Chokwadi chinotyisa
Tinoziva kuti ivo havakwanisi. Imwe yakasviba, yechipiri isingateereri, inokanganwa, isina kururama, inopisa-moto, tarenda rechitatu inosanganisa zvose izvi. Asi zvakaderera pasi, mumwe nomumwe wedu anonyatsoziva kuti ndiye iye akakodzera. Usimbe kana kukanganwa - zvikanganiso zvakanaka, kureva, mazambiringa akaoma anotengesa benzi angelic character. Isu tinobvuma nyore nyore kuti isu pachedu kuti zvakaoma kwatiri kuisa pfungwa dzedu pamabasa, "asi zvakakosha kuti mutariri ataure kusakosha kwedu, kurasikirwa nechido chedu, kurara uye chido chekuuya kuhofisi ne10: 00. "Patinotaura pamusoro pezvinyorwa zvedu zvinonzwika, pamwoyo tinoramba tichitenda kuti hazvina kunyanya kukosha, uye kana tikaenzaniswa nevamwe vatinoshanda tiri vadzidzisi vakanaka. Saka, apo vamwe vanotaura kushaya uku, tinoshamiswa zvikuru uye tinogumbura, "anotsanangura kudaro nyanzvi yezvepfungwa Irina Romanova. Uye chii chatinofunga? Isu tinobatwa zvakaipa! Kunyanya sezvo iri kungwarira kutaura mazwi akakwanisa masuniti. Chero chipi zvacho chinotsoropodzwa - chakakodzerwa kana kwete, chinoratidzika sechinyomba, chisingaiti, chakashata. Kazhinji tinofunga kuti kutarisa kwakanaka kunongoratidzira kusavhiringidza kwevatsoropodzi, kuumba iyo inonzi sandwich: kubva kumusoro uye pasi - inongova mazwi chete, uye mukati-mucheka unogona kuiswa chepfu. Uye ndicho chikonzero munhu anongwarira nekudzivirira asingagamuchiri kudya kwakakurumidza.
Kubva kumativi
Mhinduro yekutanga mukupindura kwekutaura kwakashata ndekuda kwekugumburwa uye kuenda. Kana kuti taura chimwe chinhu chisingafadzi mukudzoka. Asi hapana kana chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka. Zvadaro iwe haufaniri kunetseka kwete nekuda kwekutsoropodza, asiwo nekuda kwemashoko ako echisimba uye zviito. Kuti uone kusiyana kwekunze pasina manzwiro asina kufanira, vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanokurudzira kudzidza kuona mamiriro kubva kumativi. Patinotarisa zviri kuitika nemeso edu, haticherechedzi chinhu kunze kwemunhu anotaura mazwi anonyadzisa. Asi kana ukaedza kupinda mubasa rekucherechedza, unogona kuona zvakawanda. Chokutanga pane zvose, unofanira kutora kufema kwakadzika uye zvibvunze mubvunzo wekuti: "Chii chandinoita sechinhu zvino?" Izvi zvinobvumira kuti vanhu vasave nemanzwiro uye vasapotsa zvinyorwa zvamungabvumirana nazvo.
Kunyanya
Kazhinji, kana tikatsoropodzwa, hatinzwi zvinhu, asi zvinowanzopomerwa. Tinoudzwa kuti "waita chikanganiso," tinonzwa "iwe une tarenda," iwe unoti "iwe unogona kuzviita zviri nani", tinonzwa "iwe uri mupotori." Ichokwadi kuti munhu awedzere kuwanda kwehutambudziro. Kana tikatsoropodza basa redu, kunyanya iyo iyo, inoratidzika kwatiri, takaisa mweya yedu, inova dambudziko rechokwadi. Asi chaizvoizvo, kazhinji kacho kutonga hakusi maonero edu enyika yose seyakakwana, asi chimwe chiito choga, chikanganiso chinogona kugadziriswa zvakakwana. "Zvakakosha kuparadzanisa kutsoropodza kwezviito kubva kutsoropodza munhu. Kana ivo vakati: pie haisi inonaka, zvinoreva kuti ndiyo pie chaiyo inotsoropodzwa, iyo nguva ino yakakundikana. Hasi uyanzvi hwedu hwokugadzira uye kunyanya kwete isu. Mukuru anokuratidza kusagutsikana kwake neruzivo rwako rweChirungu? Haana kureva kuti iwe "wakadzidza zvisina maturo pachikoro uye nevose - mushandi mukuru". Anongoti unofanirwa kudzokorora mashoko ako uye ita zvaunotaura. Uye hapana chimwezve.
Kubva pamadziro
Uye zvinoitika kuti kutsoropodzwa kuri pachena kusakarurama uye kunogumbura. Somuenzaniso, iwe unogara usiku pane imwe purogiramu uye watove wakakanganwa kwevhiki rose. Asi mutengi, nekuda kweunhu hwakashata kana kungofara, wakatsoropodza basa rako muguruva, pasina kutsanangura zvakajeka zvaasingadi. Kana kuti nharo dzakanyanya kureveka zvokuti zvinotoshamisa. Iwe iwe chete panguva ino hausi kukaseka - kukanganiswa nemisodzi. Zvakakosha kutaurira mutadzi - zvose zvaaida kukuudza, iwe wakanzwa uye wakadzidza. Hongu, ivo vanoti, Ivan Ivanovich, ndinokunzwisisa, ndichafunga, ndichazvigadzirisa. Saka nzira inonyanya kumira yekumisa hurukuro uye kuzvidzivirira kubva kune imwe nzvimbo yekunyadzisa. Mashoko asina kururama anowanzotaura kuti muongorori haasi mumweya uye anoedza kuvandudza mafungiro nekupedza mafungiro akanaka emuumwe. Usamupa mukana! Uye kana kubvumirana kwako kugadzikana kusingabatsiri, uye mhaka yacho haingagumi, fungidzira: mazwi anokuvadza anononoka kubva kwauri - semabhora kubva pamadziro. Mukufunga kwepfungwa, kune nzira yakadaro yokudzivirira: unofanirwa kufungidzira kuti rusvingo rusingaoneki rwakaonekwa rwakapoteredza iwe, richikuchengetedza kubva kune utsinye hwekunze. Uye regai vataure zvavanoda, - hazvinei newe uye havatarisi. Kuongororwa mukudzidzira: kazhinji, pasina kuwana kukanganisa kunotarisirwa, anorwadza anopisa uye mushure mechinguva anouya nekukumbira ruregerero. "Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha hachisi kushandiswa pakuzviongorora kwako iyo yose yehuwandu hwemashoko matsva pamusoro pako. Kuongororwa iwe pachako ibhizimusi rako pachako, nharaunda iyo mukova wevamwe unorambidzwa. Yeuka: hazvina mhosva kuti unoshungurudza sei mazwi - inongova maonero evanhu vamire pamberi penyu, kunyange kana ari mukuru.
First Aid
Chimwe chimiro chekuita kune kutsoropodza kwehasha kune tsitsi. Bvumirana, kana munhu asina mafungiro zvino, zvino pane zvikonzero zveizvi. Zvichida maawa mashomanana adarika, akange achiitirwa utsinye nehurumende yepamusoro. Kana, izvo zvinogonawo, iye anongova godo rematarenda ako. Mamiriro akaipa emamiriro okunze, kuratidzika kusina kunaka mugirazi-iwe hauzive chii. "Chikonzero chakavanzika chokutsoropodza zvinowanzoshora nyika yose kana chikamu chayo. Asi iwe pachako hauna chokuita nacho, saka iwe hauna chikonzero chokuzvidya mwoyo pamusoro pezvirevo. Funga kuti mutadzi iye zvino akaoma kupfuura iwe, anonzwira tsitsi uye amurege achienda murugare, "- anorayira Irina Romanova. Zvichienderana nemamiriro acho ezvinhu, munhu anokwanisa kunzwira tsitsi mukunyarara kana kudanidzira. Semuenzaniso, kana kukurudzirwa kuchibvumira, tendeukira kumutsoropodzi: "Zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti iwe unogumbura. Iwe unonzwa zvakanaka here? "Izvi zvichamubatsira kuti ashandiswe uye afunge nezvematambudziko ake.
Shoko rinotsiviwa
"Iwe nguva dzose unonoka!" - anodaro mumwe waanoshanda navo, "iwe unokanganwa nguva dzose," mukuru wekumusoro anoti, "iwe wakavhiringidza zvose zvakare," mutengi anoti. Mushure memashoko aya, unogona kusasa musoro wako nemadota uye kubvuma kuti iwe uri munhu asina kunaka. Asi zviri nani kushandura mazwi akanzwa mumugwagwa unovaka. "Usarega vatsoropodzi vachiita uye vachiwedzeredza. Iwe zvechokwadi hausi kurasikirwa nemagwaro matsamba zuva rimwe nerimwe, uye ikonkiti jana kopi yesangano pane imwe nzvimbo yaenda. Kana, semuenzaniso, hausi "kukanganwa nguva dzose", asi nhasi wakagamuchira mari uye hauna kukurudzira zuva rekuroorana naye musi wekuzvarwa kwako. Mukuwedzera, chiremba wepfungwa anoyeuka kuti mune chero mutsara unogona kuwana tsanangudzo yechipiri. Izvi zvinoreva kuti iwe unogona kutarisisa zvakachengeteka chirevo chekurumbidza mukero yako. Somuenzaniso, kana vachiti: "iwe unotaurawo zvakanyanya", izvi zvinogona kushandurwa se "hongu, ndiri kufambidzana, kufambidzana nevamwe, ndine unyanzvi hwakanaka hwemashoko." Zvinonzi "kushanda mukufambisa kwekamba" - funga: "Ndiri musungwa anokonzera marathon anomhanya, ndinoita zvose nehana".
Direct Text
Uye dzimwe nguva kutsoropodzwa kwakafanana neshiri inobhururuka. Semuenzaniso, une tsika yekugara uchivhuvhuta vhudzi rako pamunwe wako paunofunga nezvazvo. Kana unofarira here kana pane kapu yekhofi uye vase nebhajike pedyo nekombiyuta. Hazvina kurambidzwa, kana mitemo yekambani, kana mitemo yezvakanaka. Asi zvakakodzera muboka kune mumwe munhu anopa mufaro nguva dzose uye nenzwi guru kuti ataure zvido kwauri. "Nzira yakajeka yekuudza mutauriri wacho ndeyekuti: iwe wakanzwisisa, asi iwe une nzvimbo yako pachako, uye iwe haungarambi, nokuti hauri kukuvadza ani zvake. Kana kutsoropodza kusina kunaka kana kusagadzikana, ivai vakasununguka kutaura nokutendeseka izvi uye mubvunze kuti musakwanisa kutaurazve, "anorayira Irina Romanova.
In a joke
Zvakakosha kudzidza kubvuma kutsoropodza nekuseka. "Iwe haugoni kuwana mutauro unozivikanwa nevashambadziri," waaishanda naye akati pashure pemakore mashanu apedza maitiro, uye yechitanhatu, marwadzo, haana kuitika. Vimbiso yokutora muenzaniso kubva kumutsoropodzi, nokuti iye "nyanzvi chaiye". Kana bhizimisi akangotaura, uye joke runobatsira inogona kukanganisa nekunyombwa. Asi iwe unogona uye unoseka iwe pachako. Smile uye ureurura: Ndakaita chikanganiso mumushumo, nokuti, "semafungiro chaiwo, ndinotambura neupenzi kamwe pagore." Kuzvidzora hakuzobvumiri mutariri kuti atsamwire. Mwoyo unofara uchakubatsira kutarisa zvinhu zviri nyore, kutora kutsoropodza zvakadzikama uye kunyange kuwana chimwe chinhu chinobatsira mairi.