Mukadzi mumwe nomumwe, kunyange kana asingakoshi, asi kamwechete pavhiki anofanira kusimudza tsoka dzake kwete chete murume wake, asi imba yose. Zvichida, runyerekupe rwemutemo uye mukadzi anofanira kukwanisa kuunganidza zvinhu zvitatu: chirongo, maziso uye manyawi. Asi pane tsananguro yeiwo unyanzvi hwevakadzi. Mushure mezvose, unogona kuvhara makani nekuchengetedza, uye varume. Kuramba maziso, anogona uye mwana, achitamba nevabereki vake. Asi kufungidzira kushungurudzika ndekwatinoita, mukadzi. Ndiani, kana kwete mukadzi anofanira kukwanisa "kubvisa zvachose pfungwa dzomurume uyu." Uyezve, fambidzana nayo yose nekudanidzira nekukanda zvinhu zvose pasi kusvika kumaoko.
Chii chinonzi hysterics?
Musikana wese anofanira kukwanisa kutora pfungwa nenzira ipi zvayo. Nokudaro, kuonekwa, uye kukwanisa kwakakwana kwe "kuzviisa" ivo pachavo, nguva dzose taura nezvechishuwo chevakadzi kuti vakwekwe zvakanyanya kumunhu wavo. Inonyangadza chimwe chezvinhu izvi here?
Saka, hysteria ndiyo tsika inokosha yemunhu, nenzira iyo, anoedza kukwezva zvakanakira unhu hwake. Asi hysteria, muhutano hwezuva nezuva, inzvimbo chaiyo yehutano uye hachisi chinhu chimwe chekudzidza mukurapa kwepfungwa kuti kubvise pfungwa dzakadaro sepfungwa, hutano hwepfungwa uye hunyengeri hunoita. Iyo hysteria iyo inogona kuzviratidza pachedu mumatambudziko maviri: kuberekwa kusina simba kwehutachiona hwekodhesi nekuda kwekusava nekutonga kwakanaka pamusoro pemabatiro emunhu wacho, uye chiitiko chechipiri kukwezva kwakashata kwomwana. Kazhinji kazhinji, avo vana avo vaiva mhuka dzemhuri mumhuri vanotambura nehana.
Vanyengeri vanogona kuva emhando mbiri-huru uye yakanyarara. Nevanyori vanoridza, munhu anokwanisa kuchema, kuchema, kurova ndiro uye kuita zvimwe zvinhu zvechisimba. Nekunyarara kwehana, zvakasikwa kuti munhu aratidze zviito zvake asinganzwisisiki uye nokudaro agone kuwana mhinduro imwechete seyo nevanonyengedzera zvikuru. Kazhinji, mukadzi ane runyararo hysteria haana kunyarara, uye nekutsoropodza kumunhu uyu, kupwanya hana yake, kana kungovhara mukati mavo, kuzvivhara kubva kune dzimwe nyika.
Chinangwa chikuru chemuitiro uyu chido chokuva pakati pekutarisa. Kazhinji sangano rakadaro rinopera kusvikira avo vose vanopoteredza munhu mumashure vachimuona ndokutanga kumunyaradza uye kupa "ruoko rwake" kana kukumbira kukanganwirwa.
Chiitiko che hysteria .
Dzimwe nguva, kubva kunze, zvinogona kuonekwa sekuti vanhu vanowanzoita vanyengeri vanotaura zvakajeka kune zvose zvinotyisa zvekupedzisira. Somuenzaniso, munhu akajairika haasati aine hutsinye pamusoro pekuti haana kukwanisa kutenga tambo yakada.
Ichokwadi, kuti tinyenyeredze, chinangwa hachidikanwi sezvo. Izvi zvinongova chikonzero chaunogona kubata nacho uye kupa simba rechikonzero chikuru che hysteria. Mune rimwe shoko, vanhu vanowanzoita vanyengeri, usabhadhara zvakanyanya chikamu. Chinhu chikuru ndechekuyeuchidza ivo pamusoro pavo. Saka, vanyengeri ndivo vanogona kukwanisa kuratidza manzwiro avo asiri.
Ziva kufara .
Zvechokwadi, kuchema kwose nemisodzi hazvifaniri kutorwa sevanyengeri. Mushure mezvose, mumwe nomumwe wedu ane shungu dzake uye manzwiro ake, saka anokwanisa kugumburwa nyore, kana kuti ane ruzivo rwechimwe chikonzero kuratidza "zvimwe zviratidzo" zvakafanana nehutsinye. Munyaya iyi, zvinongova zvakakodzera kuti tikwanise kuongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu uye munhu amene ari mberi kwedu. Chero nekuda kweizvi isu tinokwanisa kuziva "kunze kwevanhu vazhinji" wehupenyu hwedu hupenyu hwehupenyu hwevanhu.
Vanyengeri vechokwadi vanowanikwa mune dzimwe nhengo dzeunhu. Zvechokwadi, zvinhu izvi zvinogona kuva nehukama kune vanhuwo zvavo, asi pavanonyangadza vanowira nokukurumidza mumunda wekuona uye kucheka kunzwa.
Vanyengeri, sekutonga, vanofanira kugara vachizvibata vachiratidzira uye vachiedza, mukudaro, saka hazviiti, kuva mukati mekutarisa. Uye kuvimbisa kuti zita rake rakanzwikwa nevanhu vakavapoteredza. Nenzira, vanhu vakadaro vanoonekwa nyore nyore mukuonekwa. Sezvo mutemo, vanopfeka zvisingawanisi uye vane mavara. Uyezve, ivo vanosarudza kupfeka yakawanda yezvipfeko zvakajeka uye zvinooneka. Asi kuseka kwavo nenzwi rezwi nguva dzose zvinonzwika, uye zviratidzo zvizere nemutambo wemitambo.
Vanhu vanogara vachikurumidza kushamwaridzana havakwanisi. Vanorarama nemanzwiro enhema uye vanoita basa ravo rinokosha munzanga (shamwari, mudiwa, bhizinesi). Zvechokwadi, havakwanisi zvachose. Pashure pezvose, vane zvinangwa zvakasiyana zvachose muupenyu. Vanongochema nokuda kwechikonzero chipi nechipi, vachiedza kuratidza kuti vane hanya nezvinhu zvose nezvose zvakapoteredza.
Vose vanyengeri vakapatsanurwa kuva miviri. Rudzi rwekutanga rwevanhu vakadaro runokwanisa kuramba runyunyuti uye runyengeri, uye rwechipiri rudzi runoratidzwa nekuzvirumbidza nguva dzose uye PR pachayo.
Mukuwedzera kune vose vanyengeri vane manzwiro uye vanonzwisisa manzwiro evamwe vanhu. Vanopinda mumweya wemumwe munhu zvikuru kwazvo uye nyore nyore kuishandisa. Muhupenyu hwavo hwega, vakadzi vakadaro vanoda kuona varume vane mutsa uye vanofungisisa vari pedo navo, kuti varambe vachimutsa mhosva yavo.
Chii chandinofanira kuita nevanhu vane utsinye?
Kana munhu akachenjera, achaedza kuzvidzivirira uye kutungamirira simba rake munzira yakasiyana-siyana (mitambo, basa, mhuri). Kuzadzikisa zvigaro munzvimbo idzi, munhu anogona nyore kusvika nekucherechedza kubva kune vamwe.
Kana iwe unotarisana nemunhu anowanzoita vanyengeri, edzai kwete kuti mumukurudzire uye musinga "kutamba kumuviri wake." Kunyange kana pane imwe yakabvaruka ndiro, uye misodzi inongobva kubva pameso omunhu uyu. Kwekanguva, fungidzira iwe uri munhandare. Chero apo, vanyengeri vanopfuurira, edza kutaura nemunhu uyu uye kuratidzira kwaari kuti iwe unogona kuzadzisa zvaunoda neimwe nzira.
Uye pakupedzisira, mukadzi anofanira kushanda kune chiremba wepfungwa kana akacherechedza kazhinji kushungurudza uye kushungurudzika kwepfungwa. Nyanzvi inofanirwa kubatsira kubatsira kukunda chirwere ichi. Nhanho yakanaka uye vanyengeri muhupenyu!