Kunyange zvakadaro, tichaedza kunzwisisa kuti chii chinokonzera hukama nenzira yakanakisisa, uye chii chinogona kushandiswa nevose vanoda, pasina kudziviswa.
Kuti ave nechokwadi chokuti ukama nemurume hausi kungoitwa chete, asi hunogona kuramba huripo, pane zvimwe zvinhu zvakakosha. Nhasi tichakurukura chete zvakanyanya, pakati pavo: rudo, rukudzo, kutsungirira nenguva. Ngatimboongororai nheyo imwe neimwe muchidimbu.
Rudo
Zvinonyadzisa sezvazvinonzwika, rudo harusi nguva dzose muhukama hukama. Vakawanda vedu tiri kuedza kuvaka hukama pamutemo we "kutsungirira-kuwa murudo", asi kwete yose iyi inobatsira. Nheyo, inoratidzwa naOmar Khayyam: "Zviri nani kuva wega kune mumwe munhu," - dzimwe nguva zvinoita kuti tifare, pane kuedza kuita kuti tive nemunhu asina kufara. Zvisikwa hazviregi kurwisana iwe pachako. Uye kana tikapikisana nemanzwiro edu, manzwiro nemanzwiro, hazvigoni kuramba kwenguva refu. Muviri uchapera, izvo zvinogona kutungamirira kukutya, kutsamwa uye kunyange zvirwere zvepanyama.
Kunyange vakawanda vanorambidzwa kukundikanazve kudzidzisa mumwe munhu. "Ndakamuudza kuti chii chakanga chiri" - ndicho chirevo chevakadzi vari kurwisana nemhepo yekutsvaga mumhepo mukutsvaka rudo. Makore akaisvonaka ehupenyu hwavo vanokwanisa kupedza pane murume asina kukodzera, asingacherechedzi kuti hazvigoneki kuti munhu adzidze zvakare munhu mukuru. Kunyanya kana asingadi kuchinja.
Saka kana iwe uchida kuti zvinhu zvose zvifambe zvakanaka nevarume, tenda mumoyo mako. Tsvaga rudo rwako munzira dzose, uye usamirire kuti gungwa riitwe. Uye nokuda kwehupenyu huri nani, nyatsoongorora nzira dzako dzekupindura uye dzemhuri. Izvi zvichakubatsira kuti urege kufanana nomunhu anonetseka. Zvechokwadi, zvakaoma kubvisa maonero akaiswa naambuya, vanamainini uye vanaamai avo, somuenzaniso, vanhu vose vanonwa kana kuchinja. Asi zvakakosha kuita izvi. Uye ipapo mwoyo wako uchazarurirwa kune munhu akakodzera uyo achabvisa zvinyengeri zvenhema nemanzwiro akave akadzidziswa kubva paudiki, achakupa rutendo murudo.
Kushivirira
Zvakanaka, kana pane rudo. Zvisinei, imwe haikwani kuti igare nokusingaperi. Kushivirira kunoda kunyange kune vakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete nokuda kwerudo, uye kwete nekuda kwekudiwa.
Vakawanda vakaroorana vakararama pamwe chete kwemakore gumi, makumi maviri kana kupfuura, vanotenda kuti chakavanzika chikuru chekubudirira muukama hune rudo ndechekuwirirana. Uye nzira dzakananga dzokurwisa kusagadzikana dziri nyore uye dzakasikwa. Chinhu chikuru ndechokunzwisisa kuti kune vamwe vanhu, kutanga kwezvose, tinoshushikana nezvikanganiso zvatinazvo. Скупердяи carp kumakaro evarume, kunyange kana ichifungidzira. Varume-madronesi vanoshora madzimai avo neutsi, kunyange kana vakananga sekunge vakuvara. Uye vakadzi vanogara vachigara vachida kuudza shamwari dzavo kuti murume wavowo munhu anononoka uye asingabviri. Tevera maitiro ako, chengetedza diary yekuvhiringidza nekukakavara, uye iwe uchashamiswa kuona kuti urongwa hwekusavadza kwewakada hunokutsamwisa iwe hunenge huchienderana zvachose nehuwandu hwezvakanaka zvako.
Chimwe chinhu chinokosha chinobvumira kutsungirira ndiko kukwanisa kumira mukutsamwa. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti uri kuvira, enda kumugwagwa kana mune imwe imba. Uye rambai muchikakavadzana mushure mokunge mutambo wekutanga wakagadzikana wakagadziriswa. Izvi zvakakununura iwe mitsipa uye inodzivirira zvakanyanya kuora mwoyo uye kupera kwemakakatanwa. Kana pasina nzira yekubuda nayo, uye uyo anowirirana achiomerera pakuenderera mberi nhaurirano, shandisa pfungwa ye "masekondi manomwe". Usati wataura zvakananga panyaya inofadza, itai kune vanomwe. Ndizvo chete iwe unotaura. Dutu remhepo rinogona kugadziriswa munguva shoma shomanana, uye mazwi asina kururama anonyadzisa haazobhururi rurimi rwako uye haazotambudzi mumwe wako kwoupenyu hwake hwose nekuyeuka kwavo.
Kuremekedza
Chakavanzika chekubudirira kwehukama hwehukama hahusi kungovepo kune kuvapo kwe rudo nekushivirira. Chimwe chinhu chinokosha chaunoda kukudziridza iwe pachako, kuzvigadzirira nekukoshesa kuremekedza mumwe wako.
Kusava neruremekedzo kunokurudzira kubvisa kune chimwe chinhu chaicho - mumitambo yepakombiyuta, doro kana kuti zvinodhaka zvekuita zvekuita zvinhu. Kana kusaremekedzwa kwehafu yechipiri kuchibva pachiyero, zvino izvi zvinogona kuva chikonzero chakakomba chekuparadzanisa hukama.
Zvinonyanya kukosha kudzidza ruzivo urwu kubva kuvadzimai vezvinwiwa. Chikonzero chikuru chevarume kuti vaende kunwa doro ndechokusaremekedza, kuzvidzora uye kuora mwoyo kwemumwe wako. Ndicho chikonzero munhu mumwe chete asingagoni kunwa nemudzimai mumwe, uye anotanga kurara nomumwe. Icho chinotarisa kuti mukadzi anogona kukwanisa kuchinja mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye kumutsa murume wake kurega kunwa. Mumwe chete anofanira kudzidza kuti angava sei museki, kumutsigira, kumuremekedza nekumukurudzira munguva dzekushaya simba.
Uye kazhinji zvakakosha - kukwanisa kuona munhu ari mumwe wako, kumuremekedza uye zvaanoda, kumubatsira pakuzadzisa zvaanoshuva. Hazvishamisi kuti ivo vanoti shure kwevanhu vose vanobudirira mumwe munhu anoda. Kutenda uye kutsigirwa kubva kuvabereki, hama, hanzvadzi kana mudzimai, murume anogona kuva hwaro hwehupenyu kubudirira. Uye kana munhu ari kufara uye akazviwana muhupenyu huno, zviri nyore kwaari kuti avake ukama hwemhuri. Ndokusaka iwe usingafaniri kunyadzisa munhu, kuderedza kukudzwa kwake uye mano. Zvakakosha kutenda mairi uye nekuremekedza sezvazviri.
Nguva yekukurukurirana
Hwakawanda hukama hwakanaka hukama hunoparara kunze chete nokuti kuda mumwe nemumwe vakaroorana havana nguva yeumwe neumwe. Kana vakaona imwe imwe hafu yeawa manheru uye mangwanani, musaenda kunorara pamwe chete, musapinda pamapikisiki, musati mugoverana maonero ehupenyu, ipapo kubatana kwakadaro kuchaparadzwa.
Mune rwiyo rune hasha rwehupenyu hwemazuva ano, zvakaoma kuwana nguva yekukurukurirana kwakanaka kune mumwe nemumwe. Asi zvakafanira zvachose kuita izvi. Mari yose yausingawani nayo, saka usatambura ne workaholism, kana zvinogona kuitika kuti basa rako rakanaka harifaniri kudiwa neumwe munhu kunze kwako.