Iko kukwanisa kugamuchira vaeni zvakanaka chinhu chakaisvonaka. Uye haasi munhu wose munyika yedu anoziva kuronga mhemberero dzemhuri zvakanaka nekukwanisa, kune shamwari, hama, vashandi pamwe navo vanogona kukokwa. Kana ukasarudza kuunganidza shamwari patafura yemabiko kumba, unotora kwete kwete nekugadzirira kudya kwekunakidza, asiwo nokuda kwenyika yepasi rose (kusanganisira kunyange zvinhu zviduku zvakadai semaputiki, chiedza nemimhanzi).
Etiquette inowanikwa mune chero mhemberero. Uye iwe unofanira kutarisira kuti vaenzi vanzwe vakasununguka uye vanofara, saka iwe unofunga kufunga mberi nezvezvinofanira kuita uye zvingaitaura navo pamusoro.
Chero munhu chero upi zvaanofanira kuudzwa kare kuti achaenda kupi kuti atore chikamu. Panguva yakatarwa, mumwe nomumwe wemhuri yemhuri anofanira kunge akagadzirira kuuya kwevakashamba (zvose zviitiko zvinofanira kupedzerwa nekuchne, kuchenesa kwapera, tafura inofanira kuiswa, zvigaro zvakarongwa, nezvimwewo).
Chinhu chokutanga chokuyeuka ndechokuti vatenzi vanofanira kugara vachikwaziswa uye vakabatsirwa kubvisa nguvo dzavo dzokunze. Yeuka kuti iwe haufaniri kuvapa ivo mapegi ako (izvi hazvisi zvekusarura). Kana munhu akauya kumba kwako kwekutanga, iwe unofanirwa kumudzidzisa nenzvimbo yemakamuri, uye iwe unogona kupa kuti ugeze maoko ako.Kana kwete vose vakakokwa vanoziva mumwe nomumwe, zvose zvinofanira kuendeswa kune shamwari muhumbo hwakakosha: unoda kuzivisa murume kumukadzi, musikana muduku, varume kana vakadzi vaviri, vanomiririra muduku pane vose. Ruoko rwakatambanudzwa ndechechimiro chetsika yehukama, saka chiratidzo chemukadzi (kuchema kana kuti kutaura) mukadzi anotanga kuisa murume, asi haaiti.
Kana uchigamuchira nhamba huru yevakashanyira, inofanira kuonekwa kuti vose vakashanyira havatauri kamwechete kamwe, saka zvingava zvakanaka kuronga chiduku chema-stand-up pakutanga kwemasikati (lafourchette yakashandurwa kubva kuFrance seforogo, chikonzero chezvokudya zvinotonhora zvinotonhora zvakadai sa canapes, tartlets, thalers, nezvimwewo).
Muridzi wemhemberero anofanira kutarisira mhepo yakawanda yezororo, saka kutanga kutaurirana kunokosha, umo vose vakakokwa vangatora chikamu. Mukumwe kukurukurirana kukuru, mumwe haatauri kwenguva yakareba, vanoudzwa pamusoro pavo nenzira duku uye ine mwero. Usabvunza mibvunzo yakawanda. Iyo interlocutor inoda kukwanisa kuteerera, kunyange kana iwe usingafariri. Iwe haufaniriwo kukakavadzana, sechisarudzo chekupedzisira, iwe unogona chaizvo kuratidza kusagutsikana kwako. Pamusipo kana kusataura, kana kutaura pamusoro pavo zvakanaka chete.
Kana zvinhu zvose zvaungana, muridzi wemhemberero anokukoka munhu wose kutafura, asingakanganwi kutyaira kwakanaka uye kwakanaka kwevaenzi. Izvi zvinofanira kurangarirwa kuti hapanofanira kuva "madzimai" uye "varume" panzvimbo dzekudya, nokuti varume vanofanira kubatsira vakadzi kutora nzvimbo dzavo - shandisa chigaro uye uchitungamirire.
Imwe yemitemo inokosha yemaitiro ndeyokuti haukwanisi kumanikidza muenzi kuti adye - kana munhu pane chimwe chikonzero asingadi kuedza ndiro, haufaniri kuomerera pairi.
Kazhinji festi yekupembera (maererano netsika) yakafukidzwa nemucheka wechena, pakati petafura inofanira kuva vasas nezvibereko, uye munzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana - munyu-saltcellars. Muchikamu chepakati, zvinotonhorera zvinotonhora zvinowanikwa, uye mabhokisi echingwa kumativi akasiyana-siyana. Mabhuruti makuru uye maduku anowanikwa pamakiromita akaenzana kubva kune mumwe, kazhinji ganda rinosungirwa rinowanikwa pamusoro pepakadzika, uye kuruboshwe - peta duku. Kune mahwendefa ose evanhu vane zvokudya uye zvinodya zvinoshandiswa pamunhu mumwechete (kiba, fomu, spatula kana tongs). Kana iyo tafura yekupembera inoshandiswa neforokisi dzakasiyana-siyana (dzekudya, hove kana nyama), dzinofanira kushandiswa pakugadzirira, kushandiswa ndiro (kutanga nechokunyanyisa kweplate). Pamusoro pekodzero ye settee uise banga (blade kudiro) uye mupuni, kuruboshwe - muforogo. Mipumburu yese yevhavha inofanira kunge yakasara nechekuyerera. Apo zvose zvidyo zvinodyiwa, zvakakosha kusimuka, bvisa tafura uye ugadzirire iyo yekuswa. Zvigadzirwa zvemucheka zvinodururwa negirazi dzewaini kana kushandiswa mushure mokusunungurwa kweimwe michina uye mahwendefa.
Mune zviitiko apo inobatwa nemucheka wakagadzikwa naputikiti, vanoiswa pamabvi avo, uye mushure mekudya vanopukuta muputi nemiromo ndokuiisa patafura kuruboshwe rweplate (asi kwete kupeta).
Chingwa, makiki, michero maoko. Kana iyo ndiro iri kure newe, haugone kusvika kune iyo, iwe unofanira kubvunza mumwe munhu kuti akupe iwe pedyo (usakanganwa kuonga basa racho gare gare). Ikopa yakazara inotorwa kubva pasi pekumucheto, pasina kubata nyama.Kudya, pane banga muruoko rworudyi, uye mahwindo kuruboshwe. Kana iwe ukacherechedza kuti mumwe munhu kubva kune vakakokwa vakakanda banga uye foshoro pachikafu nenzira yakafanana-izvi zvinoreva kuti munhu apedza kudya.
Muridzi uye mutungamiri wemhemberero haafaniri kusiya vashanyi vake kwenguva refu, sezvo izvi zvisinganzwisisi uye zvisina kunaka. Pane zvinopesana, zvinokosha kuedza kuratidza kufungisisa kune mumwe muenzi-chimwe chinhu chokupa, rubatsiro, rubatsiro nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Yeuka kuti mushure mekudya kwevanenge vachida kuzorora, kuzorora kana kutamba, saka zvakakosha kusarudza mimhanzi yakasununguka, nokuti inobva kumushure mimhanzi kuti mhepo yezororo inotenderera uye mafungiro. Mimhanzi inofanira kutorwa nyore, nyore uye isina unobtrusive.
Vashanyi vakawanda mushure mezororo vanogona kupa rubatsiro rwavo pakuchenesa uye kushamba ndiro. Muchiitiko ichi, zvingave zvakanyanyisa kuisa kusava nehanya navo mukuchenesa, asi kuvonga nekuda kwekupa nekuita. Vose vakakokwa vanowanzoendeswa kunzvimbo yepasi yavo, asi kana pane munhu pakati pevakasununguka vanoda kuendeswa kunomira, haafaniri kubviswa rubatsiro, kana zvichifanira, kumudana tekisi.