Nhema dzinopoteredza kusurukirwa kwevakadzi

Vakadzi, avo nekuda kwezvikonzero zvikwanise havagoni kuronga hupenyu hwavo hwega uye vanomanikidzwa kupinda muupenyu chete, hazvisi zvishoma. Vanhu vose vakanga vasina usimbe kwazvo kuti vanzwisise zvikonzero zvechiitiko ichi uye kunyange vakaedza kuzvitsanangura. Asi kazhinji vese vanoisa zvinyorwa zvinyorwa ndezvechokwadi kunyengedza mazano uye nhema dzisiri dzechokwadi. Ngativei (nerubatsiro rwevanyori vepfungwa) kuti tibvise pfungwa dzisina kunaka pamusoro pekusurukirwa kwevakadzi. Nhema imwechete: vakadzi vanomanikidzwa kuti vararame voga nekuda kwekuoneka kwavo kusingadi
Pakutanga, zvinhu zvose zvakajeka: kana zvakasikwa "joked" pamusoro pekuonekwa kwekadzi, kana kuti asingamubvumi kuti aone kunaka kwake, achivanza pasi pechishambidzwa chisina kusarudzwa, mikana yekufadza vanhu vakasiyana-siyana inowanzoita zero.

Maererano nenyanzvi, chokwadi chiri mumashoko aya chiripo. Zvisinei, kutarisa hakusi kugadzirisa chinhu. Uye muenzaniso weiyu uwandu hwevakadzi vakapfeka zvakanaka, vakagadzirirwa zvakanaka, vakadzi vanocherechedza vanoramba vasina kuroorwa kana vasina shamwari yakasimba. Zvinosuruvarisa, hazvizivi kana kukanganwa kuti varume vari kutsvaga kwete chete dzakanaka, asiwo avo avo vachange vaine hutano. Nokudaro, mukadzi ane tsika dze "snow queen" ane mikana shomanana yekumirira, kunyanya kusvikira apedza basa, nyanzvi muchinda anokwanisa kusungunusa ice re mweya wake.

Muchiitiko, kazhinji kacho "masimba" akadaro haakwanisi unyanzvi hwokutanga hwekutaurirana nevakomana vakasiyana. Vanopedza zvinhu zvavo zvose (zvose zvenyama nezvinhu) kuti vaone kuti maitiro avo anoenderana nemufananidzo wakaisvonaka wavakagadzirira ivo pachavo. Saka, kuumba ukama nemurume havana simba rakasara zvachose, asi kuitira kuti vave nazvo, zvakakosha kushanda zvakaoma! Muzviitiko zvizhinji, sewe shamwari muhupenyu, murume achasarudza musikana ane maonero asina kuchinja, asi achiedza kumupa zvaanoda, achimupa ushamwari uye kunyaradza. Uye zvisikwa zvisingasvikiki zvisingasvikiki, marwadzo, zvinogara pa "gorosi rakaputsika".

Nhema mbiri: kusava nehutano hwezvemari
Zvinotendwa kuti rimwe remabasa makuru edzimai nderokudzidzisa mwanasikana wake kuti ararame mabasa epamba. Kutya chizvarwa chechidiki chinokura nekuziva kuti kusvetwa uye kusagadzirisa zvinotyisa zvinotyisa vese vashandi vanogona, vanambuya naamai vanoita kuti vagari venhaka avo vagone kugadzira, simbi, kuchengetedza imba yakachena uye yakasununguka ndiyo inonyanya kukosha yekuonekwa kwevarume varume mune ramangwana revakadzi pavanowedzera. Mukuwedzera, iyi ndeimwe yenzira dzekuchengeta munhu kunze kwako.

Zvisinei, mazvikokota zvepfungwa vanoti hupfumi hwevakadzi haisiyo chete chakavanzika chehupenyu hunosimbiswa. Haasi vanhu vose vakafanana. Mhosva apo "mubiki anobva kuna Mwari" kana kuti mumiririri ari mumaoko ose ari kuputika muhombe yemhuri - motokari uye koroti. Uye zvose nokuti munhu haana kukwana kuva pedyo naye mukadzikadzi-amaikadzi, iye anongomutambudza, naizvozvo angamusarudza kumunhu asina matarenda ehupfumi, asi anofadza nehupenyu hwake. Nokudaro, pedo nekwanisi yekuchengetedza imba yako yakachena uye inofadza, iri kure nekusava nehanya nekugara uchishanda iwe pachako maererano nehukuru hwekuvandudza, iyo inofanira kunzwisiswa kwete kungoverenga magazini evakadzi. Mushure mezvose, hakuna munhu anoda kutendeuka kubva kumukadzi anodikanwa achienda kune munhu ari nyore kumba, uye varume vazhinji havadi kuona kushandiswa kwakadaro kwakanyanya ....

Nhema nhatu: maitiro akaipa
Kuva nenyota ndeimwe nzira inotungamirira kusurukirwa. Mushure mezvose, kune vanhu vashomanana vanoda kuedza zuva rega rega nemunhu benzi uye asingakanganisi.

Zvakanaka, asi kwete chaizvo. Kutaura zvazviri, kududzira rwiyo runonyanya kuzivikanwa kamwe chete, nharo yakasiyana ... Vakadzi vanozivikanwa nemasina maturo, asi ndiani anokwanisa kutarisira mumwe wavo uye kuita zvaanoda, vane mikana yakanaka yekuchengeta munhu ari pedyo naye kwemakore akawanda. Kana, zvisinei, pfungwa dzomukadzi idzi dzinongova dzakapoteredza iye nenyika yavo, uye murume anova chigadzirwa chete kuburikidza nazvo chaanosimbisa uye anogamuchira marudzi ose ezvakabatsire, zvino munhu anogona kunyatsofunga kuti hukama hwakadaro huchakurumidza kupera.

Nhema Nhatu: mubhedha - "runako runorara"
Vamiririri vakawanda vehutano hwakanaka vanogutsikana kuti kumurume, kutanga, zvose zvekuita zvepabonde zvemukadzi zvakakosha. Asi mazvikokota zvepfungwa vanofunga kuti kuita zvepabonde hakusi chinhu chakakosha muhukama, saka hapana vanhu vakawanda. Mushure mezvose, munguva yehupenyu, hutano hwepabonde kana hutano husina hukama huri kurongedzerwa, vakaroorana vari kuwana ruzivo nekugadzirisa pane zvavanoda.Kana murume iyeye akaisa kugumisa ukama chete nokuti anonyadziswa nekuita zvepabonde nemumwe wake, zvinoita here kutarisira kuti munhu wacho nezvinhu zvakakosha zvichava shamwari yakakodzera yehupenyu?

Nhema dzechishanu: usazvida iwe pachako
Zvechokwadi vanhu vazhinji vanoziva shoko rokuti, muchizvida iwe, iwe uchaita kuti vamwe vazvida iwe pachako. Zvisinei, mumwe munhu haafaniri kuitora chaiyo. Ichokwadi kuti iwe unoda kuda nekuzviremekedza iwe, asi kuti uyambuke mutsetse uye uzvive udyire, husingafariri nezvezvinodikanwa zvevamwe, asi hazvibatsiri, nokuti kuomerera kune iri mararamiro ezvakanaka zviri nyore kuparadzanisa vashandi vanogona. Sezvo asangana nomunhu akadaro, varume vanosarudza kusaonana naye, nokuti vanoziva kuti mukadzi, akagadzirirwa pfuma yake, haagoni kupedza manzwiro ake pane mumwe munhu.

Nhema Ichitanhatu: Vanhu vose vakakodzera vatovimbiswa
Chimwe chezvikonzero zvevakadzi vasina kuroorwa - varume vose vakakodzera "chikwata" ichocho chave chaparadzwa, uye avo vose vakasara nokuda kwechimwe chikonzero havana kukodzera kupfeka chikwata ichi chinozvikudza ...

Zvechokwadi, iyi ichitaura chinonyadzisa, nokuti kana vanhu vose vasina kuroorwa, saka nei vakasarudzwa vakawira pane vamwe vakadzi? Uye nzira yekutsanangurira sei chokwadi chokuti vamwe vakadzi mumakore makumi mashanu ekuwana murume hazviremi, asi kune mumwe munhu uye pamakore makumi maviri nemashanu ndezvisingabviri basa ... Mazano evanofunga nezvepfungwa munyaya iyi iri nyore: dambudziko rinofanira kutsvakwa mukati mako, uye kwete mumarume , iyo inokupoteredza.

Kana iwe uri woga, nokuti hukama hwose nevarume pashure penguva hunopera pasina, saka kufunga kwekuti sei kusangana kwakanaka uye kwakanaka kakawanda "mbudzi" isingabatsiri kubatsira. Usashungurudzika pamusoro pe karma yako yakaipa, verenga mabhuku pamusoro pe "korona yekusagadzikana" nedzimwe nhesi. Edza kuwana chikonzero iwe pachako, shandura chimwe chinhu iwe pachako, uye zvichida ichi chichava chinhu chinotendeuka muupenyu hwako hwega.