Kururamisa uye tsika dzakanaka munzanga ndiyo chiratidzo chikuru chekuberekwa kwako, dzidzo uye mukati memaitiro. Kutarisa pane zvaunofunga, kukwanisa kuzvibata iwe, nekuremekedza kuti uite uye kunyatsoratidza, munhu wese achave nemafungiro akanaka kwauri. Asi, zvinosuruvarisa, vazhinji havazivi chekuita munharaunda uye vanowanzorasika mukukurukurirana kana kunyanya kuipa, vatanga kuita zvisiri izvo panguva imwechete. Kuti udzivise zvikanganiso zvakadaro mune ramangwana, unoda kuziva nekuteerera kunyange mitemo yekutanga yehutano.
Chinhu chekutanga chisingagoni kukuvadza kudzidza, kunyanya vanhu veRussia - ndechokubata nepamusoro vanhu vakakomberedza uye kufungidzirwa pfungwa iyi, zvisinei iwe uchaisa mukunyadzisa zvose, uye mukutanga iwe pachako iwe pachako. Kana iwe uchitaura zvinhu zvose zvinouya mupfungwa dzako - iwe uchakurumidza kurwara, munhu akaipa uye iwe haugoni kumira. Munharaunda iwe unofanirwa kugara wakazvigadzikana, uye nokuda kweizvi unofanirwa kuva nehutano hwakanaka hukuru (kuitira kuti uve neruzhinji rwekufambira mberi, unoda kukurukura zvakawanda, kuverenga, kushanyira mafirimu, kutarisa mafirimu emagariro, etc.) Ichakubatsira nguva dzose kuramba uri kumusoro mune chero mamiriro ezvinhu, somuenzaniso, tsvaga inofadza hurukuro yekutaurirana, shandisai hurukuro uye nyatsopindura mhinduro ipi zvayo.
Vanhu vazhinji vane tsika yekuyeuka kukanganisa kwevamwe kana kutuka avo vane chimwe chikonzero (kazhinji chinokonzerwa neshanje). Uye zvakakosha kuziva kuti kukurukurirana kwakadaro chero ipi zvayo hakugoni kubatsirwe, kunyange kana nyaya yaunenge uchikurukurirana isiriwo nenravitsya. Zvose zvekutaura kwako uye makuhwa zvinogona kuendeswa kune munhu wechitatu nemunhu uyu, uye dzimwe nguva kunyange nenzira yakatsauka uye nenzira yakasiyana. Asi hazvina kukwana kumisa kutuka nekuda kwekutya kuti mhedziso dzose dzichasvika kumunhu akakurukurwa. Zvakakosha kunzwisisa uye kuziva kuti makuhwa ndeyekunyengera. Uye usaburukira kunzvimbo iyoyo.
Munharaunda ipi zvayo inoda "chiedza" uye vanhu vanofara, saka kana iwe uchida kuseka, edza kuzviita nenzira yakadaro kuitira kuti urege kuzvikudza mukuzviremekedza uye manzwiro (usazvidza mafuta kana vanhu vashoma, usaseka mazita, mazita, mazita, etc.).
Mukukurukurirana, usambovhiringidza mutauriri wekutanga, kutanga amurega apedzise pfungwa yake, teerera kumashoko ake kusvika pakuguma uye chete ipapo bvunza mibvunzo kana chimwe chinhu kupindura. Asi kana zvikaitika kuti vakakuvhiringidza pasina chikonzero chakanaka, saka usakurumidza kupururudza uye kuita zvakasununguka, teerera zvakakwana uye zvinyararire kuti uzvitsoropodze uye kusavhiringidza, uchiziva kuti uri kutungamirira hurukuro nemunhu akanaka. Uyewo, paunenge uchiedza kutaura, edza kusashevedza avo vasina hanya "iye" kana kuti "iye", vadane nemazita avo. Mukukurukurirana nguva dzose unofunga nezvezera, chinzvimbo, zvido, mararamiro ehupenyu uye unhu hwemutauriri. Kune munhu chero upi zvake, mumwe anofanira kugara achibatwa nekuremekedza nekufungisisa.
Munhu anokudzwa haazombokanganwi kuva iye wokutanga kutaura, achienda nechikumbiro chero chipi nechipi nemashoko okuti "chinyorwa", "ivai akanaka", nezvimwewo, ndinokutendai nokuda kwebasa kana kukumbira ruregerero rwekuvhiringidza kweumwe munhu.
Nzira (pfungwa yehuwandu) inofanirwa mumunhu akadzidziswa, akadzidziswa uye akadzidziswa. Uku ndiko kukwanisa kuwana nzira yekukurukurirana pakati pevanhu venyika, kunzwa manzwiro avo uye kuverenga navo, vachifunga nezvemamiriro evanhu vavo.
Kugona kuzvibata kwete mune imwe kambani, asi munzvimbo dzomusangano hakusi chiratidzo chinonyanya kukosha chezera rako rekurera, kukura uye tsika.
Kana ukasarudza kuenda kuimba yemitambo, unofanira kudzidza zvishoma mitemo yepamusoro yehutano. Zvinonyanya kukosha kuonekwa: vakadzi vanokurudzirwa kuti vapfeke shangu dzamanheru (nekuda kwevarume - mutsara kana tuxedo), uyewo zvipfeko zvisina kuchena kana zvipfeko munyaya ino zvichatamba nemwi (ichi chiratidzo chokutora kwakaipa). Muchando, zvinokurudzirwa kuuya nehomwe shangu dzinotsiviwa. Iyo shangu dzinochinja dzinoiswa muvharobhe pamwe chete nenguo dzokunze. Musoro unobviswa nokusingaperi, uye unoputira bvudzi nemafuta anonhuwira anonhuhwirira - hazvina kukodzera. Hazvina kuremekedzwa kuti nguva irege kunonoka. Munhu wokutanga kupinda muimba nguva dzose ari munhu, achiratidza matikiti. Wade kunzvimbo yake inofanira kutarisana nekugara pamutsara. Kana iwe ugare wakagadzikana, saka simuka upe kune muvakidzani mushure. Munzvimbo yemitambo, haugoni kuita ruzha uye iwe unoda kuvhara mafoni ose. Kuti utaure, ita rwiyo, rustle, idya panguva yekushanda hazvibviri kunakwanisika (nokuti pane bhutet uye kuvhara). Iro tsika yekuratidza kuyemura (pasina kurira uye kuridza) pane dzimwe nguva, kazhinji mushure mekuguma kwechiito chimwe nechimwe (kana pakuguma kwezvimwe zviitiko zvinobudirira) uye pamagumo emutambo wose.
Kana iwe uchifamba mumugwagwa kana kuenda pane imwe nzvimbo mubhizinesi, chengetedza mitemo yevanhu vanofamba-famba, nokuti izvi hazvisi chiratidzo chekuremekedza, asiwo chinodikanwa. Ari munzira, kune tsika yekufamba kurutivi rworudyi, pasina kukwira mumugwagwa (kana pasina magwagwa, iwe unofanira kuenda kumugwagwa). Kuyambuka mumugwagwa, uchicherechedza munhu akwegura kana kuti asina simba, kumubatsira. Hazvina kunaka kutinhira mhino yako zvikuru mumugwagwa, sneeze, sarudza pamhino dzako, yawn Usambofa urasa marara pamugwagwa kana pakatenderera, nokuti izvi pane urns chaihwo.
Iwe usati wapinda mafarisi kana sechitoro, kutanga uende kubva mairi, zvinonyanya kukosha kuziva izvi kune vanhu vanobva kunyika yedu, sezvo mutemo uyu unotypwa zuva rega rega. Kana iwe uchicherechedza kuti kune pedo nemunhu akwegura, mukadzi ane pamuviri kana munhu akaremara, famba mberi. Kutora mhuka pamwe navo hakubatsiri. Ne cigareti yakagadzirwa kana firimu muchitoro uye haipindi.
Kana iwe uchishandisa kutakura kwevanhu, edza kutevera mitemo inotevera yezvigadzirwa. Pamukova webhazi (metro, trolley, tram, etc.) mukutanga, kupa mukana wekuenda kune vamwe vatasvi. Iwe haugone kumira pamusuwo (zvinokurudzirwa kuenda ku salon). Nguva dzose inoda kupa vanhu vakwegura, vakadzi vane pamuviri, vanaamai vaduku nevakwegura. Chiratidzo chemaitiro akaipa uye kusazvidzora kunewo kukurukurirana kukuru uye kuseka munharaunda yekutakura vanhu.
Kana iwe ukakokwa kuti ushanyire, hazvikurudzirwi kuti uzononoka. Kana pachinenge pasina chiitiko chekuzosvika panguva, iva nechokwadi chekuyevera veneti pamusoro payo. Hazvina kunaka kuti tinyatsotarisisa fenicha yeimba uye zvimwe zviitiko zvemukati, pamwe nekubvunza mibvunzo pamusoro pekukosha kwavo, zvisinei, iwe ucharatidza kusaziva kwako.