Zvinotyisa kana murume arova mudzimai wake, uye kunyange vana vaduku. Kunyange kune zviitiko apo kurohwa kunowanzoitika, sekunge pane nguva, uye mukadzi anotyisidzirwa anonyatsotambura utsinye hwakadaro. Kunyarara. Zvinotyisa, asi iye atozvirega kuzvishungurudza kurira kwematsi matambudziko pamusoro pemuviri wake. Zvechokwadi, kana mukadzi anozivikanwa akarohwa, ipapo ruzivo rwakadaro ruchangove ruve nzvimbo yenyika yose. Mifananidzo yeshiri yakakundwa ichazara nemapepanhau nemapurogiramu eTV. Vose pamwechete vachafadzwa noupenyu hwepachivande nemabasa evanhu vakaroorana vakakurumbira. Hazvishamisi, asi pane vatsigiri vemurume anoroora. Asi zvino sangano rinokurumidza kukanganwa nhoroondo chaiye, uye kunyange musoro wechisimba chemhuri. Kana chisimba chiripo mumhuri isinganzwisisiki, saka kazhinji kacho hachisi kufarira kune ani zvake.
Chii chisimba? Mhirizhonga mudzimba ndiyo chiito chekufunga chechimwe nhengo yemhuri kurwisana nemumwechete kana kupfuura nhengo dzemhuri iyoyo. Izvi zvinogona kuita zvepabonde, zvepanyama, zvepfungwa uye zvehupfumi. Sezvo mutemo, zviito zvechisimba zvakadaro zvinoputsa kodzero, uyewo rusununguko rwevanhu, kunze kwekukuvadza kwetsika, zvinokonzera kukanganisa kwakakomba kumamiriro ekunyama uye mupfungwa yemunhu. Maererano nehupfumi hwemashoko, vanhu vanopfuura mamiriyoni mana vakanyoreswa mumatare emitemo yeRussia yehurumende vakaita zvechisimba mumhuri yavo. Kunyange zvazvo vasiri ivo vakazvipira ivo pachavo kana mapurisa ari kunonoka kuumba zviitiko zvakadaro. Zvinonyatsozivikanwa kuti kubva kune mamiriyoni mana emapurisa, 3 355 000 vanhu "vanowanzo" nhengo dzinoremekedzwa dzevanhu, kunyange zvazvo vanoonekwa sevanotambudza mhuri.
Vakawanda vanobatwa nechisimba mumba ndivo vakadzi. 70 kubva muzana yezvimwe zvose zvinokanganisa muRussia zvinoguma nekufa kweiye akabatwa, saizvozvo, mumamiriro edu ezvinhu, mumwe mukadzi anofa kwemaminitsi makumi mana kubva pamaoko omurume wepamberi. Vakawanda veRussia vanove vakaitirwa zvechisimba pamhuri nekuda kwekudhakwa kana zvehupfumi. Gore negore muRussia, vanenge 2 000 vakadzi vari kupedzisa upenyu hwavo nekuzviuraya, avo vasingagoni kubvumira kurohwa nekutuka mumhuri. Izvozvi nhamba dzinoitawo sangano remazuva ano kutarisa dambudziko iri uye kutsvaga mhinduro kumubvunzo, kuti ungabatsira sei mukadzi kurarama chisimba kubva kumurume wake?
Kunyangwe ichangopfuura kare kuti titaure nezvekubatsira vakadzi kubva kune rumwe rutivi rwevanhu. Sezvo hurumende pachayo isati yagadzirira kwete kungogadzirisa chete, asiwo kukurukura zvinhu zvakawanda zveiyi nyaya. Semuenzaniso, Vakavakidzani vazhinji uye kunyange hama dzinocherechedza kurohwa kwevakadzi nguva dzose vanofunga kuti avo vanozviuraya ivo pachavo vane mhosva mumatambudziko akadaro. Ivo pachavo vakasarudza murume wavo, uye pakutanga pakadaro zvakadaro zvakange zvakakodzera kusiya mhombwe! Dzimwe nguva mafungiro anotsanangurwa kuti mukadzi wacho pachake ane mhosva yekurova, anoita kuti anorove. Zvechokwadi, iwe ungamubatsira sei kuti arambe achiita chisimba kana akabvumira, uye asingabvi pazviri?
Uyezve, mune dzimwe nyika, chisimba chemhuri chave chave chichigadzirwa nemaitiro. Somuenzaniso, mune dzimwe nyika pane mitemo inopa kodzero kumunhu kuti asarudze kodzero uye rusununguko rwemukadzi wake nevana vake.
Kwenguva yekutanga, kucherechedza kwakabhadharwa kune dambudziko rechisimba mumhuri munyika dzekuMadokero, pakutanga kwema1970 yakanga yakagadzirira muzana remakore rapfuura. Dambudziko rekutanga revakadzi rakapukunyuka chisimba rakaonekwa muAmerica States. Nhasi maRussia akasarudza "kutora rineni risina kubuda kunze kweimba". Vakaziva kuti kana murume akarova, haasi nguva dzose mhaka yemukadzi wake. Iye zvino muRussia inoumbwa uye inoshanda masangano akawanda ehurumende neasina hurumende anochengetedza kodzero dzevakadzi. Pakutanga kwevakadzi avo ivo pachavo vakambotarisana nenjodzi yakafanana, matumba, nzvimbo dzekuchengetedzwa uye nhare dzefoni dzakatangwa.
Kuonga zviito zvakadaro zvakashata, pakupedzisira sangano rakakwanisa kudzidza nezvemhosva dzechisimba mumhuri uye kubatsira avo vakaitirwa utsinye. Mukadzi akamborohwa zvakanyanya haazonzwa ari oga mukutambudzika kwake. Mabasa emasangano akadaro nemasangano akaratidza zvakajeka kuti zvinobvira kubatsira mukadzi kuti apone kurwisana nemurume wake. Masangano akadai akadaro anogona kubatsira kuderedza nhamba yevanhu vakafa kana kuti vakakuvara nekuda kwemakakatanwa emhuri.
Zvishoma nezvishoma, munzanga, pfungwa yacho inogadzirwa kuti kune chisimba mumhuri dzeRussia, iyo inofanira kurangwa. Mukuwedzera, pamusangano wepamusoro, chisimba chemhuri chave chatondedzerwa senjodzi yenyika. Mazuva ano, dambudziko rechisimba remuzinda riri kutaridzirwa kune imwe nyika. Zvinosuruvarisa, izvi zvinenge zvishoma nezvishoma, asi zvino vakadzi vanofanira kunge vane ruzivo rwakanyanya ruzivo ruchavabatsira mumamiriro ezvinhu akaoma.
Kana pane mamiriro ezvinhu akaoma, iwe unofanira kubva pakarepo mumba. Inofanira kuitwa nokukurumidza, kunyange kana pane mari, zvinyorwa uye zvishongo zvakasara mumba. Upenyu hunodhura, asi ari pangozi! Inokurudzirwawo kuti igadzirire kuendesa mberi. Kuti uite izvi, unofanirwa kuramba uri munzvimbo yakachengeteka mazita nematafoni, shamwari, kubva kwaunogona kuwana rubatsiro rwekukurumidzira. Kana mukadzi ane chisimba, anofanirwa kuonana nemapurisa uye kuchipatara, akadana hotline, kuti agare munzvimbo dzakachengeteka uye nzvimbo, uye anouya kuhutano hwepfungwa.
Kana kukakavara kunotanga kusingatarisirwi uye pasina mubvunzo wekudana mapurisa, zvakakosha kudanidzira nenzwi guru uye kuva girazi mumba. Pakarepo mushure mekurohwa, unoda kubvunza rubatsiro rwechiremba uye kuwana chiremba chechiremba pamusoro pekukuvara kose. Yeuka, kuitira kuti udzivise chisimba uye kurwisana naro, zvakakosha kuita kuti mamiriro ezvinhu aya aoneke kune vamwe.