Iye ... kamwe kamwe akabhururuka kwauri ndokutora pfungwa dzose uye zvirongwa zvezuva. Iwe wakanamatira kune varume vakavapoteredza, uye vakazviwana ivo chinhu chitsva chokuyemura. Nokuti iwe wakamboona munhu anogona kuva iwe, asi ikozvino warasikirwa nefuse yako yose. Zvichida nekuda kwegodo nekuda kwesarudzo yako yekuzviremekedza kwavo - ichiri kungove, iye akasarudzwa nemusikana anozivikanwa zvikuru! Hungu, uye iwe unogara uchinyunguduka, uchiisa zvinhu zvisinganzwisisiki mumeskiki, uye uchidaidzira shamwari dzako kuti shamwari yako ndiyo iyo-chaizvo.
Kuti uchengetedze zvinhu zvisinganzwisisiki mune maonero, igovana zvikamu zviviri zvehupenyu. Shandisa ukama hwako nekuchenjera. Kana vasikana kubva kune vekambani vane zvinetso nevakomana, shambai inoverengeka sezvishoma sezvinobvira kuitira kuti musakonzera godo. Kana ivo vose vari nevakomana, ronga mapoka ehuku - uye regai vasikana vagovana mashoko ekunyora. Kutaura zvishoma pamusoro pako-regai vabvunze. Vakomana havakanganwi kuratidzira kuti ivo, pasinei nezvose, vanhu vakakonzera kupfuura iwe. Kazhinji tendeukira kwavari kuti vabatsirwe uye uvayeuchidze kuti iwe uchiri shamwari yavo isina kudzivirirwa.
Semuenzaniso, mumwe munhu anouya kuboka , uyo anongoverenga chete Camus mune zvepakutanga, asiwo anopfeka zuva rega rega, sekugadzirisa nemaikadzi wekutanga. Kana imwe yeavo pakarepo inobudirira kuzivikanwa, inokunda inobva mumumvuri. Kana iwe uri mutungamiri wechokwadi, saka kukwikwidza kwakadaro hakufaniri kukutyisidzira iwe. Ita shamwari neshiri itsva. Ongorora, kupfuura munhu mutsva akakurudzira kambani uye kana akadzidza nzira yekudzidza kuva mutungamiri mumakambani? Zivo?
Zvipfeko zvemafashoni? Mazano makuru kwepati? Ratidzai chinhu chimwechete, asi zviri nani - nokuti iwe unofarira hakuna anoziva shamwari dzako. Iwe une ruzivo rwakanyanya uye simba rakasimba - riishandise! Kumbira munhu anouya kuti agadzirire rwendo rwekusika, kumbira shamwari dzake kuti dzifambe dzichitenderera mabhizimisi uye dziratidze ruzivo nezvemafashoni emafashoni. Asi! Hazvifanirwi kutarisa semunenge muchiedza firima kuchengeta pop. Kana kambani ichipofumiswa nekwenyoro hwemutsva, enda kuma cinema neshamwari kune mugig wekugunzva - regai munhu wose aone kuti iwe unoda zvakanyanya uye usatambura neusurukirwa.
Shamwari dzevanyengeri dzakadzidza kuti pasi pemutsiro unochema pamusoro pe "Twilight" uye unoteerera Sergei Lazarev? Kana kuti uri pamwe chete nevakadzi vanoita zvemafashoni iwe wakaonekwa nemaruva emarangi mushure mekutsvaira uye mumucheka wekushanduka? Chero zvazvingava, iwe wakaita upenzi "hunotyisa," iyo iyo mutungamiri haatauri kubhadhara. Ndokusaka tiripo, kutsanangura kuti tingadzidze sei kuva mutungamiri mumakambani.
Unhu hunonyanya kukosha hwomutungamiri ndokwanisa kuseka. Chero kusanzwisisana kunogona kuve kutongerwa kururamisa kana kuchinjwa kuva joko. Mutungamiri nguva dzose anochengetedza mamiriro acho ari pasi pesimba. Kana joko risina kubatsira uye iwe uchiri kutarisa kubvunzurudza, usaramba uchizviratidza iwe pachako - izvi iwe uchasimbisa mhosva yako uye unobvuma kushaya simba. Hungu, iwe wakasiya imba mucheka yedidio. Saka chii? Iwe unofarira izvozvo! Iwe unoda zvipfeko zvakadaro, uye iwe-wakasimba uye wakadzika - unoda chaizvo nyaya dzorudo. Kuramba nemafungiro ako, iwe uchati kuremekedza. Zvechokwadi, usaputsa zvachose chimiro chako cheutungamiri, sezvamunoda, - unoda kuremekedza tsika dzechikwata. Kuratidzira kuti iwe wakatendeka kwavari saiyewo, iwe uri mukuti kambani inofarira. Semuenzaniso, kumbirai munhu wese kufa ketsinete yemafi kana kuisa firati yekuratidza.
Nzvimbo yako - "Ndiri pano mukuru, uye maonero ako haatambudzi munhu"? Izvi hazvikwani kune ani zvake. Ratidza shamwari dzako kuti unozvida zvakadini - kwete nenzira yakarongeka ye "ita izvi!", Asi bvunza, bvunza rubatsiro, uye wozoonga mwoyo. Unganidzai pamwe chete uye tikutendai nekukudai, kunyange zvazvo dzimwe nguva musingagoni kushivirira. Nokuda kweizvi uye iwe unovanamatira uye wakazvigadzirira zvose. Ratidza izvi kuburikidza nechiito - kugara pamubhedha uye kufara muhupenyu hwako pachako, zvakaoma kuva chidzidzo chekuyemura.
... iwe unopedza ushamwari hwako hwemanheru. Zvichida, iwe wakakunda mukurumbira chete nekunze kwekunze, uye ikozvino, apo chiedza chakajeka, asi chechimiro chave chichivhiringidza, vanhu vaida kuziva zvaunogona kupa, kunze kwemajokera ane flamboyant kana mhembwe mutsvuku. Mutungamiri anotarisirwa kuita zvisarudzo, kuronga kuzorora pamwe uye kuzadzisa mamwe mabasa "ehurumende". Clowns uye photomodels ane majee akafanana uye kuseka kwechando-chena zvinokurumidza kunetseka. Kana iwe usingadi kuti vanhu varashike:
Bata pane yako maitiro, asi nguva dzose uzvigadzire. Kana iwe uchida kuchinja - usaenda kwemazuva maviri mumutsara mune zvipfeko zvakafanana, kana iwe uri guru guru remitambo, wedzera kushanda ne sequin nemaruva, kana vasikana vachifadzwa nemishonga yako - kupa kuti hauzombozvipfezve. Zviwanire iwe chiratidzo chekorona uye kubata mazita, asi usashandise zvakare kazhinji. Wedzerai mahedheni enyu uye taurira. Iwe unofanirwa kuva negungwa remashoko kubva muupenyu (kwete iwe pachako iwe - iwe unogona kuva nemaSimpsons kana maChina mandarins) uye chokwadi chinonakidza. Iwe unofanirwa kupenya muhurukuro pane chero musoro uye uwane mutauro unozivikanwa nevanhu vose-ne botanist isingazivikanwi inofanirwa kugombedzerwa kuita basa rechikoro kune boka rose, uye nechinangwa chechikoro chekudzidzira chinonyangadza chinoputika. Iva nesimba.
Iva pakarepo uye usatya kutya kuonekwa seupenzi, ita chimwe chinhu chisingakodzeri mitemo. Dhorera pamabvi ako pamberi pemudzidzisi, uya ku yunivhesiti mu-blouse ane zita rokuti "Masha" kana kuti "Ndiri nyeredzi!", Gadzirira boka rako pachako (uye zvakanaka kuti haugone kutamba pa tamas)? Easy! Uye rega kusava nemunhu unoziva kuti iwe wakanga uchidzidzisa izvi zvose kubva mumabhuku pamberi pegirazi kana maitiro. Zvishongedze nevarimi. Dumpty in the breaks with boys different, tell me where and where you will run after the school, give the girlfriends cupid advice with look experienced. Asi usazvicherechedza sebhomba repabonde, umo munhu wose ari murudo, zvinokonzera kungova negodo chete.
Iva nyanzvi mune sangano remitambo yekugara. Rega nhoroondo idzi dziende pamusoro pako: "Unoyeuka here kuti akasarudza kuita firimu pamusoro pedu sei? Uye nguva yatakange takanamatira mufambisi, yaive inofadza sei! Uye pamusoro pekambani yebato iri rinoshamisa akatiudza isu ndokuderedzwa kusvika mafirimu mafupi! "Zvakanakisisa, iwe unofanirwa kuzvishandura mumutambo wekuvaraidza nzvimbo neboka rezvasarudzo.
Ramba uchiungana pamwe chete. Ita tsika dzakanaka (somuenzaniso, chengetedza zuva rekuberekwa uye uunganidze paheki yekare paChipiri), mazita (fenki, nicknamine ane chinangwa), mythology (nyora nyaya dzako, majee), nezvimwe.
Shine! Mutevedzeri anofanira , kufanana nezuva, achidziya munhu wose uye munhu wose nekuvapo kwake. Ita basa mumabasa ose emasangano, kuratidzira chiito, taura nevose. Ita zvakanyanya sezvinobvira, kuzvikudza iwe nemabasa ako. Mutungamiri anodzika anokurumidza kunhuwa-kambani inoda kutungamirirwa nekutenda mberi.
Uye kana iwe uchifunga nezvazvo
Iwe wakatanga kukanganwa nezvemabasa ako eutungamiri. Chikonzero chinogona kunge chiri-iwe wakawa murudo, wakapinda yunivhesiti, wakagamuchira basa kana wakatorwa nekutashanya. Iwe une chido chinotora nguva yose nesimba. Kana kuti ungangove wakaneta kwekanguva kwekuva musikana akajeka? Dzimwe nguva zvakakosha kusiya rimwe rekare kukwira chikamu chakakwirira. Funga-iwe unoda vanhu ava here kana kuti mukurumbira chete? Kuziva ushamwari husingaperi kunokosha kune avo vamunonyatsoda. Kana iwe usingadi kurasikirwa nemukurumbira, ita chiito chako chitsva chip. Taura nyaya dzinoshamisa pamusoro pekoroji, kuratidza mifananidzo yakajeka kubva kunyika isingawanzoitiki. Itai kuti munhu wese aone kuti chido chekuzvivaraidza chakakunakira iwe-uye kunyange kana ukasangana nemisangano miviri uye iwe haugone kufadza munhu ane zuva rokuzvarwa, richaregererwa. Kana iwe uine simba rakakwana, iwe, hongu, unogona kuronga shamwari dzako dzose dzezororo kuitira kuti varege kukushaya iwe. Iwe unofanirwa kuva akaenzana newe ("oh, iye anononoka, akabudirira, ndinodawo zvakadaro!"), Asi haana kushuva ("Zvakanaka, ndakawana basa, ndaive nekuzvikudza uye ndakakanganwa zvachose pamusoro pedu").
Zvinoratidzika kuti shure kwekunzwa kwemajaya iwe hauna kunzwa inzwi reumambo hwako hweumambo. Izvo zvakatakurwa ne mbiri (kana kunyange yakava kuzvikudza kwedyire?) - hazvishamisi kuti shure kwekwako kwakatanga kufunga pamusoro pezvirongwa zvekudarika mutongi. Ongorora zvawakakwanisa kuita munguva yekupofumisa simba uye kufarira mukambani uye pakarepo unotanga kugadzirisa kukanganisa.