Chii chinonzi Marilyn Monroe Syndrome

Zvechokwadi, hakuna munhu acharamba kuti kunyange kunaka, izvo varume vanopoteredza vanorota, dzimwe nguva vanomira pamberi pegirati uye vachirova nokuda kwekumhanya mu nguva kunze kwepimple. Chinokonzera kushushikana kunogona kunge chakavhuniridzwa chitsitsinho pane zvitsva zvako zvaunoda, PMS, kushungurudzwa nemudiwa wako, mazuva anokosha kana zvimwewo, kusavapo kwavo (kutya kutya kusingadiwi), basa rekupedzisira, iro bhosi rakaona, furo yakaputsika, tequila yakawandisa, bar. Asi zvinoitika kuti kusagutsikana zvishoma naiye pachake kunowedzera kuva chirwere chaiyo chepfungwa uye chirwere ichi chinonzi "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome."

Sei uye Marilyn Monroe Syndrome ane ani?

• Wakave wakabatana muukama hurefu nemurume wakaita pamatambudziko ako, achiita kuti urege kufara here?
• Uri kurota zvekuroorwa, uchiita zvose zvakakosha nokuda kwaro, uye mukana akakodzera wevarume haadi kuonekwa here?
• Wati wambonzwa here kuti kubva kuvanhu vose iwe nguva dzose unosarudza madhakwa, usisvikiki, vanoda vanodzinga maoko enyu, vanotonhora, vasina kuvimbika, vasina hanya, vachikuvadza kukudzwa kwenyu, vasingagoneki? Panguva imwecheteyo, hauna kuona vakakodzera uye varume vakagadzikana, nokuti havagoni kubata mwoyo wako.
• Wati wambozvibata iwe uchifunga kuti kana mikana ichishambira mumaoko ako, une kunzwa kusachengeteka, uye iwe unotanga kupfuura, uchipfuura iwe pachako?
• Unoshandisa zvisina kunaka zvokudya uye / kana doro here?
• Iwe unotarisa pachako uri muchionioni uchinyangadza uye kutya, kunyange vamwe vachiti unofadza here?

Kana yakawanda yemibvunzo yawakapindura mubvumo, saka iwe unogona kunge une "Marilyn Monroe Syndrome" - chirwere chepfungwa. Izwi iri rakarongedzwa nevatsvakurudzi vekutanga vedambudziko iri nemudzidzi wezvepfungwa Elizabeth McCavoy uye munyori Susan Izraelson, avo vakazova vanyori vebhuku rimwe chete. Zvimwe zvikonzero nei vanyori vebhuku vakapa chirwere zita remusikana anozivikanwa, anoreva nhema pahupenyu hwake.

Marilyn Monroe akabudirira, ane shungu uye akanaka. Asi achitarisa pagirazi, aigara achiona munhu akanga asingadi akakodzera kufara. Pamusoro peMarilyn, vanhu vose vairota, asi akaswededzwa kune avo varume avo ukama hwavo naye hwakange hwakaputsika.

Midzi yehutano iyi inotanga kubva paudiki. Sezvo huwandu hwevakadzi vanotambura nehutachiwana hunobva mumhuri isingabatsiri, mhuri isingabatsiri, apo vabereki vasina kupa vana rudo rusina mubvunzo, havana kugutsa zvinodiwa zvepfungwa zvevana vavo. Nokudaro, nhasi haasi mudzimai wechokwadi, achinyatsotsvaka rudo - ndiro musikana muduku wezuro, uyo asina kugamuchira kubva kuvabereki vorudo. Nokudaro, nguva imwe neimwe yaanozviwana ari shamwari yaizomuyeuchidza nezvebaba vane shungu kana kuti amai vakasiiwa, vachiedza, saka, kuti vawane rudo rwavo. Achaedza nekudzoka zvakare kuti azviratidze iye pachake nenyika yose kuti "iye akanaka", kuti "ndizvo zvaunogona kuda." Muhuduku, asina rudo, shungu uye rudo, onasama ichava nehanya zvikuru, kuchiva uye rudo, kugutsikana, zvisinei, kuda kwake kwemanzwiro ataurwa pamusoro apa. Kunyanya zvikuru kuratidzwa kwavarume vanochida, sezvavanoratidzika kwaari.

Nzira yekubvisa sei chirwere

Pane mitemo gumi iyo inobatsira kurapa Marilyn Monroe Syndrome. Vakadzi avo vakapa chimiro chakafanana kune zita, vanotenda kuti Marilyn Monroe's syndrome inorapwa. Vatsvakurudzi vanodavira kuti kunyatsodzikinura mukadzi wacho kunonyatsoteerera mitemo yakadaro:

• Mukadzi anofanira kuzvida ne rudo rusingadi.
• Kuwana kwaari kunofanira kuva nyaya yehupenyu hwose.
• Mukadzi anofanira kuzviremekedza.
• Zvose zvinotarisirwa kutungamirira iwe pachako.
• Tenda iwe pachako pasina gonhi rekusahadzika.
• Chenjerera muviri wako uye ude.
• Vose simba ravo kupa kupazve pfungwa dzavo, mweya nemuviri.
• Fadzwa nehupenyu hwako.
• Iva akazaruka kune pfungwa itsva, kunyanya izvo zvinogona kuchinja upenyu.
• Vimbise iwe kuti zvirokwazvo achakunda Marilyn Monroe Syndrome.