"Hazvikwanisi kuita sezvi!" - chimwe chekutarisa kwekutanga kune nhau dzorufu rwomunhu wadikanwa, munharaunda iyi chimiro chedu kuziva kwedu kunoramba kugamuchira chokwadi. Nokudaro, munhu anenge achishungurudza pakutanga anotanga, akaoma, akaomeswa, asina misodzi, pane manzwiro ekuti zviri kuitika nenzira imwe neimwe hazviiti. Ichi ndicho chikamu chekutanga chekusafara - "kushamiswa." Inokurumidza kushandiswa ne "tsvaga" chikamu. Ichokwadi chinonzwisiswa sechishandiswa chifukidziro, nokuti kazhinji kune pfungwa yekuvapo kwewakada kufirwa. Manzwiro akadaro ndewopanyama, asi dzimwe nguva anotya, uye murume anozvibvunza mubvunzo-ndinoita mapenzi here?
Zvadaro zvinouya chikamu chekushungurudzika kwakanyanya - ino ndiyo nguva yakaoma zvikuru, iyo inotora kubva kumasvondo matanhatu kusvikira kune manomwe. Kutambura kwete pamweya chete, asiwo pane zvepanyama: kazhinji pane kushaya simba mumasumbu, kurasikirwa kwesimba, pfungwa yekutambudzika kwekufamba kwose, kushungurudzika mubhokisi, kushushikana kwakadzika uye kunorema, kuderera kunoshamisa kana kuwedzera kwekudya, kushungurudzika kwehope. Nhamba huru yemafungiro nemanzwiro anorwadza anobudirira mumwe nemumwe: kuora mwoyo, manzwiro ekushaya rubatsiro, kusakosha kwehupenyu, ruzivo rwekutadza kwavo mune zvakaitika.
Zvinotsigirwa nemufananidzo weakafa, chimwe nechimwe pane chimwe chikonzero chinosanganiswa nayo: mukombe - aida muenzaniso uyu, bhokisi reposvo - chete akabudisa mapepanhau, watch ndiyo chipo chake. Munhu anotanga kuzvidemba kuti havana kukwanisa kuita chimwe chinhu pamwe chete muupenyu.
Pakupedzisira, hupenyu hunopinda mukati, hurombo hunotyisa hunoguma kuva chinhu chikuru muupenyu hwemunhu. Zvisinei, nguva nenguva munhu achiri kunzwa "kumira kwekumhanya" - kwete kwenguva refu, asi kurwadziwa kunorwadza kwekushungurudzika. Anenge gore rimwe gare gare, chikamu chokupedzisira che "kugumisa" chinouya. Nzira yekupukunyuka dambudziko rinotyisa sei? Munhu angakunda sei dambudziko?
- Pakutanga iwe unofanira kuedza kushandisa nguva yakawanda sezvinobvira nemunhu uyu. Usatarira chero mashoko anonyaradza. Chinonyanya kukosha pamamiriro ezvinhu aya kuvepo kwako, kugadzirira kuteerera chero risina maturo, mukana wokugeza ndiro uye kupindura foni.
- usabvisa munhu ari kuchema kubva kumabasa uye mabasa anosangana nemariro. Usapfurikidza ne valerian, uye kunyanya nekudaro zvinorodza zvinoshandisa zvakanyanya mumuviri. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokudzivirira munhu kuti asaita hupenyu hunokosha zvisarudzo panguva ino.
- basa guru riri muchikamu chekushungurudzika kwakaoma ndechokuumba mafungiro akanaka, umo zvingave zvichikwanisa kuyeuka akafa, marudzi ose ezvikamu kubva muupenyu hwake. Kutaura kwako pachako kuchava kwakakodzera uye kwakakodzera. Izvi pakutanga zvinogona kukonzera kupinza manzwiro mumunhu, asi regai azvitaure zvakakwana sezvaanogona, pasina kumuramba kana kumutsoropodza.
- Kana mushure memavhiki matanhatu kusvika kumunhu munhu asingadzokeri kune zvaanoita zuva rega rega uye zvebasa, zvakakosha kumanikidzira asi zvinyoronyoro zvinomubatanidza munharaunda yavo.
- Inofanira kuyeukwa kuti mugore rekutanga mushure mekurasikirwa, zuva rekuberekwa kwezororo uye mazuva asingakanganwiki nguva iyo manzwiro ekuchema anowedzera. Kushanyirwa kana kuti kudana mumwe munhu mazuva ano uye iva nechokwadi chokuti unomushanyira pamusi wekufa kwekufa. Mune nguva ino yekupedzisira, kuoneka kwemuedzo (kunyanya kusaziva) kunogona kuwedzerwa, sekunge kuti ugare mairi. Chero chero chikonzero-kana kutya kwehupenyu hutsva, pfungwa yokuti nguva refu iwe unochema nekuda kwevakafa - uchapupu hwokuti iwe wakamuda sei, zvakakosha kubatsira kubhadhara kuchema kwake. Kuchema kunopera - pane chiyeuchidzo.
Julia Sobolevskaya , kunyanya kune nzvimbo