Hazvigoneki kugadzirira rufu nguva isati yasvika, uye kunyange kana munhu akange akwegura kana kuti akarwara kwemakore akawanda, nhau dzekufa kwake dzaizova dambudziko rechokwadi kune vadikanwa vake. Mushure memashoko aya anosuruvara, anogamuchirwa kuratidza kuzvidzora kune hama, shamwari, vashandi pamwe nevamwe vose vanoziva vakafa. Nzira yekuita nayo - sarudzo yega yega munhu wose. Vamwe vanoda kunzwira tsitsi, vamwe - kunyora tsamba, chechitatu - kugovera marwadzo mundima, yechina condoles nemabasa.
Nzira yokuratidza sei runyaradzo mune prose?
Mumashoko akajeka uye anonzwisisika zvakakodzera kuratidza kushungurudza kwako zvose pafoni, uye mumunhu, uye mumutsamba kana kunyange kutumira meseji. Chinhu chikuru ndechokutevera mitemo yakawanda uye kuzviita nenguva, nokuti iri panguva apo kufanana kwevakafa vari kunyanya kurwadza, kunzwira tsitsi kuchava kwakakodzera. Edza kutaura pamusoro pevakafa:
- nomwoyo wose uye nomwoyo wose;
- zvisina kurongwa, asina kudzidza;
- funga nezvomunhu uyu, murangarire iye, uye ipapo mazwi achange ari chaiwo;
- yeuka nguva dzechiedza dzakabatana nayo, edza kuita sarima inoshungurudza mukuyeuka kwevasati vambofa.
Kutendeseka kwako kucharatidzwa kuburikidza nehupiro hwekubatsira kunobatsira (pamwe nesangano remariro, kubhadhara magwaro, kutenga mabhizimisi). Zvichida vanhu vanochema vacharamba kana kusava nehanya nezvamunofunga, uye ichi hachisi chikonzero chekutsamwa, nekuti munhu mumwe nomumwe kurwadziwa kunozviratidza nenzira yavo pachavo. Kubvuma, kubata uye kuchema misodzi kuchareva zvakare kuti iwe hauna hanya nemunhu akafa uye hama dzake. Dzimwe nguva kuratidzwa kwakadaro kwemanzwiro kunobatsira kukanda kunze kwekunzwa kwakanyanya, uye kuhama dzevakafa zvinova nyore. Uye zvakadaro, kutaura kunogona kurondedzera izvo zvisingaiti kuti zvive zviratidzo. Muchirevo kana mumanyorero - usasarudza mazwi ekunzwira tsitsi mukutaura kwenguva refu. Mitsara miviri kana mitatu yakakwana kuti iratidze tsitsi. Somuenzaniso:
- Zvechokwadi aireva zvakanyanya kwauri uye kwandiri. Ini ndinogoverana kusuruvara kwako, uye handingakanganwi kuti aive ani kwandiri. Ndichamunyengeterera.
- Akatipa ushamwari hwakanyanya uye rudo, akadzidzisa zvakanyanya ... Ndinochema nemwi, uye kana ndikakwanisa kubatsira, taura chete kudaro.
- Ini zvechokwadi handingakanganwi, sezvaakati kwandiri: "...".
- Ndakanga ndisingamuzivi, asi iwe wakataura nezvake kakawanda zvokuti zvinoratidzika kwandiri kuti ndaimuziva. Ndine urombo zvikuru. Bata! Ndinewe.
- Ndapota gamuchirai runyaradzo rwangu. Kana ndikakwanisa kukuitira chimwe chinhu, ipapo ini ndichafara chaizvo.
Zvechokwadi, mienzaniso iyi haisi matanho ekuunza tsitsi kune rufu, asi, zvichida, ivo vachakubatsira iwe kuwana mazwi akanaka kubva pamwoyo.
Ndinokurudzira sei kufa kwaamai vangu nababa?
Ukama hwemhuri hwakasiyana, uye asi nguva dzose vabereki ndivo vanhu vanozvarwa. Kurasikirwa kwavo kwakaoma zvikuru, uye kushungurudzika kunogona kusingagumi. Ndicho chikonzero nei zvakakosha kuratidza kunzwira tsitsi kugoverana manzwiro akaremara, kutora chikamu chemutoro unoregererwa iwe pachako. Edza kurega kubva kune jam-packed, jaded mazwi akaita se "iwe unofanirwa kubatisisa", "Ndinoziva kuti zvakaoma sei kwauri," "nguva inoporesa," "dzimwe nguva kufa kunorodzwa." Kana iri ichokwadi, mazwi aya ose atove akaonekwa mupfungwa yemunhu anochema, uye iwe uchagadzira mafungiro ekusava nehanya, sekunge kuti ivo vaingoita basa ravo nguva dzose. Udza munhu wacho kuti vabereki vake vaiva vanhu vakanaka. Kunyange dai iwe usina kuvaziva, unofanira kunge wakanzwa nezvavo. Kunyanya kubva iwe uri kutaura kune wavakakurira. Bvunza shamwari pamusoro penguva dzinopenya kubva paudiki, dzinobatanidzwa naamai nababa - zvirangariro zvinobatsira zvishoma kudhiringidzwa, kutsungirira marwadzo ekurasikirwa.
Mashoko api anoratidza kuvhiringidzika?
Edza kudzivisa tsika yefashoni yekuwana nyaradzo mundima kana kutumira mutsara wekunzwira tsitsi muSMS. Kana uri kunyora mharidzo pfupi, ipapo foni iri pamunwe wako, saka sei usingadanidzi? Kuedza kuita runyararo kune zvimwe zvinogona kuumba sludge isingafadzi, sekunge iwe uri kunyengedza kana uri kushandisa mutauro kana kupisa kwevanhu kusingadi kudiwa. Hazvina kudiwa kushandurawo mazwi akareba-akayerera - naiwowo achasimbiswa zvishoma. Ndiudzei nezvekunzwira tsitsi iwe pachako kana nefoni, uye kana usingagoni - nyora tsamba pamapepa kana e-mail. Saka iwe usatuka nguva, asi, zvichida, kubatsira kubatsira kuderedza mutoro wekusuruvara.