Mune hukama hupi, kunyange hunyanya kupisa uye hunoshuva, kunogona kuuya kunononoka kwenguva pfupi. Dzimwe nguva chill pakati pevadzidzi vanopfuura pachavo, asi kune zviitiko apo kushungurudzika uye kusagutsikana kuri kuwedzera zuva rega rega, zvichikonzera kuparara. Saka chii chaunofanira kuita kana iwe uchinzwa kuti hukama huri hwakangofanana nehwaingova munguva ichangopfuura? Rudo rwakava tsika, chido chakanyangarika, iwe uri kutama kubva kune mumwe nemumwe, unopera kakawanda ...
Kana ukanyatsokoshesa ukama hwako, zvakakosha kuti uvarwise. Uye kuitira kuti usakunda dambudziko remangwana, edza kumutsira ukama hwako, ita chimwe chinhu zvachose chitsva kana chakakanganwa chakare.
Tsanangura manzwiro ako
Kunyange pasinei nokuti wakave pamwe kwenguva yakareba uye munhu wose ane chokwadi chekunzwa kwemwoyo kune mumwe, imwe nguva zvakare kutaura pamusoro pe rudo rwako harungakuvadzi. Danai mumwe nemumwe mazwi ane rudo, taura nezvekunzwa kwako.
Nokufamba kwenguva, vanhu vanoshandiswa zvakanyanya kune imwe nguva kuti kuderera kwakanyanya kunobhadharwa kuonekwa. Ndosaka zvakakosha zvikuru kurumbidza mumwe nemumwe. Iko nguva dzose inofadza uye inokurudzira kuti uve nani zviri nani uye zvakanyanya kunaka, uye semudiwa wako.
Danaidza kufarira
Vanhu vanogara pamwe chete kwenguva yakareba, vadzidza pamusoro pomumwe nomumwe zvakakwana zvose. Vamwe vanhu vakaita sazvo, asi vazhinji vanorasikirwa nehanya. Ita kuitira kuti mudiwa wako atange kukuyemura iwe uye zvakare kushamisika. Iwe unogona kutanga nechokunze, somuenzaniso, shandura bvudzi rako. Zvingava zvakanaka kugadzirisa iyo wardrobe, kubhadhara zvakananga kumapurasitiki. Zvichava zviri nani kana iwe ukasainira kutamba kana kuita chimwe chinhu chakafanana. Zvechokwadi, ichaunza chimwe chido uye chakavanzika muhukama uye kubatsira mubatsiri wako kuwana chimwe chinhu chitsva mauri.
Ratidza unyoro
Iva munyoro kune mumwe nemumwe. Kuremekedza uye rudo kune zvakanaka, asi yeuka kuti iwe hausi shamwari, asi kutanga kune murume nemudzimai, saka usakanganwa nezvekutsvoda uye kubata zvinyoro. Nenzira, vamwe vanofunga nezvepfungwa vanofunga kuti varume vanotsvoda nemadzimai avo mangwana vasati vaenda kubasa, vararame pamwero wegore yakareba kupfuura avo vasingaiti.
Kushushikana sekuunganidza
Vanhu vari nevanotenzi vavo chaivo. Mumwe wako, zvichida akashandisa iwe uye anofunga kuti haungawani chero kupi zvako. Pachiitiko ichi unogona kuyeuka anecdote duku: Usati waroora, mwenga nemuroori vati kune umwe neumwe: "Ndinokudai iwe chete", uye shure kwekuti "Iwe unondida chete".
Ndicho chikonzero, kana iwe wakanga uri pamwe kwenguva yakareba, iwe unofanirwa kuzvicherechedza kunyange kupfuura kupfuura iwe pawakatanga kusangana. Kana iwe usingadziviriki, vamwe varume vanotanga kukuteerera. Izvi zvichaita kuti murume wake atarise kwauri nemaziso akasiyana uye agodananazve. Chero chete negodo, chinhu chikuru hachisi chokudarika, kunyanya kana wako wako ane godo.
Tarisa zvinhu zvakafanana
Tarisa zvakanyanya, zvichida iwe hauna maitiro anojairika. Ratidza kufarira mumabasa omurume wake, edza kuita zvechiitiko chake. Haisi pfungwa yakaipa yekuuya nemamwe marudzi evanhu vanoita basa rinowanzokukwezva iwe mose.
Shandisa nguva pamwe chete
Zvichida, vazhinji vevanhu vakaroorana vasina kurara vakagara pamwe kwenguva yakareba, zvakasiyana nevakaroorana, izvo zvisingawanzoitiki pamazuva kana kuti havazviiti zvachose. Saka haifaniri kuva. Kuti hukama huve hunojeka uye hunofadza, iwe unofanirwa kuenda kune zviitiko zvakasiyana-siyana, makontikiti, enda kumafirimu, enda kune cafe, kungofamba pamwe chete kana neshamwari. Iyi ndiyo nzira iyo vanhu vanorarama nayo, hukama hwavo huri kutanga. Uye iwe, zvichida, unogona kubva kunze kwekucherechedza, kufarira kwavanoita kune mumwe nemumwe uye pamwe chete pamwe zvakanaka uye kufara.
Ita mazuva ekudanana
Chimbofungidzira kushamiswa kwemurume wako, kana iwe uchibva kubasa, achakuona iwe wakanaka, mune chipfeko chinonyengera. Mukamuri muchapisa makenduru uye kutamba mimhanzi yerudo. Mushure mekudya kwemanheru mune imwe nzvimbo yepedyo, iwe uchaidha kwaari. Kunyange kana iwe usina tarenda chaiyo mukudamba, unogona kunyora mune zvidzidzo zvepurastiki, tarisa mavhidhiyo paInternet, uye iwe uchabudirira. Nditende, ini shamwari yako zvirokwazvo ichakoshesa kushamisika kwakadaro.
Ipai mumwe nomumwe zvipo uye zvinoshamisa
Nokufamba kwenguva, vanhu vazhinji vanorega kuteerera. Iwe haufaniri kumirira chero zororo kana zuva rokuzvarwa kuti uite munhu kushamisika kana kupa chipo. Hamudi here kuti mudiwa wako anofara sei? Iva nechokwadi chekuteerera mazwi ake. Munhu wese anongogara achikurukurirana anoramba achitaura zvaanoda. Munhu waunoda achafara chaizvo kana iwe ukanyatsoteerera, uchicherechedza zvose zvese zvakataurwa, uye unozoita kuti zvive zvipo zvinofadza uye zvinoshamisa.
Kurukurirana mumwe nomumwe
Tora nguva yekukurukurirana. Tsvaka miniti kuti utaure zuva rega rega, bvunza mudiwa wako nezvekubudirira nezvinetso. Teerera kune mumwe wako. Kana iwe kazhinji usingarevi moyo nemwoyo, unoisa pangozi kubva kune umwe neumwe.
Zvakanaka kwazvo, kana panguva yekukurukura iwe uchayeuka nguva dzinofadza uye dzinonakidza dzakaitika muupenyu hwako. Ichakuswededza pedyo uye kukuyeuchidza kuti unogona sei kuva pamwe chete.
Munhu mumwe nomumwe anofanira kunge ane nzvimbo yega
Kushandisa nguva pamwe chete, hongu, kwakanaka, asi haufaniri kuwedzeresa. Vimba neunodiwa wako, haufaniri kutora matanho acho ose. Uye iwe, uye haafaniri kunge ane zvizhinji zvakafanana, asiwo chimwe chinhu chaanoita.
Dzosira hupenyu hwepedyo
Saka nyika yakarongeka, kuti muukama hwepedyo haigoni kutsamwisa zvishuvo. Nokufamba kwenguva, vanhu vanojaira kune mumwe nomumwe, chido chekurara zvepabonde zvachose chinorasika. Panzvimbo yekuedza kumutsira ukama nenzira imwe uye kuwana chikonzero chekugadzirisa, vazhinji vanobva vatanga kufunga kuti mumwe wako ane mumwe munhu.
Mukuderera kwekuita zvepabonde, pasina mhaka haigoni kupa mhosva munhu, sezvo mashoko akadaro akakuvadza murume wepfungwa. Pane njodzi yokuti murume wako, kana achinzwa zvirevo uye kuzvidzwa, achaenda kune rumwe rutivi kuti atsvake nyaradzo.
Yeuka, hukama hukwanise kuva nguva imwe chete. Chido chinomuka pakutanga kwehukama, mune ramangwana, chinoshandurwa kuva chivimbo, chido chekuswedera pedyo uye kunzwa mumwe nomumwe. Kunonguva nguva munhu anoramba achifunga kuti kukwanisa kuita zvepabonde nguva dzose uye kwose kwose kumumutsa mumaziso evakadzi.
Kana kuita zvepabonde kubva kanoverengeka pazuva kwakatanga kuitika 4-5 kavhiki, uye iwe haufariri, usakurumidza kutsvaga mumwe wako. Edza kutarisa zvikonzero, zvichida mudiwa wako aneta chaizvo kana chimwe chinhu chiri kumunetsa. Ita zvakasiyana-siyana muhupenyu hwepabonde, ita kuti iwe waunoda uite massage inoshusha, kutamba, shandisa zvese zvako mazamu.
Yeuka kuti hukama hwevanhu vazhinji hunovhiringidzwa nekuda kwekuti havana kuziva kana kuti havadi kugadzirisa matambudziko avo, havagoni kuenda kune imwe nhanho, panzvimbo payo, vachizvikanda mumatambudziko matsva.