Ndeipi mitemo iyo varume vane mudzimai akanaka?
Zvechokwadi, munzvimbo yekutanga kubva pakuona kwevarume ndeyeAVA. Uye, zvechokwadi, kese yepiri inotaura kuti "kuvhara" haisi kukosha - "chinangwa" chakakosha, chii chiri mukati mweya. Asi uku kuratidzwa kwehunyengeri hwemurume uye unyengeri - kumbira chero munhu kana akagadzirira kugara nevechidiki akanaka kana kuti ane varombo uye akaiswa pasi. Uye usateerera mhinduro. Bvunza uye tarisa mumaziso. Kana iwe uchiramba uchirondedzera vechiduku, ipapo meso achazorora. Uye pakurondedzerwa kwechirongwa ichi chinopera, nekumwemwerera kunotinhira miromo. Mudzimai akanaka akafanana nemubairo, sekumousine inodhura ...
Munzvimbo yechipiri, mumaonero evanhu, i UM. Mukadzi webenzi anoda chete avo vanoramba vachitenda kuti Pasi rinovakirwa nherera. Mudzimai akangwara, akakodzera mubatsiri, mutauriri, mutungamiri, uye pakupedzisira, injini yekunyora kana zvichidiwa. Iko pfungwa huru yevakadzi inoparadza varume. Nokuti pane nguva dzose kunetseka kuti nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare mudzimai akachenjera achabvisa murume wake kubva panzvimbo dzekutanga. Uye kuvanhu, dzimwe nguva hazvigamuchirwi. Nokudaro, kufungidzira mudzimai akanaka, mumwe anofunga kuti mudzimai anofanira kunge akachenjera, asi nenzira yakaenzana uye mumutambo usina njere kupfuura iye.
Mukadzi akakodzera kubva pakuona kwevanhu ndeyezvakasikwa uyekadzikadzi weimba - zvakasimba chirevo ichi chakanyatsosimbiswa munzvimbo yechitatu. Pano, kazhinji, hapana mhirizhonga, nokuti chero munhu anotamisa rutivi rwehurumende pamusoro pehupenyu, kicheni nemidziyo kumudzimai wake. Kushaikwa kwekwanisi iyi mumamiriro ekuremekedza emudzimai uye kunogona kutyisidzira kuputsa muchato, kana kusingabhadharwi nevamwe vose. Saka, zvinodiwa kuti vasikana vadzidze kubika uye kushamba, kuitira kuti varege kurasikirwa nevanoda mugore rekugara pamwe chete.
Asizve kubva pakuonekwa kwevanhu ndechigaro pakarepo kubva pachina kusvika kune yechisere, nokuti zvimwe zvose zvinotarisana zvinopesana pakati pavo uye hazviiti kuti mumwe nomumwe atore nzvimbo yepamusoro: zvepabonde, runyararo, kusava negodo, pfungwa yekuita.
Unhu hwepabonde hwemudzimai ndechikonzero chakakakavhiringidza. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha mumakore ekutanga ewanano. Mukuwedzera, iyo imwechete pamwe chete isingasviki. Nemhaka yokuti mudzimai anonyanya kufanana ndiye mukadzi ane hanya kune vamwe vose.
Munhu wese anorota kuva nemudzimai akadzikama uye akajeka semudzimai. Kuti kwakanga kusina kurira, kunyengedza uye kuputika kukuru. Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti mudzimai akakodzera aibata nemwoyo murefu zvinhu zvose zvemurume wake nemafungiro ake akaipa, asi asingapindi uye asingaiti kukanganisa.
Kusavapo kwe godo kunozivikanwa nevarume sevabatsiri, kunyange zvazvo vanogona kushivirira godo rinononoka remudzimai. Mukuwedzera, kuratidzirwa kwechimwe godo pane chikamu chemudzimai kunotsigira kuzvida kwevarume.
Mhedziso yemaitiro kubva pakuonekwa kwevarume haisi iyo huru uye iri kure nekugadzirisa, asi hunokosha hunhu. Akapfeka zvisina kuchena mukadzi, uye kunyanya zvakadaro mudzimai, kana asina kunyangadza. Icho hachisi kunyanyisa kupindura kubva kune vamwe, asi pane kutyisa kwakasimba kumurume wake kuzviremekedza.
Pakanga pasina maonero kuti mukadzi, pakati pezvimwe zvinhu, anofanirawo kuva echokwadi. Nokuda kwekuti mukadzi asina kutendeka haafaniri kukwirirana nechiremera chemudzimai akakodzera kubva pakuonekwa kwevarume, anorasikirwa nekukosha kwake uye anorega kuva mudzimai zvachose. Mukadzi anodzidzisa vana vangu; mumwe mukadzi anogara neni mune imwe imba - saka inoratidzwa mupfungwa. Ndizvo, chero chinhu, asi haachiri mudzimai, murongo mukuru.