Zvechokwadi, nei pasina munhu anotonga murume ane makore makumi mana ane amaikadzi vane makore makumi maviri, asi chimvuramabwe chezvinyengeri chinowira pane mukadzi anongoratidzira chinetso neavo vaduku pazera remakore? Kana kuti mutemo wepakati mbiri unotonga bhora mberi?
Mifananidzo yevarume vaduku yakatorwa neHollywood stars. Mienzaniso inonakidza ndeyekuroorana kwekunakidza pakati pe actress uye munyori Joan Collins naPerse Gibson (musi wemakore 32), vatambi vechiGoldie Hawn naKurt Russell (makore matanhatu ekusiyana uye vana vatatu vanojairika), mutambi wenhau Susan Sarandon uye mutungamiri Tim Robbins (makore gumi nematatu akasiyana, vatatu vana), mutambi wenhau Juliana Moore uye mutungamiri Bart Freundlich (makore mapfumbamwe emusiyano, vana vatatu vanozivikanwa), mutambi wenhau Raquel Welch uye muridzi webhizimisi reresitorendi Richard Palmer (makore makumi maviri emusiyano), mutambi wemifananidzo Demi Moore nomutambi Ashton Kutcher (makore gumi nematatu). Vanhu vanotenda kuti vasikana chete uye vakanaka vasikana vakakodzera rudo rwechokwadi rwevanhu, tinokurudzira kuyeuka mazvinyorwa zveJosephine Bogarne, Cleopatra, Madame de Pompadour, Carla Bruni Sarkozy - ava vakadzi vechidiki vezera reBalzac, uye kwete ivo vakanaka kwazvo, vakanyengerwa nevarume vavo. Kushaya simba kuvakadzi vakwegura kwakadyiwa naMambo weChirungu Henry VIII, Julius Caesar naBenjamin Franklin.
Zvikonzero zvinoita kuti varume vechidiki vakwekwe nevakadzi vakwegura vazhinji. Inogona kunge yakafanana nemanzwiro akadzika chaiwo, uye chido chekutsvaga kukwira kune imwe munhu mari. Zvisinei, mamiriro akafanana anoonekwa muhukama hwevarume vakuru nevasikana vaduku. Saka, hatingazotongeri zvakasimba, asi ngatitorei kusvika kune imwe nzvimbo. Zvimwe, kune nzvimbo yekuziva.
Saka, kupi uye nemukadzi muchengeti anoziva sei mukomana wechidiki?
Kutarisa nekurumbidzwa kwemasayamu epaIndaneti, nzvimbo yakanakisisa yevakadaro vanoziva nzvimbo dzakasiyana-siyana. Izvo zvinobudirira zviri pachena - mukana wekuzivana mumwe nemumwe mumakambani uye zviduku zvezvisungo. Nenzira, saka iwe unoziva, madzimai, majaya akawanda anobva 18 nekure anongopisa nechishuwo chokufara nehuni hwe mweya yavo inopisa nemuviri wevakadzi makore makumi matatu nemakumi mana. Muzviitiko zvizhinji vanozivana vakadaro vanoreva, zvisinei, kungoita zvepabonde chete, asi izvo hero haiti kuseka. Zvinokwanisika kuti nekufamba kwenguva, hukama hwepabonde hunokura huchakura hukava hwakadzama uye hwakakomba. Mukuwedzera kune nzvimbo dzekufambidzana, hatifaniri kukanganwa nezvemahombekombe ekuungana kwevatungamiri vevasikana vakasiyana-siyana - mashandare, makwikwi akasiyana-siyana (usiku, mitambo, etc.), mabheji, nezvimwewo. Mubvunzo, mubvunzo ndeye - kuti mukadzi akakura sei kuti azive nemukomana wechidiki , haufaniri kunyanya kukuvhundusa. Kuziva nemurume akanaka kwazvo kunogona kuitika kunyange kumabasa kana musangano webhizimisi unowanzoitika, asi ukama pakati pevamwe vanoda mukana wekuputika uye zvimwe zviitiko zvinopisa kupisa kwechido, kusagadzikana kwemamiriro ezvinhu nezvimwe zvinetso. Saka zviri nani kutevera mutemo usingatauri wekutaura kwebhizimisi - hapana mavhisi ari kushanda. Ichokwadi kuti varume vakawanda vanoda bhasiza, kazhinji vanoenda kumitambo uye mitambo yemitambo, kunze kwekuti maziso avo panguva yemutambo kana duel inotarisirwa zvikuru munhandare yehondo kunze kweiye mukadzi agere pedyo navo. Asi hazvina basa. Zvose zvakafanana, vane kusiyana kwakasiyana, nguva-kunze, dzinofanira kushandiswa navo. Iwe unogona kukumbira jaya iro rinokufarira iwe kuti ubatsire kuzarura jisi kana kuti mamwe marudzi ebhokisi, shanduro courtesies (varume vakaita semakumbirano, kunyange zvazvo vachiramba izvo zvisingagoni kuitika), kuratidza kushingaira kwavo nemutambo wemutambi, wekupedzisira iwe uchakwanisa kukunda maonero ake semunhu ari pedyo nemweya !! !!
Pakati pese, kutendeukira kuvarume kuti vabatsirwe kunokosha uye kunobatsira. Saka iwe unogona kuuraya shiri mbiri nedombo rimwe panguva - uye unoita shamwari, uye uwane rubatsiro. Saka, sanganisira mafungiro ako uye uuye nerumwe rudzi rwe "kuponesa" runyengeri, nokuti sezvakaitwa zvekare pamusoro pevakadzi vakati: "Simba redu riri muutera, asi kusava nesimba kwedu hakugoneki."
Uyezve zvakare, sezvo kadhi icharara pasi. Apo munhu anova nehanya nemudzimai uye anotanga kutora danho pachake pachake, zviri nyore kwazvo kukudziridza shamwari yako, zvisinei kuti maitiro ose echikadzi anofanira kushandiswa. Pano, kunyanya kukosha, usapfuurira, kuitira kuti usatya zvemutambo mberi kwenguva. Muzviitiko zvakawanda, muhukama nevakadzi vakwegura, varume vanonyanya kuwirirana nehutano hwepabonde. Saka, nokuda kwekuodzwa mwoyo kuduku uye kushungurudzika mupfungwa, mukadzi anofanira kunge akagadzirira kukura kwakadaro kwezviitiko. Zvisinei, mukukura, mukadzi haanzwisisiki pakuparara kwehukama, uye kazhinji kune hukama hwehukama. Kunyange zvazvo humwe hutsika hwepfungwa dzevakadzi, mafungiro evanhu, dzidzo uye maonero ehupenyu zvakare haafaniri kukandwa kunze.
Nenzira, kusiyana nemakaroorana apo murume akwegura, sekutonga, anochengetedza zvinhu zvose pasi pesimba uye anotungamirira mhuri, vari vaviri nevakadzi vakwegura kazhinji vanoita hukama hwezvematongerwe enyika, nehuwandu huri nani hwekuda uye kugoverwa kwemabasa. Uyezve, migumisiro yeongororo yevanhu inowanikwa kuti mumatambudziko akawanda, jaya harisi kungotanga hukama, asi rinopawo zvimwe zvipiro zvekuda kubatana nemukadzi mukuru kune iyeye. Pasi pesimba remukuru shamwari, jaya rinowanzova "munzira yakarurama": anosarudza basa "rakanaka", kudzidza uye kuita basa.
Maererano nomudzidzi wepfungwa, Frank Pittman, murume chaiye anoda mudzimai wezera ripi neripi - kana achimuda, akanaka kwaari, uye anomunakidza. Uye kana hupenyu hwakarongerwa kuti mumwe munhu ari vaviri akaberekwa gare gare, uye mumwe munhu apfuura, asi vanhu vanofara kuva mumhuri yevamwe, zvakakosha here kutarisira kutarisa kwemazuva mazhinji uye utsinye, uye kazhinji makuhwa ane godo akakomberedza?