Mukadzi anokwanisa kubva kune rimwe zuva rakanaka kuti awedzere nhoroondo yose uye anokoshesa kuyeuka kwemakore akawanda. Uye zvakanaka, kana zvichingoyeuchidza: kakawanda tinotanga kutambura, kuisa mupfungwa dzedu kukosha kwezvakaitika, kuvhara kubva kune hukama hwechokwadi, kuendesa simba rose kune imwe nzvimbo inoshevedzwa, kusangana mumusangano wekugarisana nevamwe kana kusangana mushure mekunge adzoka kubva panzvimbo yacho. Kuita rudo kune rumwe rutivi rwevakadzi vakaroora haisi nyaya yenyasha munguva yedu, asi a. Nokukurumidza kana kuti, shure kwekushayiwa simba rakawanda uye mukana chaiwo wekugadzira ukama hwakakwana, mukadzi wacho anouya pakugumisa kuti akanyengerwa, asingadi kuziva chokwadi chakanaka chokuti akazvinyengera. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, mukadzi anotanga uye anotora ruzivo rworudo kwete nemunhu chaiye, asi nemakore ake, makore anokosha uye iye zvino, pakupedzisira, akapiwa mukana wekuona kurota. Murume ari munezviroto idzi anotora chikamu chezvakawedzerwa, uye, pachena, muroti kazhinji haana nguva kana chido chokumutarisa zviri nani, zvichida edza kuona kuti munhu akaita sei kwaari. Iyo inowanikwa syndrome yaTatiana Larina: "Mweya wakanga wakamirira mumwe munhu ... Uye wakamirira." Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvikonzero zvikuru zvinoita kuti kuenderera mberi kworudo kune rumwe rutivi rwomukadzi akaroorwa kuora mwoyo. Asi kune vamwewo ...
Sei tichikweverwa kune itsva?
Sei huwandu hwevanyanzvi - kubva kuvhupfungwa dzepfungwa kuenda kune vanoongorora nyeredzi - vasina chokwadi zvikuru pamusoro pechirevo che "yechipiri chinyorwa?".
Iyo yakaisvonaka chinhu, itsva inokwezva
Uye nemurume uyu, iwe hausati uine matambudziko emari, kukakavara uye kukanganisa kunorwadza. Iwe hausati wakwanisa kukwanisa kuenzaniswa nayo kuitira kuti uzive zvaanoita nemaziso akavharwa uye chimiro chekuvhara kuti unzwisise kuti mangani emakani ewaini ainwa zuva rakapfuura. Zvose kwamuri - kuwanikwa nekuzarurirwa. Maiwe, maererano nechirongwa chepanyama, ruzivo ruripo rwehuropi risina mazuva anopfuura makumi mana.
Hormonal splash
Sezvo wakasangana nechinhu chitsva chepabonde, muviri unopindira mune imwe nzira: inogadzira mahomoni, pheromones uye neural dzakasiyana-siyana neural, izvo, kutanga, zvinoita kuti iwe unakidze mumaziso echinhu ichocho, uye chechipiri, zvinoita kuti kuwedzerwa kunzwisisika kune zvipo zvayo. Nguva yeHommonal insanity mavhiki matanhatu.
Front side
Pahotera yacho, tinoenda kunorarama upenyu huri nani kwevhiki mbiri kupfuura isu tinokwanisa kuita mamwe mazuva 350 pagore. Nzvimbo iyi ndiyo mukana wemurume (uye wemukadzi) kuti ave izvo zvaaida kubva kubva pakuyaruka - kupa, kuchenjera, kwakasimba, kwakasimba, asi chaizvoizvo hazvibatsiri: zvakaoma, zvinodhura, uye zvakanyanya kunetseka. Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti uku ndiko kunyengedza nemaune. Imi, zvakare, makasununguka pakushambidza uye kuwedzeresa, mune nguva yekushambadzira kweBalinese uye kutasva mabhiza, kwete sezvakaita kumba. Uye izvi hazvirevi kubiridzira ... Kungongova chokwadi chiri nani pane zvese.
Kusununguka!
Murume akaroora, achizorora asina mudzimai, achaedza kwete kungoita chete nguva yakarasika, asi kupa mukadzi izvo zvisipo (kana kuti hazviiti) kupa mudzimai anokodzera. Zvisinei, mumakore makumi mapfumbamwe nemakumi matatu kubva kune zana, hapana mumwe wevarume ava vari kufunga nezvechinhu chipi zvacho chakakomba kupfuura kupera kwevhiki mbiri mumatambudziko avo emhuri. Uye zvakadaro, pasinei nezvose, iwe unoda kuti zhizha risati dzapera - uye, zvinoratidzika, dzakagadzirira kuenda kune chero upi neupi, kuti uchengete huwandu hwomunhu uyo, sezvaunofunga, akaunza zororo, zuva, rudo kune hupenyu hwako. .. Zvakanaka, edza kuti urege kurasikirwa nemusoro wako uye kunyatsoongorora maitiro ako. Kana iwe uchitevera manzwiro, saka, zvirokwazvo, unoda kutengesa pane murume, zvisingaiti kure newe kubva munharaunda: unofanirwa kunzwisisa kuti kugara mune rimwe guta uye, zviri nani zvakadaro, kune imwe nzvimbo yehutano, imi mose munowana mukana wakakwana kuumba "chimwe chinhu chakakomba" kudarika kana makore ako, geographical uye zvemagariro zvinopindira muhukama hwako sezvipingamupinyi. Asi chinangwa munyaya idzi haisi nguva dzose nzvimbo. Zvadaro zvibvunze, iwe uri mukadzi akabudirira wemakore makumi mana-mana kubva kuguta guru: iwe wakagadzirira kutsigira uye kukurudzira plumber yemakore makumi maviri nemaviri isingachinjiki kubva kune rimwe divi reRussia riri pakati nepakati kana akateerera kudiwa kworudo uye, achisiya zvinhu zvose, anokurumidza kuenda kwauri kune guru? Uye achakwanisa kuchinja here?
Yeuka kuti kuedza kwako ku "kurega zvinhu zvose" hazvigone kumira muedzo wenguva. MuJordanian Petra, pane nyaya pamusoro pevakashanyira veAustralia vakawira zvakanyanya murudo neBedouin kuti yakasiya nyika yake nemhuri yake ndokugara mubako kwemakore akawanda. Zvisinei, apo, mushure memakore mashomanana, iye akazadzwa nehupenyu hwemararamiro uye aida kudzoka nemwana wake kunyika yezvakaitika kare, aifanira kupfurikidza nemhando dzakawanda dzinofadza zvisati zvaitika zvose zvakanaka: zvirokwazvo, maererano nemutemo weSharia, mwana wacho ndewemhuri yababa ... Iye zvino muPetra (uye kwete chete) unogona kutenga bhuku reAustralia Juliet asina hanya "Hupenyu hwangu nevaBedouin." Inokurudzirwa zvikuru kuti iwe uiverenge iyo usati wasarudza pane zvimwe zvinyunyuta muzita remanzwiro. Zvisinei, ngatirege kukanganwa pamusoro pezvimwe. Semuenzaniso, kubva mutemo usingashanduki unotaura kuti kubva pamitambo yezororo hauiti chero chinhu chakanaka. Kana iwe uchifunga kuti zvakakosha, tora njodzi!
Nzira dzekusimbisa kufanana
Kuti urambe uchibudirira, unobereka uye kazhinji sezvaunoda, unotanga kutarisira nguva refu musati waparadzana. Pfeka ivhu! Kuti "tipe mukana wekusangana nesu mushure mekudzoka?" Kuti uwane chido chakakwana "hongu!" Shandisa "anchor system". Nguva dzose kana munhu ari nani newe - anonzwa akazvidzora, akasununguka, uye anofara - "gadzirisa" kunzwa uku nekubata zvinyoro kunzvimbo imwe chete (somuenzaniso, kune benderedhi yehuta kuitira kuti "nzvimbo yakavanzika" igare iripo kwauri). Mushure memazuva 7-10, iye achava ne-conditioned reflex - kupindura kune zvakakosha kugadzirisa mupfungwa. Zvino bvunza mubvunzo uyu, pasina kukanganwa kushaya njodzi kuisa ruoko pahota yake ... Asi usakanganwa kuti kwe 1-2 touches hapana "anchor" inogadziriswa, "gadzirira pasi" inofanira kubva kubva musi wekuzivana ...
Bata pane zvisina maturo
Murume anoda kushamiswa. Zvakanaka, teerera, teerera uye unyeke - uye, zvichida, iye pachake achada kukudzosa kuhupenyu hwake. Yeuka kamukira raLily Brik: "Tinofanira kumutsidzira murume kuti anoshamisa uye akangwara, asi kuti vamwe havanzwisisi izvi ... Zvakanaka, vamwe vose vachaita shangu dzakanaka uye zvisikwa zvepasi zvesirika."
Ita chikwata chaasingagoni kuramba
Wakave wakwanisa kuwana huwandu hwezvaanoda uye unowanikwa pasi? Dzorera zvinyoronyoro hurukuro kuenda kumakonti kana kuenzanisa kuti unogona kushanyira mushure mokudzoka. Ipapa yacho iri nyore kudzidza paInternet, inowanikwa mune chero nzvimbo ipi zvayo.
Ita mu sms flirt
Pamberi payo, kumutsa kufarira kwevarume kune nzira dzakadaro dzakavimbika seSMS-kutaurirana. Akajaira kuti awane kubva kwauri madiki mashoma, achida kana kuti anonyadzisira, achavamirira pachivande uye apo mararamiro ako-ne-kurutivi apera. Kunze kweiyo, iyi ndiyo nguva yakanaka kwazvo yekutsinhanisa foni nhamba mberi ... Ndiyo mushandi wehotera umo iwe wapedza nguva yako yezororo. Kune vashandi vechikwata chekushanyirwa kunoratidzirwa nemafungiro ekunyengera kune vatashanyi. A inova iyo yakava kwauri chiitiko, nokuda kwake - kuvaraidza chete pakati pehotera yehotera zuva rega rega. Iye ari aborigine mune iyo nyika yekumaodzanyemba kwawakauya kuzorora. Kune vaGiriki, veTurkey nevevaEgipita, kutarisira vatasvi vemasikirati akanaka kune nyaya yekuremekedzwa. Nhamba yekusaita inoda kuti vape kamwe maoko avo nemwoyo, asi musatora mhiko dzakaipisisa. Wakaitika here pakuona kuti akakunyengera iwe? Yainzi Edward Ivanov, asi iwe wakaona tiketi yezita raRobert Vasin? Akati akange asina mwana, uye mifananidzo yemapatya yakabuda muhomwe yacho? Kunyangwe kana unyengeri husina mhosva, hunoratidzika pachena kuti iwe hauri kutaura nemunhu chaiye, asi nechikafu. Anonyatsoziva kuti unogara kupi, kuti unowana mari yakawanda sei, sei iwe uri pamba, mari yakawanda yawakatora ... Usakanganwa pamusoro pehupo hwevashandisi vanoshandisa rudo rwevakadzi nekuda kwezvinangwa zvisingaiti. Usazvizarurira kune munhu waunoziva kwemazuva matatu. Kutarisa kwauri, anotanga kuratidza chete mushure mekuita doro rewaini, asi pamusoro wepamusoro unochengetedzwa. Usazvipupurira kuti izvi zvinoda kuchengetedza mukurumbira wako. Zvingangodaro, ihwo hukama hwakaoma nedoro.
Izvo zvinoshamisa zvemakororo ekufambisa zvinotsanangurwawo ne-topological aspect. Simba renzvimbo iyo, kuwirirana nesimba rega, rinokurudzira zvatinoda. Izvi zvinoitika kuti nzvimbo yawakasarudza (uye kusarudzwa kwaisava pangozi, kunyange kana ichiita kwauri kuti iwe wakangobata tiketi inopisa), inonyanya kukonzera kuratidzwa kwekusava nehanya kwako uye inonakidza kune inovhura kupfuura nzvimbo yekugara. Maiwe, zvinoitika kuti mushure mekusiya "nzvimbo yako yerudo", unorasikirwa nedzimwe simba rudo. Ichi ndicho chimwe chezvitsanangudzo zvekuderera kwekuda kwezororo. Kunyangwe, pane nguva dzatinoenda kugungwa, kungosangana nerudo rwehupenyu hwose. Uyu manzwiro "anouya" nesu pamba uye anonyatsoita midzi pane ivhu rinowanzoitika. Nenzira yakawanda, tinogona kutaura zvakachengeteka kuti horoscope yemunhu inoshanduka zvakanyanya mushure mokufamba, uye izvi zvinogona kuchinja zvakasiyana. Munhu anogona kuve akabudirira zvikuru mune bhizinesi, rudo, ukama nevanhu - mune chero chinhu ... Asi zvichida, pane zvinopesana, vanova varombo. Zvose zvinoenderana nehutungamiri chaihwo hwauri kuenda, uyewo pane nzvimbo yemapuraneti mune horoscope yekuzvarwa kwako. Asi nerubatsiro rwekuongorora nyeredzi zvinonyatsobvira kusarudza nzvimbo yakadai pasi pano, apo iwe unotamira kune iwe uchange uine rufaro murudo. Nenzira, uchitarisira tarisiro yebhuku rekushandura uye kunyange kupfuurira kwaro, iwe unogona kutendeuka kune hutori hwekuongorora nyeredzi, nokuti inyeredzi yezvokwadi. Anotaura pamusoro pekuti pane zvichaitika (hongu kana kwete), uyewo anogona kutaura nezvemamiriro ezvinhu anotevera chiitiko chacho. Zvisinei, kana ukasarudza nzvimbo yekufamba, nyeredzi yekuongorora inogona kubatsira zvakare.