyo uyo, achishandisa yako naivete, anorodza masimba ake ekunyengedza vasikana. Kubva pamazuva ekare, kunyengera kwevasikana nevakadzi, Casanova, inozivikanwa. Kusvika iye zvino, chiitiko ichi che "pickup" kana, muchiRussia, unyanzvi hwekunyengedzera, hwakakura kwazvo mumakwikwi evaduku avo dzimwe nguva iwe unofungidzira uchifunga, uye ndiani iye zvino ari mberi kwangu? Imwe mukomana murudo, kana kuzadzisa nounyanzvi basa rake seanotora-mifananidzo?
Zvose zvinoshandiswa pakutsvaga :
- Une chimiro chisina kunaka, izvo zvinoreva, zvakatemwa, kuveurwa, kushandiswa uye zvichingodaro;
- Mhuri nguva dzose munzvimbo dzakazara, iyo inowanzoita zvekunyengedzera, kazhinji etonochnye clubs, mabhadhi, mahoitere, mabhuku, mabhiridhi, kubasa uye kunenge kwose kwose;
- Vane nzira isingabvumirwi yehukama, ndiko kuti, ivo vanotanga kuzivana, kuisa pasi, vozochekazve;
- Ivo vakanyanyisa, vane mafungiro akanaka ekuseka, havazomboramba vakanyarara, vanoziva nhamba yakawanda yenyaya dzinopera nekugara nekuita zvepabonde;
- Edza kugara uchibata musikana;
- Usambofa ubhadhara nekuda kwezvokudya;
- Mushure mokunge tisinganyanyi kufarira munhu wavo vanoedza kutora munhu anotevera anenge achinetseka kubva pane zvingaita kubva munzvimbo ine ruzha uye kuunza nyaya yacho kumagumo, kuita zvepabonde kubva kumusikana.
Nzira dzekunyengedza kwekutsvaga vatambi
Kuti uwane chigumisiro chekupedzisira nemagumo akajeka, pickups dzinoshandisa gumi nemaviri emitemo yekunyengera. Ngatitaurirane navo uye tiyeuke, kuitira kuti tisaputsira matanho e "zvikwata zvepabonde." Izvi zvinotevera nzira dzakawanda:
- pfupi kuona musikana, ndiko kuti, kutarisisa kukurumidza kwekuita kweaikonzerwa nekushungurudzika uye kudana kufarira kwekutanga kune munhu pachake;
- kana vachitaura, vanogara vachiratidza kushamisira kwemusikana, vachimusimbisa iye unhu hwakasiyana uye hunoshamisa, achiita rumbidzo nenzira isina unobtrusive kutya shamwari isina murombo;
- inogadzira pfungwa yemunhu akajeka uye akatendeseka, uye zvino inosanganisira nzira dzeEriksonian hypnosis, nekubatsira kwokuti awa rinotarisana naro rinogona kuwira murudo nemusikana;
- panguva yekukurukurirana vanozvibata nekuzvidzora uye vanoedza nguva dzose kuti vashandise nzira yekukurukurirana nenzira yekutsvaga data pamusoro pemusikana iyeye, uye asingazvitauri. Vachiwana ruzivo urwu, vanovaka mazano e "kuswedera" kumusikana uyu;
- panguva yekukurukurirana kuchinja maitiro ekuzvibata, ndiko kuti, kutanga "kurwisa" musikana ane mibvunzo yakaoma, uye zvino anopa danho kumusikana pachake, uyo anototanga kuzvifadza uye kuramba achiziva;
- nguva dzose kugadzirisa chinangwa chayo, inoita mamiriro ezvinhu umo musikana anoita seanomukandira. Iyi nzira inonzi "kwete kukonzera marwadzo kumukadzikadzi."
Zvose zvaizova zvakanaka kana musikana wacho achiona "kufambidzana" uku sechiedza chechiedza. Uye chii chingaita kune avo vane mwoyo wakaputsika uye vakapwanyika? Hazviiti kuti uwane matanho anonyengera akadaro munguva yemberi?
Hazviiti kuti zvive zvakakanganiswa nehutano kuverenga kwekusarudza-up?
Kutanga, kuitira kuti usatombodzika pane imwe chete, zvinokosha kuti uzvisarudzire iwe, asi chii chaunoda kubva pakuwedzera hukama nejaya iri jaya? Hazviiti kuti uve wekurwa kwefositi yekutora?
Kana iwe wakakwidziridzwa mune zvakasimba uye usagamuchiri zvepabonde kweusiku humwe, saka zvakakosha kuti uwedzere kutarisa uye wakangwarira. Izvi zvinoreva kuti, usazvibvumira kuti uone "pachena" iwe pachako, nguva yakareba kuti utarise munhu muziso pazuva rokutanga uye edza kubhadhara kofi mu cafe iwe, kwete iwe. Izvo zvingavawo zvisingakoshi kuti uise mibvunzo iri pamashalofu, ayo achave nenguva yekukubvunza iwe kusati kwasvika kuparara kwekukuvadza, kureva, asati ataura sekunyengedza nemaoko ake. Kazhinji, kunyengedza, pickups inoshandisa chigadziro chenguva pfupi (mutemo unspoken), iyo maminitsi gumi. Kana iwe usingakwanisi kutsungirira zvipo zvemudiki uyu munyengeri, iwe unogona kurumbidzwa! Iwe wakangosiya pikari! Iwe unogona kuzvikudza iwe pachako!
Usambofa upindura mibvunzo yekutora yekusarudza-nemwoyo wose, kuitira kuti gare gare, pamwe nekukwanisa kuenderera mberi kwekukurukurirana, haaikwanisi kuvaka nzira yekutaurira iwe uye usabvumira unhu hwakanaka, zvisingaiti, iyi ndiyo mugumo unonzwisisika wemabasa ake nemisodzi yako. Uine nastornuvstvovaniyu yakawandisa pane zvepabonde pakarepo, usanonoka, taurira munhu wose zvaunofunga pamusoro pake uye kumubata muve pari yemota. Chiito chakadaro chichabvisa zvachose munhu uyu anonyadzisa kwete muedzo wokunyengedza manheru ano, asi achaita kuti iwe ufunge nezvekugadzirisa maitiro ako uye zvichida kuita pfungwa yekuve macho macho.
Kana ari pamusangano wejaya, iye asingatyi kutaura, haakuvhiringidzi iwe, uye ane chivimbo chekutendesa, anonyatsogadzirisa uye anotarisira kufamba kwose kwechitarisiko chake, ipapo pasina kushamisika, pakarepo kumhanya kubva kwaari pasi pepfungwa chero ipi zvayo. Munhu anowanzogara aine nguva nguva dzose mumagariro haasi iye maonero ake, mazwi, mhedziso yezwi. Kazhinji munhu anowanzoita pamusangano haana kunyara uye ane nyadzi, kwete kuisa ruoko rwake pafudzi rako, kutya kubvunza mubvunzo wakawedzerwa.Zvinhu chete izvo munhu anowanzogona kukukoka kune firimu kana nzvimbo yerudo apo haufaniri kushandisa mari yakawanda. Nokuda kwake, chinhu chikuru ndechekucherechedza uye kugamuchirwa naye sezvaanoita nekukanganisa kose.
Kana iwe uchinakidzwa nekutengesa kwevatengi bhokisi rakanaka revarume uye iwe haurambidzi "kutamba" naye murudo rweusiku humwe, iwe unogona kutamba pikicha uye unopedza nguva uchibatsirwa, zvose mweya nemuviri. Kubatsirwa kwechikamu chacho hachina kukonzerwa zvakadaro!
Chinhu chikuru hachisi chokuwira nekuda kwemaitiro emhando iyi yemagadzire, ramba wakangwarira uye usabvumira kunyanya kukuvadza uye kukubata iwe.yeuka mutemo usina kuoma, asi unoshanda, uyo uri muhucheche amai vose vanokurudzira musikana wake - kusataurirana nevasingazivi. Ikojoka, hongu, asi mumaseko ose kune chipo chakanaka chechokwadi.