Pamberi pe rudo pamberi pe "misfire" pakuzviremekedza, varume, zvisinei, uye vakadzi, zvakare, vane hanya. Chii chaunofanira kuita kana pasina erection, kana kuti inopera mushure mokutanga kwekuita zvepabonde? Zvakakosha here kuisa chiratidzo chakaenzana pakati pemashoko okuti "hapana erection", "hapana chido", uyewo "hapana rudo"?
Sei munhu achirasikirwa nechido?
Vanodzidza zvepabonde vanoziva kuti muna 99% yezviitiko kusavapo kwekugadzirisa hakurevi kuti mudiwa naye mumuviri, pamwe chete nemanzwiro, akava asina hanya kune mumwe wako.Chikonzero ndechekuti chido chomunhu chinonyanya kuoma. Funga nezvezvimwe chete zvinowanzoita kuderedza simba.
Aya ndiwo matambudziko ehomoni; hutachiona, zvirwere zvepfungwa zvechimwe chinhu; matambudziko mumhuri (uye kunyanya muhukama nemumwe wako) kana kubasa; kutora mimwe mishonga, pamwe neuroses, kuora mwoyo, kushungurudzika, kuwedzera kuneta; nzira isina kururama yehupenyu, marudzi akasiyana emitemo yakaipa; Kuita zvakakwana ndiko chido chekuita zvose zvakakwana mumutambo werudo nemumwe wako, izvo zvinokonzera kukanganisa kwakanyanya kumunhu.
Mukubatana, basa revakadzi rakaoma kuderedza, kunyanya kana murume achibuda mune imwe nzvimbo yepedyo yekuoma kunzwisisa. Zvisinei, kunyange humwe hwakanaka hwekuzviramba hunofanirwa nehuwandu hwemabhomba epabonde hunogona kurasikirwa nechivimbo mukukwevera kwavo pachavo, vachitarisana nechinetso chakadai sekushaya simba kana kushayikwa kwemurume. Chikanganiso chikuru chevakadzi vazhinji ndechekuti anobva atanga kupa mhosva pamusoro peizvi: Somuenzaniso, "Haasisiri ini: Ndinoona zvakaipa!". Anogonawo kupa mhosva munhu - "Haasisiri ini: akazviwana mumwe!". Ndeipi nzira yakanaka yekupindura nayo dambudziko, kubatsira shamwari yako?
Nzira yekugadzirisa sei iyi mamiriro ezvinhu
Vanodzidza zvepabonde vanoziva kuti kusava nemafungiro nemaitiro kunogona kuitika pane dzimwe nguva varume vane utano hwakanaka, kunyange mune mufaro wakawanda, vakachengeteka vaviri. Uye kana ukama hwako hunopedza gore kana kupfuura, muviri wako wemunhu une muviri wakakwana wekodzero yekupa pfu pfupi, uye zviri nani kuti unyatsotora hukama huno.
Apo i "misfire" inowanzoitika nguva nenguva, usatya uye usaronga madhiramu. Hazvina kudiwa kunyora mudiwa iwe nenzira ye "fashoni" sexologist, uye nemutengo usingabvumirwi kwemaminitsi makumi mana ekubvunzurudza, kana kutenga zvisingagamuchirwi zvinodhaka zvinoshandiswa kusimbisa simba romunhu. Iwe haugone kutora mari yakadaro usingatarisirwi, uye kunyange kana ichitengeswa pasina mushonga, kana zvisina kudaro pane ngozi kuti isingavandudzi, asi kuipa mamiriro acho ezvinhu. Kana matambudziko evanhu nekumiswa ari nguva dzose, zvakakosha kwete kunonoka kushanda kune nyanzvi kuti aone uye kubvisa chikonzero chechirwere. Inofanira kuyeukwa kuti zviri nani kuti tisazotaura nezvehutano hwakanaka hwemukomana nevakadzi vakashamwaridzana, kunyange kana iri hanzvadzi, amai kana musikana.
Tingaita sei kuti tibvise mamiriro ezvinhu, titsigire munhu anodiwa, dai aiva mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro? Munhare dzevakadzi mune zvimwe zvakavanzika Shandisa mazano anotevera. Iyi ihurukuro yakanyarara, yakavanzika. Tendesa murume wako kuti hauoni dambudziko pane zvakaitika; kutungamira mitambo yemitambo, kunyora mumuromo, kushuva chido; purogiramu yepahara yemuzinda - somuenzaniso, bhati nemafuta anonhuwira maviri, kana kuti kurasira kunofadza kunogona kuitika.
Ichi chikafu chine utano hwemusha chinosimbisa simba revarume: maarnuts, mahaznuts, uchi, mafuta mashoma ane nyama tsvuku, nyama yegungwa, mazai, hove yakabikwa, mazai emukaka-munyu, miriwo, miriwo, michero, uye chingwa chakachekwa kana chingwa muzvokudya zvezuva rega wako zvinofanira kuva zvakakosha.
Kana zvichibvira, zvakakosha kuronga manheru mushure mebasa, vhiki yevamwe vhiki kuitira kuti awane zororo, kwete chete pamberi peTV yakagadzirirwa mumasvingo mana, asiwo nekushingaira, semuenzaniso, mumasikirwo emutambo, mumakirini emafanini, mune sauna kana kuti dacha.
Kusarirwa kwekanguva kwekugadzirirwa kwevanhu kuti vanyatsodanana, vanhu vane ukama hwepakati, kuvimba nekuwirirana hakusi dambudziko. Chinhu chinonyanya kukosha ndechokutora zvinyararire, kuchigadzirisa zviratidzo, uye edza kubatsira murume wako kugadzirisa.