Uye zvinogoneka kuti mumugwagwa uyu uchasangana nemumwe munhu anokwanisa kukupa izvo zvinoshaikwa muukama hwako nemurume wako, uye hazvina basa kana zviri zvepabonde, rudo, nhanzvi itsva kana, semuenzaniso, banal fur coat. Icho chaicho choupombwe chinhu chinokosha, uye kana ukasarudza pamusoro pekuita kukakavadzana uku, saka iwe unoda kuti uve nechokwadi chokuti hauna kubatwa, uye kana zvakadaro, zvino mubvunzo unomuka, kuti ungashandura sei murume wake? Ngatiedzei kunzwisisa nyaya iyi iri pasi apa
Asi usati waenderera mberi uchienda kune zvakasiyana-siyana zve "kuvanza," tinofanira kukurukura rudo irworwo haruna kubatanidzwa mukunyengedzera, zvisinei iwe haufaniri kufunga nezve "kuvanza," asi pamusoro pezvaunofanira kuita newanano yako. Uye mubvunzo uyu, sezvamunoziva, nyaya ino haipinduri.
Zvakanaka, zvino ngatitange kufunga nezvezano, chii chaunofanira kuita, kuitira kuti kunyengera kwako kurege kuwanikwa. Chokutanga pane zvose, ndicharondedzera kuti tichaparadzanisa zvakanakira mazano ekutengesa kwekanguva uye kwehukama hwepanguva, sezvo izvi zvinoda nzira dzakasiyana dze "kuvanza."
Rimwe-nguva kutengesa.
Muhupenyu, zvinhu zvose zvinoitika - mapato, mabiko, makambani, kazhinji, marudzi ose ezvokuvaraidza! Uye zvino, kana iwe uri pasi pekuseka, zviri nyore kuita kukanganisa uye kurara nemumwe munhu waunoshanda naye kubasa kana shamwari yekare yekuchikoro, asi pano chinhu chikuru hachisi chokurasikirwa musoro wako zvachose, unofanira kunge une chikonzero chaicho chaicho chikonzero nei iwe wakarara. Kunyange zvakadaro hapana mamiriro ezvinhu haagoni kupera kwenguva yakareba, foni haifaniri kunge yakanyanyisa kuvharwa, kana iwe ukagara usiku, unoda kuuya nechikonzero uye uudze murume wake kare, uye kwete shure kweusiku. Uyewo, mushure mokudzokera kumusha kumurume wake, unofanirwa kuzvichengeta iwe pachako, usanetseka. Sezvo mutemo, iyo inowedzera manzwiro anokonzera kusava nechokwadi. Usati wauya, uzviise iwe mufananidzo wako wezuva nezuva, murume haafaniri kuona kuti iwe une chimwe chinhu. Uye, zvechokwadi, kuparadza humwe uchapupu hwezvinhu, kuiswa kubva kumakondomu, kutarisa kubva kuresitorendi nezvimwe zvakadaro. Uye pakupedzisira, iwe unofanirwa kuzvibata zvakasununguka, sokunge hapana chakaitika, uye ipapo murume angangodaro haazofungi chinhu.
Periodic relationships.
Kana iwe uine unogara nokusingaperi kune rumwe rutivi, saka zvinhu zvose zvinofanira kunge zvakanyatsofungidzirwa, kushamwaridzana mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro hakugamuchirwi, ndiye iye anotungamirira kukundikana. Zvechokwadi, zvichava zvakanaka kukundwa nechishuwo, asi zvino zvingava zvakaoma kutsanangura kwawakanyangarika mukati mezuva apo murume wako akutsvaka iwe. Saka, kutanga kwezvose, chenjerera, kwete mafambiro asina kufanira.
Chimwe chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokubatana nemudiwa. Chokutanga pane zvose, hapana mvumo kubva kumba, kunyange kana murume asiripo. Dana chete kubva kubasa, kana kubva kumashini. Kana iwe wakagamuchira foni pafoni yako, mushure mokukurukurirana fura mashoko pamusoro payo, chengetedza nhamba sehuwandu hwemwe shamwari. Nezvekufambira mberi kwekufambira mberi, zvichave zvakakodzera kutaura pamusoro pe ISQ uye e-mail, kana kubatana kuchave kuburikidza navo, zvino zviri nani kuvenga nhamba yakawedzera yeCIQ kana bhokisi rechipiri remak mail.
Uyewo, purogiramu yemisangano inoita basa rinokosha. Inofanira kuva yakadaro kuti purogiramu yako yezuva nezuva haifaniri kuchinja zvakawanda, kana kuuya nechikonzero chinokurudzira nei uchida kuenda kamwechete pavhiki kwemaawa mashomanana
Uye zvechokwadi, kufunga uye kuzvidzora, mukukurukurirana nemurume wako, unofanira kugara wakafanana nekare.
Kana iwe ukashandisa zvinorayirwa pamusoro apa, saka njodzi yekuona kumutengesa kwemurume wako, ichava yakadzika.