Kuti unzwisise kuti sei iwe uchingoratidzira hurumende, tichaenda kubva kune imwe nzvimbo. Zvaunofanirwa kuita kuti ufadze kufambisa uye, kunyanya, mutariri, uye, maererano naizvozvo, zvausina kuita, inguva yekutanga.
1. Isa mberi pfungwa
Chokutanga pane zvose, vatungamiri vanoda vanhu vanoita zvinhu uye vanogadzira vasingatyi kutaura zvitsva, kushandisa mapurogiramu, kushingairira kupinda muhupenyu hwekambani. Ichokwadi, nzira yekusika pfungwa yakaoma, inogona kutumidzwa kudenga. Pano paanowa, kana kuti kwete. Nenzira, iwe unogona kukurudzira kufunga kwako.
Semuenzaniso, tsvaga ruzivo rutsva kubva munzvimbo yauri kushanda, kutenga mabhuku anokosha, shanyira mawebsite anobatsira paInternet. Saka, musingabhadhari, tanga usingaenzanisi neshamwari dzako, waunogona kutaura naye chero nguva, uye uzive nevakwikwidzi vako kubasa, nemafungiro avo. Edza kutarisa kuti munhu wese anoona mune imwe ndege. Ivai vakangwarira uye musanyara kukurudzira pfungwa. Unzwisise kuti kunyange mapurogiramu epakutanga haazogadziri uye haazobvunzwi kana munhu asingasimuki uye awana avo vanogona kuteerera uye "kutenga" pfungwa.
2. Isai chikwata chevashandi vatsva
Uri kufambira mberi mumashandisirwo anodikanwa, uri kushingaira kupinda misangano yekudzorera here? Great! Iye zvino teererai kune chokwadi chokuti maitiro chaiwo uye mumwe nomumwe anobatana. Izvi hazvirevi nezvevamwe vashandi muhofisi, asiwo nezvemakwikwi. Kushanyira mausamu uye mharidzo, bvunza mibvunzo isinganzwisisiki kwauri. Pamisangano yakadaro uye misangano yevanyanzvi kune vamiririri kubva kumakambani okuunganidza avo vanoona kuti inoshanda zvikuru. Tora mukana, tanga vatsva vanoziva. Saka munzvimbo yako yebasa iwe uchakwanisa kuratidzira iwe zvakajeka uye uwane rukudzo rwevatariri.
3. Kukwanisa kupemberera zvakanaka zvemunhu
Kuverenga nyanzvi mabhuku, usasvike kunyora tsamba kune mharidzi kana kuongorora mumagazini. Chinangwa chako ndechokuti uwane simba kwete chete kubva kumushandi wako, asiwo kubva kune vashandi pamwe naye mupfungwa yakazara, ndiko kuti, avo vakabatwa newe muhari imwe. Unyanzvi hwokunyora uye kukwanisa kudzidzisa pachako kukosha mubasa. Zviri nyore kuona munhu ane njere, kana ari pamusoro pevanhu vose, ndiko kuti, anoita. Mufaro uchafanirwa kukundwa - ndizvo zvakaitawo munhu wose akasimba. Izvi zvakajairika, saka, zvishoma fidgety, iwe uchadzikama. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kugadzirira hurukuro mberi kuitira kuti "Emmm ..." hairegi panguva yekushanda. Dzokorora, rega hama nehama dzikuteererei, musarasika uye nyora zvinhu zvose pamashizha. Iva nematokisi emaJokes, anonakidza uye anonyanya kuitika nyaya, vhura varume vakachenjera uye vazivi. Dzozai nguva dzose pfuma yekuziva. Uye pamusoro pemwero, haisi nguva dzose unhu hwakanaka pabasa, saka kuzvikudza (mupfungwa yakanaka yeshoko) chinhu chinobatsira.
4. Ivai vanozvikudza nebasa renyu
Vashandi vanofara kuziva kuti chinhu chinokudzwa iwe kuti ushande mune imwe boka guru. Usatya kuzvirumbidza nzvimbo yako yebasa, uiise iyo senzvimbo yakanakisisa munyika.
5. Kurangwa
Iwe wakanonoka kubasa zuva nezuva kwehafu yeawa here? Chiito chakaipa, tinofunga iwe pachako unoziva nezvazvo. Iwe unofanirwa kuuya pamberi peutungamiri, nokuti anogona kunge ane chikumbiro chinokurumidzira iwe kana kune wako usati uri pamwe naye, uyo iwe neunyanzvi anogona kuchinja. Iwe unofarira kumira mangwanani-ngwanani kwemaminitsi makumi maviri here? Too zvakaipa. Kutanga, nokuti inotyisa, uye nenzira imwechete inoparadzanisa kuratidza kubva pamberi pevamwe vose kubva kubasa. Chechipiri, kana mukambani yenyu pfungwa yekutarisira nguva iripo, saka unoda kuitevera. Pane imwe nguva apo iwe unofanira kuuya uende. Muteverei. Kana iri yekukurumidza kushanda, inowanzoonekwa sekukundikana kwako. Kazhinji pabasa kune vamwe vakawanda vanogara munhu iyeye asina kukwanisa kuzadzisa mabasa ake ose panguva iyo yaakagoverwa kwaari, uye kwete yehunivhaki. Ikokupedzisira zviri nani kuuya mangwanani-ngwanani pane kugara pasi kusvikira usiku. Saka usagara, asi kana iwe uchikumbira kugara, saka hazvifananidzi kurwisa nekushingaira. Pane zvakajeka chikonzero chakakomba chokukurumidza.
6. Usambotaura ...
Pane mitsara inoparadza chero maonero akanaka pamusoro pemushandi. Vanomuita semunhu anovimba naye, munhu asingabatanidzi uyo asingazivi nzira yekusiyanisa chikuru, haacherechedzi kugutsikana kana kungove benzi. Somuenzaniso: "Zvichida hazvikoshi, asi ini ndichati ...", "Handigoni ...", "Handizivi kuti sei ...", "Handidi ...", "Handidi, ndizvo zvose ...".
Iyi mitemo inokosha ichakubatsira iwe kutora kutarira uye kuchinja kugunun'una kwakashata kwebasa kumeso kunotapira uye kuonga.
Margarita Wagner