Nhau pamusoro penyaya yekutonga kwevakadzi yakatozadzwa ne oskomu. Murume ari pasi pechitsitsinho chemudzimai wake ari kunyanya kuonekwa sehupenyu hwepanyama hwehukama mumhuri. Iyi mamiriro acho haasi kureva matsva. Pakutanga kwevanhu, matriarchy ndiyo yaive yakarongeka yevanhu. Amazoni anozivikanwa haasiwo mutsva wevanyori vekare. Varume vemazuva ano vana vaduku ndivo mugumisiro wekutonga kwevakadzi muchikoro chekudzidzisa. Uye muchikwereti, uye kuchikoro, uye mumhuri, dzidzo yevakomana inonyanya kuitwa nevakadzi. Varume vari kupa nguva uye nguva yakawanda yekushanda uye varaidzo. Uye vanakomana vanongotaura chete zvishoma nezvishoma. Mafuta mumoto akadurura nhamba huru yekurambana uye kurera kwevana nevana vasina kuroorwa.
Zvisinei, chikonzero chekutonga kwevakadzi kunowedzerawo muhupenyu hwavo. Vakadzi vaigara vachitsvaka kuva vakasununguka uye vanozvimiririra nevarume. Vakashandura jasi kusvika kumabhuruku, jekete dzakapfeka, vakatora weightlifting uye boxing. Vakadzi vanowedzera kutora nzvimbo dzekutungamirira uye vanova vadzidzisi vemabhizimisi avo pachavo. Vanga vachiedza kwemazana emakore kuti varatidze kuti hakuna chinhu chaicho chimiro. Nokudaro, kusunungurwa kubva mumazana emakore okusateerera mutemo kwakatungamirira kumamiriro ezvinhu umo vakadzi vakava varume.
Zvakanaka here? Kazhinji kazhinji kutonga kwemurume kana mukadzi mumhuri hakubatsiri kuita ukama hwakabatana. Uyezve, iyi mamiriro ezvinhu haauyisi mufaro kune murume kana mukadzi. Kune rumwe rutivi, dzimwe nguva zvakanaka kuti uzive kukosha kwako. Asi kune rumwe rutivi, kune dambudziko rinogara riripo rebasa rezvisarudzo zvakaitwa mumwe nomumwe. Hapana imwe nzira yekutsvaga, chengorora zvikanganiso zvako, uye pakupedzisira, "kuchema nejasi." Kudzvinyirira kusingaperi kwemukadzi pamusoro pemurume kunoparadza unhu hwake, izvo zvinokanganisa kushanda uye ukama hwemhuri. Uye kushungurudzika nguva dzose kunoderedza utano hwepanyama uye hwepfungwa. Varume vari mumamiriro ezvinhu aya pane chimwe chinhu kunyange kukunda. Upenyu hwavo huri kunyarara uye hunoyera. Mukutsinhana kwekumuteerera nekuita kwebasa rekuroorana, vanotaura zvinhu zvitatu zvakakosha "zvakakosha" ivo pachavo - doro, sofa uye TV. Zvechokwadi, ichi chiroko, asi varume vakawanda vanozviziva ivo pachavo.
Nenzira, kutonga kwomudzimai muukama nemurume hakubvumiri kumubata pamba. Vose vanochenesa, vanoshamba, vanoshamba, vanorera vana. Vachine nguva yekusangana neshamwari dzavo, uye mudiwa haasisina simba rakakwana. Kune mhosva dzose yekudada: Ndinokwanisa kuita zvose zvangu ini! Handifaniri rubatsiro rwemumwe munhu! Ndine simba uye ndakasununguka! Kazhinji, varume vane chiremera chavo, vanobvuma nemaune mitemo yemutambo, kuti varege kudzivisa uye kujekesa hukama.
Zvisinei, mubvunzo unomuka, nei hukama hwekusaenzana hwakadaro hwakasimba uye hunogara? Hazvisi nyore kupararira, sezvikepe zvegungwa here? Nezvevanhu, zvinhu zvose zviri nyore. Zvichida, zvakanyatsonaka kuti vavige shure kwe "kushata" kwevakadzi. Pamusoro pavo havatoroki nemutoro webasa, haisi kudzvinyirira mamiriro ehupi wemunharaunda mumhuri. Vanotora humwe hukama hwakadzikama uye hwakayera. Uye sei kutsanangura maitiro evakadzi? Zvichida, chikonzero chikuru chekuchengetedza hukama hakusi chido chekuda kuraira. Pasinei nemafungiro asina kunaka uye kuzvimirira, chero mukadzi wechidiki anotya kusurukirwa! Iye haadi kuda kusiya, hapana anoda mumwe mukadzi. Nokudaro, uye inobvumira murume we "under-head-head" kuti ave nerusununguko. Bvumirana, kana hupenyu hwomunhu pasi pechitsitsinho chemukadzi hwaizove husingagoni kushivirira, iye aizomusiya. Serfdom yakapedzwa kwenguva yakareba.
Kuvonga nyaya dzinotaura nezvekutonga kwevakadzi, chifananidzo chakaipa chemhuri chinoumbwa. Kushaikwa kwehukama hwakakosha mumhuri hachisi chinhu chinowanzoitika. Iyi mamiriro ezvinhu anotaridza zvinetso zvakasiyana-siyana. Pasinei nemuedzo wekutora nekusimbisa hutungamiri hwako, haugone kuita izvi. Iwe uchatambura kubva pane izvi, kutanga kune zvose, iwe pachako. Asi kunyanya - vana. Ivo pavanonyatsoziva vanogadzira muenzaniso wekuita kwevabereki. Uye pavanokura, vachatanga kudzokorora kukanganisa kwevabereki vavo. Vasikana vachave vakaoma pakusimbisa hukama nevakomana. Vachaedza kuisa pfungwa dzavo, vasingateereri mazano ewavo. Uye vakomana vanogona kukura vana uye vasina simba. Yeuka kuti mhuri inofanira kuva timu imwe! Kana mumwe "mutambi" achirwara, mabasa ake anofanira kutorwa nevamwe uye anobva akunde kubva kune zvinetso zvehupenyu.