Kakawanda, kubvira kwenguva refu, pane zvishoma zvakashandurwa nenzira yemafungiro anoita kuti ukama huve hwakanaka. Kuzara kwechokwadi kunokonzera kukwana kwehukama pakati pemurume nemukadzi zvakafanana nemazuva evechidiki vevabereki vedu, uye kunyange madzitateguru apfuura. Funga nezvezvikamu zvepfungwa iyi muchidimbu.
Yokutanga inonzwa
Kunyangwe muzera redu teknolojia yakareba, hapana chakashandurwa pamusana pepfungwa. Ndirwo rudo ruchiri iro rutivi rukuru rwehukama pakati pevanhu vaviri, zvose zvinongova chikonzero chaicho chinobuda. Kana kune rudo rwemuviri pakati pemurume nemudzimai, iyi ndiyo danho rekutanga, kuitira kuti ukama hwavo huve hwakanaka.
Tarisa-tarisa, tarisa hama dzako, shamwari neshamwari, uhu hukama hunoita sewe unofanirwa kutevedzera uye uchifunga kuti uri pasi pehutano hwakadaro? Mhinduro ndeyechokwadi rudo. Tichitarisa mapoka maviri akakodzera mumaziso edu, isu tinotanga kutumira chimwe chinhu kubva kwavari kune hukama hwedu, chimwe chinhu chinoita sechinokosha uye chinokosha, chimwe chinhu chinobvumira ukama hwedu kuonekwa sekanakisisa. Hapana kunyengera, kuti tinotora chimwe chinhu chakanaka kune vamwe, nokuti vanhu vanodzidza kwete chete pamakanganisa. Nokugadzirisa mufambiro wemumwe munhu kwatiri, isu pachedu tinova nani, uye regai vamwe vatore chimwe chinhu chakanaka kubva kwavari pachavo.
Chechipiri ndechekuvimbika uye kusavimbika
Chimwe chezvinhu zvinonyanya kukosha pakuvakira ukama hwakanaka, hutano hwakanaka ndiko kukwanisa kusakonzera kukakavara mumamiriro ezvinhu asina chinhu. Zviri pachena kuti kunyange kana vaviri vacho vachidanana, vanoramba vari vanhu vaviri, mumwe nomumwe ane maziso ake pahupenyu, nemitemo yavo, mazano, matambudziko uye manzwiro evanhu. kutarisa zvakasikwa, uye kwete sekuti mumwe anoita shamwari kufarirwa kana kufara. Hapana hukama husina kukakavara, asi zviri nani kuedza kuvaderedza kuburikidza nekukurukurirana nekukurukurirana.
Kana, shure kwezvose, zvakaitika kuti manzwiro akatorwa, kunyange vanhu vane ukama hwakakwana, havazobvumi ani zvake kuti ave chapupu chekusiyana kwavo. Kune vakaroorana avo vanotsanangurwa nehukama hunoita pasinei nenzvimbo, nguva uye nhamba yevanhu vakakomberedza, asi zvisinei chero vanhu vese vanopoteredza vanofunga nezvehukama hwavo hunoenderana. Vakaroorana umo avo vanobatsirana vasina mamiriro ezvinhu vanozvibvumira kuzvinyadzana, uye kunyanya kana mumwe munhu-anokonzera mamwe manzwiro anodziya. Saka, kana uri kuedza kuita zvakanaka, edza kuva nechokwadi chokuti iwe pachako kana mumwe munhu haazive nezvekusabvumirana kwako kana kusagutsikana kwako.
Izvi hazvirevi kuti kana chimwe chinhu chisingafananidzi newe mumufambidzani wako, kana mumashoko ake unoda kugara wakanyarara nguva dzose, kuunganidza zvakashata, izvo zvichakurumidza kubuda. Taurai mumwe nemumwe, kurukurai nguva iyo inoita seyakanganisa iwe, uye nyatsodzidza kukanganwirana zviduku zviduku.
Chechitatu - zvakasiyana nezvinodiwa
Kune vakaroorana vakanaka, haisi dambudziko iro munhu mumwe anoda chinhu chimwe uye mumwe anoita chimwe chinhu chakasiyana. Dambudziko rinomuka kana munhu asina hanya nezvinofungwa nemumwe uye asingatarisiri nezvei. Vanhu vaviri, vanofanira kunge vachiziva zvido zveumwe neumwe, vanofanira kukwanisa kuteerera uye kutsigira hurukuro kune firimu kana bhuku iyo inenge isina kunyanya kufadza kune imwe, asi yakagadzira pfungwa isina kufanira kune imwe.
Nguva yechina yekubatana
Vavengi vaviri vanoedza kupedza nguva yakawanda sezvinobvira pamwechete. Havazoendi kune rimwe divi pazororo kunze kweivo, havazoendi imwe chete kune imwe cinema kana yemitambo.
Munguva yedu, zvakaoma kwazvo kuti vaviri vavo vabatane nguva yakasununguka, basa rimwe nerimwe raanoshandisa nguva yakawanda, uye rechipiri rinoshanda vhiki rose. Asi izvi hazvifaniri kuva chikonzero nei iwe usingakwanise kupemberera zuva rekuzivana, zuva remuchato uye zvimwe zvakakosha kune vamwe vako vabereki.
Edza kutsungirira nhau dzezuva nezuva pamwe chete, kutora pamwechete kana kubika, kana kuenda kuchitoro kusvika pane zvekudya pane zvekutengesa.