Asi mhuri yako uye hupenyu hwehutano hwakachinja. Icho chinhu chimwe chete kana iwe uchidzoka kubva kubasa mushure mekusangana nemunoda wako, mumwe wacho kana murume wako ari shamwari yako.
Ichokwadi, hazvina basa kuti vakaroorana vakapedza sei pamwe chete mubasa rimwechete - ndizvo zvinokonzerwa nerudo rwebasa, bhizinesi remhuri, kana imwe nzira. Ichi chiitiko chine zvimwe zvinobatsira uye zvinotyisa.
Pros - ivo vashoma zvikuru:
- Nhengo yeHurumende yekuronga nyaya dzemhuri. Somuenzaniso, zviri nyore kuenda kumba pamwechete nekushanda, kudya masikati, kuronga kutenga, kuronga vana kurera, kuronga mhuri, nezvimwe.
- Kurwisana pamusoro pekuti zvakanaka here kana zvakaipa, kana vakaroorana vane basa rimwe chete, vanowanzogadziriswa zvakanaka. Zviri nani zvakanaka. Apo rudo ruchiguma, unoda kutaura chimwe chinhu. Kunyanya, unogona kukurukura basa, nyaya, pane yaunoshanda. Kushanda pamwe kunoita kuti zvikwanise kukurukura pamusoro zvinonzwisisika. Munharaunda, ruwavo rwezvido zvinowedzera mhuri.
Cons-they derive, in particular, from the pros:
- Isu muupenyu hwedu hwezuva nezuva kakawanda hatina hupenyu hwevanhu. Izvi zvinoreva kuti tiri kukwidza matambudziko edu ekushanda kumba, uye vashandi vekumba vari kushanda. Somugumisiro, musoro unoramba uchitarisira imba, mudzidzisi - kudzidzisa kumba. Kana vaviri vacho vakashanda pamwe chete, uyu muganhu unowanzobviswa, kwete, kunyanya nguva yenguva yekushandurwa kubva kumushandi kune murume wemhuri. Izvi zvinowedzerwa nechokuti basa remhuri hazvienderani nechinzvimbo chekushanda. Somuenzaniso, imba inomhanya nemukadzi, uye kubasa iye ari pasi pomurume wake uye zvakasiyana. Icho chinopera kukanganiswa kwakadaro, uko kwave kwakaoma kubuda.
- Vakaroorana vanotarisana zvechokwadi mukati memawa. Zvinonzwisisika, vanoneta.
- Pamusoro pemabasa akawanda emhuri, rimwe basa rinokosha zvikuru - psychotherapeutic - haigone kuitika. Kunyanya, murume kana mudzimai, paanodzokera kumusha, haagoni kugoverana basa rekuparadzanisa, kubvunza, kugamuchira kutsigirwa, kunyaradzwa, kubvumirwa kana kutsoropodza.
- Kana uchifanira kushanda nevanhu kubasa, iwe unowanzodikanwa kutaurirana zvakananga - kunyemwerera, joke, flirt. Iwe unoziva izvozvo, kunze kwebasa rehupenzi, hazvireve chinhu, asi pamberi pevakaroorana izvi zvinogona kuonekwa sezvimwe zvimwe. Mushure mezvose, hakuna munhu akaregedza godo.
- Zvakaipa kana murume nomudzimai vari pasi peumwe. Mufambiro wepamusoro uye wekunze unogona kutungamirira kugoverwa kwemabasa mumhuri. Semuenzaniso, mumwe pasi kubva kumudzimai angasaita chimwe chinhu, achitarisira kugutsikana, asi chaizvoizvo hakuna kune. Uye zvinotambudza. Kune rumwe rutivi, kana kuregererwa kwepo kuripo, ipapo kushorwa kwekubatana kunomuka, anoona munhu wacho kwete seanoshanda akaenzana uye unyanzvi, asi kungova mudzimai webasa.
- Zviri nani, apo vakaroorana vari panzvimbo imwechete yekukura kwevashandi. Kana pane kukwikwidzana, mumakwikwi ane utano hapana chakaipa. Asi havasi vose vakagadzirira kukwikwidzana nemunhu waunotarisira rudo, kutsigirwa.
Zvirongwa zvevakaroorana vanoshanda pamwechete.
- Izvo zvinodiwa kukudziridza kukwanisa kubvisa kubva kubasa munguva dzisingashandisi maawa. Inopiwa, sekutonga, ine ruzivo uye kune vakawanda-ine matambudziko makuru.
- Kumabasa, roka zvishoma zvingabvira. Kana iwe uchifanira kushanda pamapurogiramu akabatanidzwa, iwe unoda kudzidza kudzipa, tsvaga kubvumirana, nokuti, zvichida, kuchave nekukakavara.
- Zviri nani kupedza nguva yezororo pamwechete. Nokuti nenzira iyi vakaroorana vanogona kubvisa kubva kubasa uye yeuka kuti ivo, kutanga kwevose, mhuri. Asi manheru, vhiki yekupedzisira inofanira kutarisirwa zvakasiyana, ivai nekunakidza, shamwari. Izvi zvichapa mukana wekuzorora pane mumwe nemumwe.
- Pane nguva dzose, kune vakaroorana vanonyatsoshanda pamwe chete mubasa rimwe chete uye vanonzwa zvakanaka. - Zvichida, vakaroorana vakadaro havangozvifungidziri pachavo pasina mumwe nomumwe.
Kana pasina nzira yekudzivisa matambudziko akaoma, uye kushandiswa kwekushandira pamwe kwakava matambudziko makuru kumhuri, mumwe wevakaroorana anoda kutarisa rimwe basa. Muchiitiko ichocho paunofanirwa kushanda pamwe chete uye kuchinja basa pane zvisingabviri, unofanira kubvunza chiremba wepfungwa. Uye nhanho nhanho dzidza kugadzirisa mamiriro ezvinhu.