Saka nei kuroorana kazhinji kuchiva rufu rwerudo? Uye kuti ungagadzirisa sei izvi? Kazhinji, kugara kwenguva refu nemunhu mumwechete, kunyanya kana izvi zvichinyanya kupesana nekukakavara nezvinetso, kunoita kuti hukama huve hunovhiringidza, hune dreary, hunokonzera kushushikana muhukama hune hukama uye mune zvepabonde kunyanya. Nhamba yakawanda yenyaya uye mabhuku zvakanyorwa pamusoro pekuita zvakasiyana-siyana upenyu hwako hwepabonde, kana iwe newawakaroorana naye mava kutodzwa zvakare uye zvakanatswa kune mumwe nemumwe. Asi vanyori vanokanganwa kuti munhu haafaniri kurwisana nechiratidzo - kurara kusina kudzivirirwa, asi nechirwere chacho pachavo uye chinokonzera - zvinetso zvekuroorana uye hukama hwevanhu, kukakavadzana, kukakavadzana, kusanzwisisana kwakave kwakanganisa mararamiro kwemakore akawanda.
Muchato haufaniri kuenda nekuyerera, imba yakanaka inofanira kuve yakatorwa nhanho, kuisa kushanda. Vanhu vose havana kukwana, uye izvi zvinowanzoitika. Asi zvakashata ndezvokuti vazhinji havadi kuoma uye nenzira imwe neimwe vanozvibata ivo pachako, vanozvivandudza pachavo kunze uye mukati. Vanhu, pavanopinda muwanano, funga kuti zvino iwe unogona kusununguka munzira dzose. Asi iwe haugoni kupora, iwe unoda kushanda pahukama uye udzidze kurarama murugare nemweya wako wako.
Zvinenge zvakaoma kuroorana, kana munhu "asina kururama" akange asarudzwa. Sei munhu achigona kukanganisa mukusarudza? Angave asinganzwisisi zvaanoda, anogona kupofumadzwa nerudo nezvimwe zvakadaro. Asi kukanganisa kukuru ndokwekusarudza mumwe wako, kutevera chido, pasina kushungurudza kuti uwane munhu wacho zvakakwana. Somuenzaniso, murume ari muhucheche akarasikirwa naamai vake, asi nekuda kwekunyatsotarisa kutsvaga mudzimai, saiye. Uye akawana-mukadzi mukuru akaremara ane unhu husingazivikanwi hwevanhu uye hutsika hwakadzika hweuchenjeri, sezvakazove zvakajeka. Zvechokwadi, izvi hazvingatungamiri kune chero chinhu chakanaka. Kana, somuenzaniso, murume aida mukadzi ane boka revafudzi kuti iye uye iye oga. Mumwe muenzaniso, apo mukadzi anoroora murume uyo achazadzisa zvido zvake zvose, achapa hupenyu hwepamusoro hwehupenyu. Uye zvino inoguma kufadza. Kana, semuenzaniso, mukadzi akasimba anonyatsosarudza murume asina simba, kunyange mukadzi kune varume, asi panguva imwechete iye asingazivi anoda murume akasimba pedyo naye. Yakabvarurwa pakati pezvishuvo zviviri, iye anogona kutanga kuzvidza murume wake nokuda kwekushaya simba. Uye kune mizhinji mienzaniso yakadai apo vanhu pakutanga vanowana munhu "asina kururama".
Saka, kuroora iwe unoda apo iwe wakatove wakadzidza munhu zvakanaka, apo iwe unomuda zvikuru. Kana iwe uchiziva musanangurwa wenyu kana musanangurwa wenyu wakanaka, saka pane zvishamiso zvisingaiti, unhu husingatarisirwi hwevanhu husingagamuchirwi kwauri. Uye kana chimwe chinhu chiduku chichibuda, zvichava nyore kuvhara maziso ako, kukanganwira, nokuti rudo rwakasimba runokanganwira zvakawanda. Kana iwe mose musinganzwisisi, fungai pane zviduku, hamugone kukanganwira kusakwana kweumwe neumwe, pamwe zvichida kwete manzwiro akadaro akadaro une. Nokudaro, ndinodzokorora, kana uchiroorwa, unofanira kuziva munhu zvakanaka uye kumuda zvikuru.
Muhukama hwemhuri, munhu anofanirwa kuzvibata zvine musoro. Semuenzaniso, muupenyu hwezuva nezuva munhu haafaniri kuraira uye pooch, mumatambudziko mashoma anokakavadzana mumwe munhu haafaniri kutaura nenzira yakarongeka, asi sechinyararire sezvinobvira, achitaura kusagutsikana kwake nekushevedzera, asi nemashoko, kuitira kuti unzwe uye unzwisiswe. Edza kubvumirana, rega kuregerera mumwe nemumwe, usarasa pfungwa. Kazhinji nharo dzinomuka kubva mudiki, uye mukati mavo kazhinji kaviri kune mhosva. Kunyomba, kunyadzana, shoko neshoko, kukakavara kunokura sechando, kunyadziswa kunowedzera mumweya. Kazhinji vakaroorana havatomboyeuki kuti zvakatanga sei. Sezvavanotaura, vakatanga hutano, asi vakapedzisa kune vamwe. Kana vakaroorana vachiramba vachipopotedzana nguva dzose, zvino zvishoma nezvishoma hazvidi, kuparadzana, izvo zvinogona kuparadza imba.
Usaedza kuyananirana pasi pechinangwa chekufungidzira, kuputsa humiro - hazvina maturo. Munhu wose anoda kudiwa sezvaari. Uye kana asingazviwani mumhuri, zvino pangava nechido chekutsvaga kune imwe nzvimbo. Uye kana iye akaipa, saka sei iwe unaye? Zviri nani kuyeuka kuti iwe wakawa murudo nemumwe wako nenzira yaanoita, pamwe nekunaka kwake uye kukanganisa, uye zvakare yeuka kuti iwe, zvakare, hauna kukwana. Zviri nani kuti munhu wese azviite zvake-uye zvose zvakanaka, uye hapana munhu ari kukakavadzana.
Izvo zvakakoshawo kutarisana kune umwe neumwe, kutarisira, kuita zvinhu zvakasiyana-siyana zvinofadza kune mumwe nemumwe, taura mazwi anofadza, kukumbatira, kutsvoda nezvimwe zvakadaro. Asi zvinoitika kuti vose vanotarisira kutarisana kubva kune mumwe, uye musaita chero chinhu. Kuenzanisa, zvose zvinoda kugamuchira uye kupa.
Mhuri imwe neimwe isina kufara haina kufara nenzira yayo, uye aya mazwi anoratidza muenzaniso unotevera pamwe nekukwanisa. Chimwe chigumbuso mumhuri ndeyemari. Mari inowanzokonzera kukakavara mumhuri umo kune kuedza simba. Mhuri dzakadai, mari chiratidzo chemasimba, izvo zvinoreva kuti munhu ane mari - uye simba, uyo anowana zvakanyanya-ndiye uyo mukuru. Kurwisana uku kunogona kugara nekusingaperi uye kunounza kusawirirana muhukama. Vakaroorana vanoda kubvumirana. Somuenzaniso, kana mumwe wavo akawana mari, yechipiri inotora pane mamwe mabasa emhuri kuitira kuti pasave nomunhu akagumburwa. Uye zvinonyanya kukosha - iwe unoda kuremekedzana uye kusaita mari chiyero chemasimba. Kunyange kana iwe ukawana 10 nguva kupfuura chikamu chako chechipiri, unofanirwa kumuremekedza (iye) semunhu akakodzera, sehupenyu hunodikanwa naye, nokuti iye anogonawo kupa chimwe chinhu kumhuri.
Nzira dzakasiyana-siyana mukurera vana zvinogona kukonzera kukakavara. Pano mutemo mukuru ndokukurukurirana nyaya dzekurera uye edza kuuya kumafungiro akafanana kana kuenzanisa.
Chimwe chinetso chinogona kuita zvepabonde. Kana uine zvimwe zvinetso muupenyu hwako hwepabonde, usatya kutaurirana navo nemumwe wako. Ita kuti utaure pamusoro pezvaunofarira, mafungiro, maonero. Ita ukama hwekutendana kune mumwe nemumwe. Kazhinji, zvinetso zvepabonde zvinovapo nekuda kwekusakwanisa kutaura. Edza kuita shanduko muupenyu hwako hwepabonde, kuwedzera ruzha, kuchengetedza kufarira kune umwe neumwe.
"Mhuri imwe neimwe isina kufara haina kufara nenzira yayo" - mazwi aya ave kwenguva refu ave rudzi rwemarwadzo anorwadza. Kana matambudziko asina kugadzirisa, taura neunyanzvi. Edza kunzwisisana, kuratirana uye kuda!