Iwe wakanga uchiri kufambidzana kwenguva refu kana kuti wakagara pamwe kwenguva yakareba kare, uye mutungamiri wako pabhiza jena nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero haagoni kusarudza kukupa chipo chemunhu nemoyo. Ngatione-nei murume akachinja pfungwa dzake pamusoro pokuroora iwe?
Munhu wose ndiye wokutanga uye anotungamira murume. Hazvina mhosva kuti isu, vakadzi, takanga tisingafariri kunzwa izvi, asi varume, maererano nehupenyu hwavo, isatimu. Sezvo akazvisunga nemuchato, murume anotya kurasikirwa nerusununguko irworwo runokosha, iyo mweya mutsva yemhepo, kuti mhete pamunwe wake inomudzivisa iye wese kuwanika kweropajeni. Edza kutaura nemunhu wako akasarudzwa, tsanangura kuti kuroorana haisi ganda, iyo inobatanidzwa kubatsiro yemhuri uye dzidzo yakakodzera yevana remangwana. Kuroorana kubatsirana pamwe chete, kutsigirwa, kuwirirana uye kunzwisisa, asiwo basa rinoda miitiro inoshamisa.
Uyezve, murume angave asina chokwadi pamusoro pako. Zvichida pane zvimwe zvikonzero zvekusatenda. Kana iye anotya, kamwe kamwe iwe panguva yekupedzisira, achikupa iwe kuti uroore, iwe iwe pachako uchachinja pfungwa dzako uye hausi kuda kurasikirwa neusununguko rwako, uchitiza kubva pairi kuenda kune rusununguko.
Taura zvakawanda uye kurukura nemunhu ukama hwako. Mpei chikonzero chekuvimba newe.
Asi Mwari akudzivise iwe kuti uise pamusoro pake pfungwa yekuroorana pamangwanani emangwanani, masikati uye kudya kwemanheru! Kutsungirira mumagazini yakaoma yakadai yevarume isingadikanwi. Iye achangotiza kubva kwauri kana ukamunamatira nechisungo chebhokisi renha, uye iwe unomukwevera kuhofisi yepamutemo yepamusoro.
Chimwe chikonzero chinokosha chechinetso chingava kupesana kwemaonero, kutungamirira shure kwekusawirirana nekurwa pakati pako. Hapasisina mararamiro anoenderana. Kutanga iwe unoda kugadzirisa zvose zvinenge zvisinganzwisisiki.
Edza kugovana zvinodiwa nemurume wako. Saka iwe uchava pedyo naye. Iwe uchapedza nguva yakawanda pamwe chete, uye iye achanzwisisa kuti wakave wava pedyo nekudikanwa kwaari. Haazodi kukurasikirwa newe uye achafunga nezvenzira yekukusunga nokusingaperi kwauri nemakumbo echikwata.
Pamwe ikozvino iwe uri shamwari yake, uye kuitira kuti iwe upe chipo chaanoda nguva yekukuya, kukuziva iwe mumamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana. Uye zviri nani pane zvakanaka. Izvi zvinoreva kuti musanangurwa wako anotora chisarudzo chomudzimai wako zvakanyanyisa uye kana akakuita chipo, chichava chake kupfuura chinonzwisisika uye chisarudzo chisarudzo uye zvirokwazvo haazokusiyi mumwedzi shomanana yekuroorana.
Nenguva isipi kusagutsikana kwako nehupenyu, hupenyu nehukama hwako huchaita kuti uve mukadzi - "saw". Izvi hazvizochengetedze murume wako newe uye zvirokwazvo hazvizoiti kuti afunge pfungwa dzekuroora. Edza kuchinja nenzira yakanaka. Tarisa kubatsirwa kwako pane zvose. Izvi zvichaita kuti upenyu huve nyore kune iwe uye ramangwana rako (rega tariro) kumurume wako.
Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha chinogona kuva kukudarika kwako kwakanyanya kwebhajhini yekubatana. Overruns iwe mari. Murume wacho achiri kutsvaga mudzimai akachenjera uye muchengeti wemhuri.
Kana kuti sarudzo yako yakanyanyisa zvokuti inofunga kuti muchato unoshandiswa nemari. Funga, unoda Plushkin yakadaro yeupenyu here? Uye pamwe chete, zvichida haadi kupedza mari yake yakatendeseka pane iwe nemhuri, uye kwete paari pachake.
Pamusoro pemusarudzo usina kunaka wekuti munhu apedze kuroorana kwepamutemo newe iwe unogona kuva nemigumisiro uye maitiro asina kunaka munguva yakapfuura. Zvichida mudzimai wake wekare-mukadzi akamupandukira, akamusiya kana asina kumuremekedza, semusoro wemhuri. Iye zvino anonyanya kutya achidzokorora kurwadziwa kwaakawana uye haadi kuzvinzwa zvakare newe. Kuongorora kwakanyatsoedza kuedza kudzidza pamusoro pehupenyu hwake hwepanyika uye humuvimbise zvinyoronyoro kuti iwe uchava mubatsiri wake wakasimba, usamusiya uye unotsigira zvose mukusuwa uye mumufaro.
Zvichida wakatove wakaroora, iwe une mwana uye murume haadi kuunza chibereko chekutanga chekuda iwe nemurume wako wekare. Munyaya iyi zviri nani kushanyira mudzidzi wepfungwa wepamwechete pamwechete.
Chikonzero chokuramba muchato chinogonawo kuva chiitiko chakaipa chevabereki vake uye kurera kwake mumhuri isingafari muwanano. Zvakakodzera kufanotsanangura kuti havasi vose vakaroorana vasina mufaro. Vamwe vanhu vane unyanzvi hunoshamisa hwekurarama nemufaro upenyu hwavo hwose, kupa vana vavo rudo uye kunyange kufamba mumapaki nepeni pakwegura kwakwegura.
Tarisa zvakare paukama hwako naamai vake nehama. Zvichida haufariri ivo? Zvichida munhu anotungamirirwa navo uye anotungamirirwa naye pakuita zvisarudzo pamusoro pewanano. Muchiitiko ichocho, kana iwe uchiri kuda kuva pamwe neshamwari yako yakasarudzwa, zvino, iwe haufaniri kuve neukama hukama hwakanaka nemhuri yake.
Kana iwe wakagara pamwe kwenguva yakareba, ipapo murume wacho atozvitadza. Iwe hauzombofi wakabva pane imwe nzvimbo. Sei uchizvipedza uye iwe uchiroorwa? Uye saka zvinhu zvose zvakanaka! Muchiitiko ichi, iwe unogona kuderedza mitsipa yako zvishoma. Enda kune shamwari dzako mu-cinema, mune cafe mune chipfeko chitsva uye iva nechokwadi chekudzoka kubva kufamba nemaruva. Murume wako wamangwana zvirokwazvo haazosiyi chokwadi ichi asi asina hanya uye achafunga zvakaoma pamusoro pezvimwe zviito.
Chikonzero ichochowo chimiro chake chinobva kune chakanaka, chichimhanya nymph iyo yaimbowa murudo, iwe uchashanduka mukadzi akaora, ane mafuta, mune jira rinopfeka girasi, ane pini yakakamukwazisa manheru oga oga mushure mebasa. Mamiriro acho anecdotal, asi varume vakawanda vanotya kuchinja kwechikadzi ichi.
Kusagadzikana kwako kwepanyama kana kuparara kwakasimba mukuita zvepabonde, zvakare, hakuiti kuti munhu ataure kuti aende newe pasi pe korona. Iko kutotoda chiito chekuita pane yako. Zvichida, zvipfeko, jasi idzva rakanaka uye shangu dzomukati hazvizove dzakanyanyisa mukudhakwa kwako?
Kana pasina chimwe chezvinetso zviri pamusoro apa kugadzirisa dambudziko uye iwe usingazivi kuti nei murume akachinja pfungwa dzake kuroora newe, saka tinokukwazisai nomwoyo wose! Iwe une munhu mumwechete uyo anozivikanwa mumasikirwo se "muchengeti ane chokwadi"! Kune boka revarume vasina kuroora kana ani uye haamboiti. Hazvina maturo kuvamanikidza kuti varoore iwe. Kunyange kana iwe ukabudirira, uye achakukoka iwe kuti uende kunzvimbo yepamutemo yekunyora, ipapo murume akadai, marwadzo, haadi kuda mudzimai wake kana vana.
Zvichengete iwe pachako! Ropafadzo yakanaka uye kubudirira kwauri muupenyu hwako hwega!