Dzimwe nguva izvi zvinoitika kune avo vanojaira kuita zvisarudzo ivo pachavo. Funga chimwe chinhu, asi chinosvika zvakasiyana chaizvo. Semuenzaniso, kuungana kwakanyarara neshamwari kamwe kamwe kunotanga kuva kutamba kusvikira ndawira muchikwata cheusiku pane dhiyabhorosi pa keke (kunyange iwe wakavimbisa kurara pasi musati wapfuura gumi nerimwe). Yenguva yekufungidzira kuti iwe wakamanikidzwa uye unofungidzirwa kutakurwa kune chibvumirano ichi. Asi chokwadi zvose zvakasarudzwa zvakanaka. Kungova mumwe munhu anobva kune wako ane unyanzvi ane chipo chekunyengetedza. Uye iwe, pamwe chete nemumwe munhu wose, wakava murwi wemunhu uyu anotyisa.
Nyaya yako haisi yega yoga. Kana munhu achitenda, mumwe anosangana nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana dzekunyengetedza kazhinji pane rimwe zuva. "Dzimwe nguva tinosangana nemasters avo vanogona kuzarura munhu nemafungiro avo," anodaro Chris Hilary, munyori we "27 Zvinyorwa Zvokufungidzira: Nzira Dzakanaka Kuti Ukunde Vateereri uye Uwane Vakabatana." "Zvinoratidzika kuti vane rumwe rudzi rwemashiripiti makuru-simba." Zvakanaka, inguva yekufumura chakavanzika chezvinhu izvi zvose zvemashiripiti uye kubva kumurume akatungamirirwa kune munhu anokunyengetedza.
Kukurira Kutya
Kunyange zvakadaro, hazvisi pachena nei, somuenzaniso, shamwari yako inogogodza bhajeti yemapurogiramu anoshamisa, asi dzimwe nguva dzinowanzorambwa nemufundisi. Zvichida ari kushungurudza chibharo chimwe chinhu?
Anongova mukadzi asina kutya uye kuzvidzwa. Inoramba ichingoziva kuti chii chikonzero chechi simba repfungwa. Dzidzo inoratidza kuti psychopaths inotambudzika nekuputsa kwebasa re cerebellar amygdala (chikamu cheuropi chinotarisira yememtsii). Kunyangwe kutambura - nenzwi guru rakati. Chiremera chinoderedza kunzwa kwekutya.
Kana iwe uchitya kubvunza chef kuti akusimudzire kwawakave wakasiya kwemwedzi mitanhatu, kutanga tanga kuzvifunga kuti iwe unokodzera mubairo. Funga pamusoro pezvose zvauri kuda kutaura. Kubudirira kwebasa kunobva pakuvimba kwaanoita munhu. Kuita kuti mazwi ako ave akaremara, tanga-tapira mutauro.
Ziva kusava nesimba kwako
Hazvirevi rudo rwako rwechiropa, asi nezvezvinhu zvakakosha chaizvo-pamusoro pezvinhu izvo zvinoita kuti vanhu vasakuona zvakakwana.Bvumirana, chinhu chimwe chete kuvanza zvikanganiso kana kusaisa kukosha kwavari, uye zvimwewo kuti vashandure kuva zviremera. Kana iwe uchiziva mafungiro ako asina simba, iwe unogona kudzora maonero anoita vamwe. Zvinotarisirwa chete kupa zvidhori mukunaka kwakanaka.
Ngatiti iwe wakasindimara uye uchida, kupfuura iwe unouya newaunoshanda navo uye vashandi kuchena kwekupisa. Edza nenzira imwe neimwe yekutendeuka kutanga hutsva huri mberi kwechikwata, kwete ne hysteria, asi nemutsara unotevera: "Zvichida ini ndine kushingaira kwakasimba kunotsigira pfungwa dzangu uye dzimwe nguva ndinogona kudarika zvishoma zvandaita kana izvi zvichiitika, iwe uchandiudza, zvakanaka?" Voila! Maminitsi apfuura iwe waifunga kuti iwe wakanga uine shungu, pakarepo unopinda ku-corpuscle.
Tarisa zvakanaka
Maererano nenhepfenyuro, makumbo maduku uye mutsara wakanaka wekutenderera ndivo vanobatsira zvikuru pakuzadzisa chinangwa, asi ikozvino hachisi pamusoro pavo. Kuona kweziso ndicho chinhu chinobudirira chekuita hukama hwekubereka (kunyange iwe unoti uri muchengeti). Nyanzvi dzinonyatsoziva: munguva dzakawanda, kuvimba kunokonzerwa naye. Kuti upinde mukana, edza kumira maziso emudzimai kwemaawa mashomanana. Asi kwete zvakare, kana zvisina kudaro anogona kukwira uye anokutora iwe semadhija kana mushandi wekambani wemashandiro emitemo.
Mutauro wemuviri unoratidza manzwiro evanhu. Dzidza, uye iwe unogona kuita zvakasimba. Muenzaniso: mushandi webhangi yaunopiwa kuti upe chikwereti chisingabatsiri kutenga iyo "Ferrari" yaunoda, inotenderera zvakare pachigaro chako uye inyorera maoko ako. chiratidzo chokuti iye ane manyawi Edza kubudisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu, kuti uuye kunyemwerera.
Danidzira kune pfungwa yakabatana
Izwi rinowanzoti "isu" rinokosha kana iwe uchida kukurudzira munhu kuti aite nenzira yako. Taura kuti iwe unofanirwa nefirimu imwechete (actor, actress) kana mubhuku sewe shamwari. Kuti nhaurirano ibudirire, edza kusataura kusanzwisisana zvakananga, ingoshandura " asi "pane" uye "." Imwe nzira inobatsira ndeye "kuratidzira" mamiriro ekugadziriswa kwevanhukadzi. Zvidzidzo zvakaitwa kuDuke University (USA) zvakaratidza kuti vadzidzisi vakanyanya kuvimbika kune vadzidzi vanove vachikopa zvishoma nezvishoma kufamba kwavo uye muviri. Zviito zvakadaro zvinowedzera vanhu kuti vaone sokuti vanofanana, pamusoro pechikonzero chekuvimba kupi kunoitika. Iwe unofunga chaizvo here kuti mukadzi akakomba kubva mubazi reku visa acharambira kune wechidiki, mudzimai anofadza mune zvingano zvakafanana saiye?
Wana simba
Vanhu vanowanzovimba nezviremera. Zvisinei, hazvisi kuti munhu wose aedze basa remu mutungamiri. Shandisa kuongororwa kwevanhu vatatu kuitira kuti vanhu vakwanise kutora chisarudzo chaunoda. Kana iwe newaunofarira manoyanik musingagoni kusarudza pamusoro pekusarudza kweresitorendi, taurai chimwe chinhu chakadai: "Shamwari yangu, nenzira, mucheki, yakashanyira iyi sangano uye inogona kupika kuti mhuka dzinobva kunze dzinobva kuMakchatka, kwete kubva kuMoscow." Izvi zvinoratidza , kuti iwe, kune rumwe rutivi, uve neruzivo rutsvene rwezvokudya zvekunzvimbo (uye iyi iri pacheche chikumbiro cheutungamiri), uye kune rumwe rutivi, iwe uri muchikepe chimwechete sewaunofambidzana naye. "Kana kudya kwechikafu kuchiitika, mutoro hausi kwauri, asi pane shamwari yemano-mubiki.
Kune vanhu vanogona kuita kuti chero munhu upi zvake atambe kuvhura vabati vehodzi. Zvishoma nezvishoma zvinopfuura nepfungwa dzako dzakaoma, zvichikonzera manzwiro eine mhosva, tsitsi, kana zvisina maturo. Kana uchinge usina kuzvivimba iwe uye zvakanyanya kuwedzera iwe unoziva miganhu yako, iwe unowedzera kuziviswa. Iwe uri kutarisirwa kana iwe uri:
- "Somubati wenheyo (amai vakanaka), iwe unomanikidzwa ..." Kukwidzwa kuhutano husingagumi kunogona kugogodza chero munhu, nokuti kuedza kukanganisa, sekutonga, kusingadzorwiki. Usava mufananidzo unofadza. Pakupedzisira, benzi ane hanya uye amai vakanaka vanofanira kukwanisa kudzivirira zvavanoda.
- "Iwe unondigumbusa kwazvo ..." Iyi inzira yakanaka yekukutumira kune chinzvimbo chemwana wedu. Mhedziso yekutadza ine chido chekubuda nenzira isina chazvinobatsira ye nassituations. Yeuka kuti iwe hauna kunwa kwemakore. Saka, zvakakosha kubvumirana ne-interlocutor kubva panzvimbo ye "munhu mukuru-mukuru".
- "O, ndinoda kugoverana newe chinhu chimwe chakavanzika ..." Iwe unowana kamwe kuti mukadzi asingazivikanwe achizevezera iwe zvese zvekuzvarwa kwake. Kushamwaridzana kwakadaro kunokuvadza kusakwana kwekushaya rubatsiro: zvakaoma kuti munhu akadaro wechipfungwa arambe. Saka chengetedza miganhu yako.
- "Iwe uri chii, kwete nesu?" Uye mukudanidzira uku kunobatanidza kusuruvara kwevamwe shamwari dzakanakisisa, avo vamunofunga kuti ikozvino iko kunotengesa kutsva. Mhedziso yekuve kune imwe nharaunda inokosha zvikuru kune munhu.
- "Iwe chete iwe unogona kundiponesa ..." Kunakidza gono uye iwe unonzwa semakadzi pamabhiza machena. A checker inowanikwa. Manzwiro ekuzviremekedza akaravira zvakakwana, asi pane imwe nguva unoziva kuti mabhiza ari kumhanya uye anomhanya, uye dzimba dziri kupisa nekupisa. Dzoka: kununurwa kwevanhu vanokonzera kunyura ndiko basa rekunyura.