Pfungwa yakafanana ndeyekuti mushure memakore makumi matatu zvisingakwanisi kuva nehanya nepamusoro. Zvisinei, chokwadi chinoratidza chinopesana: makore 30-35 inokosha nguva yebasa. Mumakore makumi matatu nematatu, pasinei nokuti wakasvika pane zvakakura zvepamusoro-soro kana kuti wakatanga kushanda kunze kwechirevo, zvakakosha kutora chiitiko chepakati nepakati nekufunga: asi kupi kuenda mberi? Ndiyo apo chido chekuita basa, kubudirira kubudirira kwega pachako kunouya zvakakwana. Uye ita izvozvo, tenda ini, hazvina kumbobvira kunonoka ...
Basa iri "kusvika 30" rinoita sokuti rinozivikanwa kare. Kazhinji makore anenge 22 tinowana dhiploma. Pashure pokushanda kwemakore maviri kana matatu, tinowanzoziva kuti imwe dzidzo yepamusoro haikwani. Wedzera kune iyi nguva yehupenyu hwehupenyu, kuroora uye kuberekwa kwevana, uye zvinosvika kuti makore 30-35 chete tinogona kutora nzvimbo ye "chocolate" ine mubayiro wakakura. Izvi zvinodanwa kuti "kuwedzera kukura" ...
Yakakwirira uye yakakwirira ...
Tatyana, apedza kudzidza kubva kuchikoro, akaenda kunoshanda semutamberi mubhangi guru. Zvinotaridzika kuti chinzvimbo chakanga chisingavimbisi basa rake rokukura, asi mushure memwedzi mitatu Tatiana akasimuka akaenda kumunyori, ndokubva ava mubatsiri kumusoro, makore mana gare gare - Mutevedzeri mutungamiri, uye makore gumi gare gare akaendesa dhipatimendi rokufambisa.
Kubva "nokuda kwekutora", zvisinei, hazvirevi hazvo mudiki. Iye zvino hapana munhu anoshamiswa nekuti mumakore makumi matatu emakore emabasa, kunyanya kuvakadzi, iri kutanga. Eugene akaroora pa19, mugore repiri re Economics Faculty yeMoscow State University, uye makore manomwe ekutanga ehupenyu hwemhuri aibatanidzwa kuvana, pavanenge vachishanda nguva yakawanda mubasa risina basa. Apo vose vaviri vanoenda kuchikoro, inguva yekuongorora zvakaitika kwauri. "Pandinodzokazve pakanga pasina chinhu chinekrete-yegadziriro yemabasa asina basa. Asi, mushure mokufungisisa, ndakaona kuti chinhu chakanaka chandakaita ndechekubata nevatungamiri vevanhu, - anodaro Eugene. - Ndine dzidzo yepamusoro yechipiri uye pazera remakore makumi maviri nemasere ndakagadzirirwa basa rangu rokutanga muhutano hwakasarudzwa. Iye zvino ndava nemakore 32, ini ndatosimbiswa mumakambani, uye vatariri vanoona mukati mangu mikana yakawanda yemutungamiriri. "
"Ndinogona kuyeuka mazana ezvidzidzo zvakadaro," anodaro Elena Salina, nyanzvi yevanhu. - Zvakakosha kuti iri panguva ino vakadzi vanowanzobudirira mukukura kwavo, vanoziva kukudzwa kwavo, vanotsanangurira chinangwa uye vanoita zvikanganiso zvishomanana munzira yekuzviita. Zvino zvadaro zviri nyore kwavari kuti vabudirire kubudirira kwavo pachavo. "
Pasina kuchinja nzvimbo
Havasi vose vanoda kuve vatungamiri ndezvechokwadi. Ko kana iwe uchida basa rako uye iwe usingakwanisi kuitengesa chero nzvimbo ipi zvayo yeutungamiri? Kuti iwe uwedzere kushamwaridzana nenguva, nguva dzose ufare mune zvidzidzo zvitsva uye kudzidzisa pamusoro pehurukuro yako, wedzera huwandu hwemabasa ako, muchidimbu, uwedzere "zvakananga". Nokusimudza ruzivo rwako uye unyanzvi kusvika pahupamhi hwepamusoro, iwe uchava mushumiri anokosha, vashandirwi vacharamba vachikwira, uye iwe unogona kutora mhinduro yako pachayo yekambani, uye kwete zvakasiyana. "Vashandi vane ruzivo rwakanaka nguva dzose vanokoshesa kupfuura vatsva, kunyange kana mabasa avo asingasanganisi kugadzirisa matambudziko akaoma," anodaro Elena Salina. - Mushandi anokwanisa kunzwisiswa: vechidiki vasati vambogadzira izvo zvinonzi maitiro emhizha. Vachange vasingatongodzidze kubva pamakanganisa, izvo zvinowanzokonzera kurasikirwa nekambani. Mukuwedzera, pazera remakore (20-26) matambudziko evanhu ega anowedzera kufarira kune munhu kupfuura basa. Vashandi vemakore 29-35, zvisinei, vanovimbika, vanoteerera basa uye vanoedza kuwana zvakanaka kuitira kutsigira mhuri, sekutonga, yakatangwa. "
Alina, mupepeti wevhiki nevhiki, ane makore 34, ane chokwadi kuti haadi kushandura basa rake: "Mutariri wangu kaviri akandikurudzira kukurudzira kubvuma kwangu kumubhadhari-mukuru-mukuru wemagazini itsva, asi ndakaramba. Ndinoda kunyora, uye handidi kutora mamwe mabasa ... Zvinotyisa! "Alina anonakidzwa nezvose zvakakosha zve tenzi wezvokwadi yake: anotumirwa kune imwe nyika kune yekudzidziswa, nguva dzose anokwidza mubhadharo uye ukuru hwemabhonasi. "Kana ndikashandura chero chinhu, ichange iri musoro webhuku racho, kwete nzvimbo," anodaro Alina.
Tanga kubva pakutanga!
Mutemo wegoridhe ndeyekuti: kuita basa, iwe unoda kutenda mukati mako. Uye hazvina basa kuti iwe uri nemakore mangani. Usatya basa idzva, kunyange kana basa rekare rakanga risingabatanidzi pane zvawakasarudza kuita ikozvino. Nyanzvi dzezvematongerwo enyika dzinofunga kuti mumazuva ano vanhu vanofanira kunge vakagadzirira zvishanu kana vatanhatu kuchinja kukuru mumabasa avo munguva yehupenyu hwavo. "Chiyero chekuchinja mumamiriro ekunze akawedzera kazhinji pamakore gumi apfuura, kunzwisisa kwatinoita mikana yekuzviziva kwakawedzerawo," anotsanangura kudaro Elena Salina, nyanzvi yehupfumi hwevanhu. - Nhasi, mubvunzo unoti "Ndiwe anoshanda ani?" Vanhu vari kuramba vachipindura vachiti: "Iwe pachako." Anosarudza nzvimbo yebasa zvichienderana nemamiriro ezvinhu ega uye parizvino mune zvehupfumi uye anoziva kare kuti basa iri harisi rehupenyu. "
Muenzaniso wekufuridzirwa nyaya yaOlga Lakhtina, uyo akanga asingatyi kuchinja basa rake mumakore makumi matatu nemashanu: "Ndaigara ndichida kuva chiremba wepfungwa, asi mumakore iwayo pandakatanga kupinda yunivhesiti, masayendisiti eRussia akanga asina kudiwa, uye vabereki vangu vakandidzivisa kubva danho risingafungi. Ndakapedza kudzidza kubva kuChikemy. Plekhanov akashanda kwemakore mazhinji semuongorori wemari, panguva imwechete achidzidza basa repfungwa. Pa35, ndichienderera mberi kushanda, ndakapinda mu Institute of Psychology yeRussia Academy of Sciences. Kwemakore matatu ikozvino ndave ndiri chiremba wepfungwa mukati mehutano hwemagariro evanhu-mupfungwa uye nekukura kwevechiri kuyaruka "Perekrestok". Ndinoshanda nevana, ndinopa mazano kumhuri dziri mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, kuita basa rokudzivirira muzvikoro, kuita zvidzidzo zvega, mune rimwe shoko, ita izvo zvandaimbogara ndichirota kuita. "
Zvechokwadi, kuchinja kwakakwana munharaunda yebasa ndechekubudirira asi yakanyanyisa kunoreva nzira yekufambira mberi mberi. Mune maindasitiri akawanda, unogona kubudirira kuchinja unhu hunokosha, kugara muurongwa hwekambani yawakatozivikanwa kare.
Chinhu chikuru hachisi kukurumidza!
Yeuka, mumabhidhiyo "Moscow haitendi mumisodzi," heroine yeVera Alentova yakati: "Pamasikati makumi mana, hupenyu hunotanga-zvino ndava kuziva zvechokwadi!" Kushandura izvi mumutauro webasa, tinogona kutaura nechivimbo kuti pane makumi matatu tiri kungoisa hwaro hwekubudirira kwechokwadi. Usaedza kumhanyisa mberi kwejini, kushanda maawa makumi maviri nemasere. Nokuda kwechido chekuita basa, kubudirira kubudirira kwevanhu pachako kunokosha kuti usapotsa hupenyu huri iwe pachako. Pakupedzisira, tinopa basa kune zvizhinji zvehupenyu hwedu, uye hazvifaniri kuuya nemari chete, asiwo kugutsikana kwetsika. Usatya kuchinja unyanzvi hwako hwehutano maererano nezvido zvako uye zvido zvako. Kunyange kana iwe uchinge warasikirwa nezvinhu zvawawana kare, mukudzoka iwe uchawana zvakawanda-uchifarira basa.