Kuberekwa kwomwana hakusi mufaro mukuru kune vose vechidiki nevabereki uye vanasekuru navanasekuru. Iyi ihwowo kutanga kwemarefu ehupenyu, nokuti hazvina kukwana kubereka mwana ane utano, zvinokoshawo kuti uwane simba rakakura (zvose mumuviri nepfungwa) kuitira kuti mwana akure ane utano uye akachenjera.
Imwe yehutano iyo mwana anotanga kudzidza iye chaiye kubva pamazuva okutanga ehupenyu hwake ihwo kukwanisa kutaura. Uye kunyange zvisingazove nguva refu asati ataura shoko rake rokutanga, asi chiyeuchidzo chevana chakatotanga kugadzirisa uye kuziva mazwi, mashandisiro, mazwi nemitsara kuitira kuti atange kuzvitaurira zvakajeka pamusoro pezera remakore. Asi kusvikira pano, vabereki vachiri kuita zvakawanda pamwe chete nemwana wavo kudzidzisa unyanzvi hwekutaura. Pane nzira iri nyore yekudzidzisa mwana wako kuti ataure sei zvakanaka? Tichawana nhasi!
Chinhu chokutanga amai vechidiki vanogona kuita kuti vave nechokwadi chokuti kutaura kwomwana wavo kwakachena uye kwakanaka munguva yemberi ndeyokutaura naye nguva dzose, uye kutaura zvakajeka manzwiro ose pasina kuchinja kune izvo zvinonzi "kutaura kwevana." Mumwe haafaniri kunyara uye akatsanangurira mwana zvinhu zvose zvinoitika zvakapoteredza pasinei nemwedzi yakawanda nemazuva mwana ari. Mushure mezvose, chinhu chikuru kumwana ndekunzwa izwi raamai, kuzvinzwisisa uye nekurirangarira. Uye mushure memwedzi mishomanana, iye pachake achaedza kudzokorora shure kwake-pakutanga pakutanga mhere-mhere uye mashandiseti, ipapo mazwi ari nyore. Asi izvi hazvirevi kuti ruzivo rwese rwemashoko rwakagamuchirwa naye haruna kuonekwa uye harurangarirwi naye.
Vabereki vaduku vakawanda vanotaura nevana vavo pamba vanotanga kunyara kunyanya kuita izvi pachena - panguva yekufamba kwemazuva ose, kana kugadzwa kwechiremba. Vanofunga kuti vanotarisa benzi, vachitaura kune vasingazivi nemwana muduku akadaro. Uye hazvina maturo-nokuti nenzira iyi inosunungurwa kubva kuhutano hwezuva nezuva huwandu hwemashoko akadai uye anofadza kune mwana. Uye kupa mhinduro pamusoro pemwana izvo zviri kuitika hazvidikanwi kwete mumadziro eimba yake, apo hapana chakakosha uye pasi rose zvinowanzoitika. Zvakakosha kupindura pamusoro pezvose zvinoitika mumigwagwa - uye mashizha akawa, uye kuenda kunosangana nemukadzi. Mushure mezvose, kana mwana wacho achiwana ruzivo pamusoro pepasi guru rakamukomberedza, rinowedzera kugadziriswa mumurangariro wake, uye anokurumidza kuedza "kudarika" kunze nekutaura.
Kudzidzisa kutaura kwevana hakufaniri kumbokanganwa nezvetsika yekutaura, kutaura kwakakodzera. Mushure mezvose, kumwana, amai ndivo muenzaniso muzvinhu zvose. Uye kana amai vasingatauri chero mazwi nemashoko zvakarurama (hazvina basa nekuda kwechikonzero-nokuti haakwanisi, kana kuti nekuda kwekuti haadi), ipapo mwana anogona kutanga kutaurira ivo zvisina kunaka. Uye kudzokera shure, kururamisa kwakaoma zvikuru. Saizvozvowo, munhu haafaniri kukanganwa pamusoro pemitemo yekunakirwa kwakanaka, uye kubva pakutanga chaiwo dzidza nemuenzaniso wega mazwi mazwi okuonga. Pashure pezvose, kana vabereki vachitaura mashoko akadaro, ipapo mwana ane gore rimwe chete achakwanisa kutaura kuti "thank you" nokuda kweapuro yakapiwa kwaari, uye achazotarisira mazwi okuonga kubva kwauri nekugovana mavheti ake newe uye kukukoka kuti utambe naye.
Munguva pfupi vabereki vari kuedza kudzorera terevhizheni nemwana. Vanotenda kuti izvo TV inotaura zvinokwanira mwana muduku, uye hapana chikonzero chokutaura naye nguva dzose. Asi pfungwa iyi inonyanya kuipa. Mushure mezvose, kumwana muduku, kazhinji zvinorambidzwa kupedza maminitsi gumi nemashanu pazuva pamberi peTV, uye zvakanyanya zvokuti vana havagoni kutarisa zvinhu zvose - chete mifananidzo yakanaka yemimhanzi isingabatsiri mwana wechirwere chepfungwa. Zvinyorwa zvekare zveSoviet genre munyaya iyi zvichaita zvakanakisisa, nokuti kusvikira zvino isu, kare, vakwegura vakadaro, tichifara uye tichagara paTV kutarisa "vaimbi veBrmen" kana kuti "Kapitoshka". Kuramba uchidzokorora mumapepa emashoko, kudzokorora nyaya imwechete kunogona kubatsira mwana wacho mukududzirwa kwemashoko ake okutanga. Paunosarudza makateti emakumbo ako, yeuka chinhu chakakosha - zvidhori zvinofanira kunge zvichinyatsogoneka, hero dzavo dzinofanira kunge dziine zviratidzo zvemhuka chaiyo, uye kwete dzimwe dzisinganzwisisiki dzinofananidzira vanhu. Nguva yenguva dzesimba dzinotyisa dzichauya mushure, apo mwana anogona kutsanangurwa.
Asi usakanganwa kuti makatekoni ndeyechipiri, chinhu chinokosha kumwana ndiko kukurukurirana kwako naye, zuva nezuva, maminitsi ose, zvinyoro uye zvinonakidza iwe mose. Usatora chokwadi chokuti mwana wako achadzidziswa kutaura zvakanaka pane iwe (vanasekuru, shamwari mudivi, vadzidzisi muchechi chechikoro). Iwe, uye iwe chete, unogona kudzidzisa mwana wako, uye iwe chete iwe unogona kuona uye kuita zvenguva, kana chimwe chinhu chichienda. Teerera pane zvose izvo mwana wako anoita uye anotaura. Uye kana semhaka yekukurukurirana kwako naye, kukurukurirana kwezuva nezuva, haana kutanga kutaura kusvikira ava nemakore matatu, usatarisira kuti "ataure", zviri nani kutaura nevanyori pakarepo. Pashure pezvose, zvinetso zvingave zvakasiyana zvikuru. Uye nokukurumidza ivo vanozivikanwa nevanyanzvi, zvishoma zvichange zvichishungurudza mberi kwekuvandudza kwomwana, uye zviri nyore ivo vanogona kubviswa.
Pane nzira iri nyore yekudzidzisa mwana wako kuti ataure sei zvakanaka? Zvinonyanya kukosha - ida mwana wako, uye usambofa usina hanya neanoedza kuita kana kutaura chero chinhu. Mukurudzire, mumubatsire, mupe mukana wokukudziridza. Uye, zvinonyanya kukosha - taura naye uye teerera kwaari, chero chii chinoitika muupenyu hwako.