Zvinokwanisika kudzidza nzira yekufambisa zvakanaka kukurukurirana munharaunda yakabudirira, iwe unongoda kudzidza kuti ungavandudza sei unyanzvi hwekutaurirana nevanhu. Haasi munhu wose anogona kutora hurukuro uye akachenjera. Mune unyanzvi hwokukurukurirana, unofanirwa kushandisa zvakawanda, asi usashamwaridzanazve, iwe unofanirwa kunyatsoziva munyaya huru yehurukuro, iwe unofanirwa kushandura kune interlocutor uye mushure mekudzidzisa kwenguva refu iwe unogona kuva anofadza uye anofadza kukurukurirana.
Chokutanga, muhurukuro iwe unofanira kuedza kusashandisa izwi rokuti "I", tsika yemitemo yehutano inoda kudzivisa, mumutauriro nemumwe mutauriri, izvo zvisingafadzi kwaari kana izvo zvinokonzera kusuruvara.
Kuti urambe uchikurukurirana unofanirwa kusarudza nyaya dzichava dzinofadza kumudzidzisi wako. Kuitisa hurukuro mumutauro usinganzwisisi kune vamwe vanhu hazvina kunaka.
Shoko rimwe nerimwe rinofanirwa kurondedzerwa zvakajeka uye nechivimbo kuitira kuti mutauriri wako anzwisise iwe. Asi panguva imwe chete iwe haufaniri kutaura zvakanyanya, chero zvakadaro haufaniri kuva mumamiriro ezvinhu anonyadzisa. Kana musikana wechitatu achipindira muhurukuro yako, uye kukurukurirana kwako kwaiva kweukama hwepedyo, iwe unofanirwa kunge wakakwana zvakakwana uye usina kuoma.
Hazvina mhosva panguva yekukurukurirana iwe unogona kuratidzira kuti iwe unotambudzika kana uchida kutaura nevamwe vanhu. Uyewo haugone kubata mumaoko ako, chero zvinhu zvinogona kukuvhiringidza kubva kuhurukuro kana kutarisa awa nguva yose.
Kuti mukukurukurirana nevasingazivi iwe unonzwa uine chivimbo uye uchinetseka, kuti pasina zvinetso kutanga mutauriro uye nekusununguka kutaura pane zvidzidzo, kugadzirira kwakakosha kunokosha. Iko kunofanira kutakurwa mupfungwa kuti munharaunda ipi zvayo yakabudirira iwe unofanirwa kunge uri wepanyama, uine chivimbo uye wakadzikama sezvaunokwanisa.
Nhamba yezvinetso zvinokurukurwa inogona kunge yakasiyana kwazvo, asi iwe unofanira kungotaura chete pamusoro pemisoro yaunofunga nayo. Usatauri vatauriri pamusoro pezvinetso zvako, matambudziko, zvirwere kana kufungisisa nezvemamiriro okunze.
Kukutaurirana kwako nevamwe kwakafadza uye kukwezva kutaurirana kwevanhu, iwe unofanirwa kuva nekunakidzwa kwakanaka uye unyanzvi hukuru.
Newe munhu wausingazivi iwe unogona kutaura pamusoro pemamiriro ekunze, sezvo nyaya iyi ndiyo yakanyanya kusagadzikana uye haufaniri kuuya nehurukuro yekukurukurirana.
Mukubvunzurudzwa nemumwe munhu usingazivi, zvakanakisisa kuti usataure pamusoro pezvimwe nyaya kana nezvehupenyu hwako. Mushure mokutaura pamusoro pemamiriro ekunze, unogona kutanga kukurukura pamusoro pehurukuro yeTV, yemitambo kana zvepepanhau. Pakupedzisira, unogona kuwana nyaya inofadza kune interlocutor.
Panguva yekugamuchira vaenzi pamba, zvisingafungirwi kune vose kune runyararo rwakaoma uye hapana chinotinetsa pamusoro. Mune nguva yakadaro isinganzwisisiki yevanhu vose, unogona kubata munhu wose neke uye keke uye hurukuro ichadzoka zvakare.
Mifambiro yekukurukurirana inyanzvi huru, iyo isiri iyo yose inogona kutungamirira. Vachabatanidzwa munhaurirano panguva imwe chete, vachirondedzera maonero ekukurukurirana pamusoro pehurukuro dzakatumirwa dzave dziri nyaya yekukurukura. Kuti vadzivirire maitiro avo, zvakakosha kupa zvinhu zvavo zvisingatenderwi pamusoro pekuti mutauriri haazive. Usashandise mazwi akadaro panguva yekukurukurirana se "egoist", "tugodum", "cynic", chero zvipi zvisingagumburisi mutauriri. Mukukurukurirana, unofanira kudzivisa chero generalizations. Kuti kukurukurirana hakuiti kuitirana nharo kana kukakavara kana iwe uchidzivirira maonero ako, uye usingaedzi kukanganisa mutauriri wako.
Munhu akadzidziswa uye akabudirira pahurukuro haazoti vanhu vanopoteredza nezvebasa ravo, mhuri nevana, hupenyu hwehupenyu, zvirwere, zviitiko uye tsika. Uyewo haazotauri nezvezvaakaita mangwanani. Munhu ane tsika uye akadzidziswa haazombocheche.
Kana uri kuedza kutaura pamusoro pehurukuro yakadaro, unofanirwa kupindura zvakasimba kuti hazvinei newe. Kana iwe uchinzwa kuti ivo varikunyomba pamusoro pako, usabhadhara kune iyo. Kazhinji unogona kukurukura nyaya pamusoro pekuonekwa kwevanhu vanoziva, usatsigire hurukuro dzakadaro, sezvo dzisina kunaka.
Mune makambani maduku, haufaniri kutanga kutaurirana neavo vasingazonzwisisiki nevatauriri vako, hazvina maturo, uye haufaniri kutaura nemashoko anongova nevamwe vanhu vachanzwisisa. Kana pane vanhu vanopfuura vanomwe vari mukambani, iwe unoda kuchengetedza kukurukurirana hurukuro, kwete dzimwe hurukuro dzevanhu. Usataurirana nevamwe vanhu mumitauro yekune imwe nyika iyo vatauriri vako vasingatauri.
Hazvina kunaka kukanganisa vatauriri pahurukuro, kunyanya kana munhu akwegura. Usataurira munyori wenhau, kururamisa kukanganisa mumashoko, kugumisa mutsara waro.
Hazvibvumirwi kutaurira vanhu vakuru, chete vechidiki vanogona kuripa muhukama uye nehuno, nenzira.
Usabvunza mumwe wako nezvehutano hwake, kunyange akacherechedza kuti akanga asinganzwi zvakanaka munguva pfupi kana kuti akanga atova muchipatara. Kana iyo interlocutor ichida, acharondedzera nezveurwere hwake pachake.
Usabvunza vanhu kuti uye zvakadini zvavanowana - zvakashata kwazvo. Hazvina kukodzera kubvunza vakadzi vakaroorana kana vasikana nezvechato chavo kana kuti nei vasingaroori, zvishamisika pamusoro peizvi uye kazhinji vatanga kukurukura pamisoro yakadaro.
Kana munhu asiya asina tsanangudzo kana kuti anoreva basa, usabvunza kutsanangurwa kwakadzama kubva kwaari. Kana iwe uchiudzwa chikonzero chekusiya, haufaniri kumudzivisa uye usaedza kupa mazano.
Mumakambani anoshamwaridzana varume vose vanofanira kuita rumbidzo dzinofadza kumadzimai akakomberedza, asi kuti vaite zvakanyatsonaka uye kwete kwete zvachose. Zvakakosha kutaura zvinyararire, nekuvimbika kwete nekudanidzira, asi zvakanyanya panguva imwe chete, pasina kupinda muhurukuro. Pamusoro pekurumbidzwa kwakadaro, pindura nemutsara mutsva.
Pane zvinonakidza uye anecdote uye kusanzwisisika zvakakosha kugadzirisa zvinyararire, kweminiti yekunyarara mushure mokutaura kwakadaro kuita zvakanaka kwazvo, uye mushure memaminitsi mashomanana mumwe munhu anofanira kutanga kutaurirana pane imwe nyaya. Kana munhu achienderera mberi achitaura zvake asinganzwisisiki uye anecdotes uye majee ayo anogona kutungamirira vamwe vanhu kuti vaite chisimbiso chakakwana, ipapo mumwe wevatauriri vanofanira kumumisa.
Usataurira zvakare anecdotes akawanda, asi usingaregi vanhu kuti vasvike mupfungwa dzavo. Zviri nani kutaura anecdotes pamusoro pehurukuro, unobtrusive uye inonakidza. Murume ari kuedza kupenya pfungwa dzake uye majee enjere mashomanana, kazhinji kazhinji anobudisa pfungwa yakaipa pane vamwe.
Iwe unofanirwa kuti usakwanisa kutaura chete, asi zvakare kuteerera. Usatarisa iyo interlocutor ne "kurega" maziso, umo maunenge usipo-pfungwa uye matambudziko zvinogona kuonekwa. Apo munhu akakuudza chimwe chinhu, zvakashata kuti uzvivhiringidze nevamwe vanhu, kutarisa kure, kubhururuka muhomwe, nguva yose kutarisa paawa yako kana kuti kukanganisa iwe kutarisa TV. Zvakakosha kutarisa interlocutor nekufarira uye kubva nenguva nenguva kuisa mazwi okusimbisa kuti kutaura kwakadaro kunonakidza kwauri. Kana iyo hurukuro yehurukuro yawakambonzwa, zvino pakarepo zvakakodzera kuziva "Hongu, ndatozvinzwa uye ndinoziva nezvazvo", saka kwete kuputsa mutauriri wangu. Munhu ane hupfumi uye munhu akakurumbira, haambovi nenguva yekukurukurirana haazovhiringidzi nyaya yemumwe munhu, kunyange kana akazvinzwa kakawanda kare.
Kune vasikana nevakomana vakatova nemakore 18, munofanira kutendeukira kune "iwe". Sekare nemunhu unoziva iwe unogona kutanga kutaura "iwe", kunze kwekunge iwe uine chokwadi chekuti wako interlocutor anofarira izvi.
Mimiki uye zviratidzo zvinokosha zvakare munguva yehurukuro, iyo yatinotaura nayo inova yakajeka uye inojekesa. Zviratidzo zvako zvinofanirwa kunge zvichinyatsojeka uye zvakajeka zvakajeka, asi chinhu chikuru ndechokuti urege kudarika nemagesticulations.