"Hapana chakakanganisika negodo." "Shanje, zvinoreva kuti anoda." "Ndiitirei godo, kumutsa manzwiro." Ndizvo chaizvo - kusvikira godo rinoshanduka kuva chirwere uye kusvikira vana vanotambura naro.
Kuti urarame nemunhu achichera mubhuku rako rekushandisa, achikumbira iwe kudana maawa maviri kubva kumabasa, kurondedzera kwezuva rimwe nerimwe wakararama - zvakaoma. Asi yeuka kuti mumwe wako anotambudzika zvakanyanya. Upenyu hwake hwose ndedambudziko rose. Iye, sekutonga, anoziva kuti anorwara, anoedza kuzviswededza pachake pamwe chete, asi paanoona shamwari yake achitsvoda dama rako pamusangano, anorasikirwa kuzvidzora pachake.
Kunyangwe kana "Othello" yako ari baba vakanaka, panguva yekukodzera kwegodo, anokanganwa pamusoro pevana uye haafungi nezvekunzwa kwavo.Zviguma zvekurasikirwa kwekutonga zvinowanzosuruvara zvikuru kuvana. zvinogona kuzviratidza mumhando ye enuresis, kana zvimwe zvirwere zvakawanda, kana kuparara kwekutya, asi-zvinonyanya kukosha - mune ramangwana vana vakadaro vanoberekesa maitiro ehutano hwakagara nhaka kubva paudiki kare mumhuri yavo.
Nzira yekubatsira sei godo? Uye panguva imwechete iwe pachako?
Chokutanga pane zvose, zvakakosha kuona kuti ichi chirwere, uye zvinokosha kurwisana nacho, kunyatsochenjerera, kwete kuchirega ichifambira mberi. Usaseka mumwe wako. Kukanda kunze nekupfuura: "Tine munhu wandaishanda naye kubasa, akanaka kwazvo," haungapindi chinhu kunze kwekushaya hope usiku (uye panguva imwe chete yega) uye nguva yake yekusagadzikana mubasa rako. Ndine wandaishanda naye "uye kumisa mibvunzo yose, achiti:" Zviri nani iwe usingaiti. "Handifariri kune mumwe munhuwo zvake." Uye zvinodikanwa kuti pane izvi kukurukurirana kwako kwapera.
Usatenderera hutsinye hwakadai se "Ndakaona kuti iwe wakatarisa rudzi rwakadaro!" Asi usakanganwa kuti kumashure kwemashoko aya pane kungangova nekushaya kuzvidzora uye chido chekunzwa: "Hungu iwe, iye ndiye zvachose nondescript, hapana zvachose kubva iye haazvimiri iye pachake, asi kana achienzanisa nemwi iye anongowedzera (kana kuti zvimwewo, ibhokisi remafuta)! "
Pasi pegodo rinopararira rinogona kuvanza pfungwa yehudzi. Saka, Oleg aiva negodo nemudzimai wake (nenzira, uye haana kufunga pamusoro pehuipi) kune chero munhu aipfuura munhu, haana kumurega pamabhizimisi. Pavakarambana, uye mudzimai wake akabva atanga kusangana nomumwe, haana kumbogumbura. "Asi isu hatisi pamwe chete!"
Mukuwedzera kune godo rekusachengeteka uye manzwiro omunamuna, kune godo, zera, kureva, wechiduku. "Ini nomurume wangu taiva nemakore 19 uye akati anoda Michelle Pfeiffer," anoyeuka Sveta, "Ndakapotsa ndaputsa TV uye handina kutaura nemurume wangu kwehafu yezuva." Iye zvino tiri pamwe chete nemafaro achitaura nezvemakumbo marefu emusikana anopfuura uye anotarisa meso vashandi. "
Uye, pakupedzisira, zvinoitika kuti godo rinova mania, phobia. Pano, panogona kuva nezano rimwe chete: kukurudzirai murume wako kuti aende kumunhu wepfungwa. Hazvisi nyore, asi kana zvisina kudaro hazvigoneki. Ikoko ndoga haigone kurarama.
Nenzira, funga nezvazvo: pasinei nokuti "sangano rakakanganisika" iwe kana iwe pachako uri negodo zvikuru - chengetedza mwana kubva "kuratidzika" kwako. Iwe chaizvoizvo watove wanzwisisa, chii chinokuvadza chavanoisa kune pfungwa dzisina kufanana dzevana, handizvo zvakadaro? Uye hazvitombogoni kubvumira mwana kuva "mutauro", achizivisa kuti "Amai vangu vakadana babamunini vangu," uye "Baba, patakanga tichifamba naye, takasangana nemamainini akanaka."
Zvechokwadi, zvakaoma zvikuru kune chero munhu ane godo kuti arambe kuongororwa uye zvimwe zviratidzo zvekusatenda kwake. Edza kuudza murume wako pachena kuti haunzwisisi, uye kumubvunza kuti akuchengetedze kubva pane izvi zviito uye kubva pamifananidzo yegodo. Edza kushanda nayo nguva dzose uye nekushivirira sezvinobvira. Mubatsire, kana zvisingazobvisi "Othello zvinongororwa," zvishoma nezvishoma, zvinyorove. Mubairo wekuedza uchange uine kuonga kukuru kwekunzwa, rugare uye mufaro mumhuri.
Uye yekupedzisira. Iwe usati washora mukadzi wako negodo rakawandisa, zviite iwe: zvichida iwe hausi kupotsa mukana wokutaura nomumwe nomumwe kana kuti akaderera mutana wechidiki? Uye zvichida iwe unopedza manheru ose nemusoro wehurukuro yako, uye nguva yose yaunenge uchitaura mukukurukurirana nezvakakodzera? Saka usashamisika kana mudzimai wako Othello akangoerekana amuka!