Migumisiro yenguva dzose yekudhakwa kwechinwa doro pamusana pekutsvaga kwevana neuropsychological zvechokwadi inotyisa. Kubva pakufunga kwepfungwa, vana vanosimbisa psychopathic inotaura, maitiro easocial maitiro. Mukana wekuti mwana akadai mune ramangwana achava munhu ane mhosva kana mupfungwa mupfungwa yakanyanya kupfuura yevamwe vana. Izvi ndizvo zvinotungamirira kudhakwa nevabereki, sei vasina kutambura chete, asi vana vavo uye vazukuru. Usakanganwa kuti kudhakwa kunotora nhaka uye mukana wekuti chinangwa chekumwa doro muvana chichave chakakwirira kwazvo - pasina mubvunzo. Ndeipi pfungwa chaiyo yekudhakwa? Izvi zvinodhaka zvinokonzera doro, izvo zvinotungamirira kumigumisiro yakaipa kune mumwe nomumwe uye vanhu vari pedyo naye. Kunwa doro kunoratidzirwa sehutano hwemhuri, nokuti hahune hutano chete doro iyeye, asiwo dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri, dzimwe nguva kunyange kupfuura iye oga. Chero zvazviri, kudhakwa hakuperi kune munhu asina mhosva. Kushandisa doro pamwana kune mamwe maitiro, zvinogona kukuvadza zvipenyu, muitiko apo vabereki vakatora doro vasati vaberekwa mwana. Uyezve, kukuvadza kusingatauriki kumwana kunokonzerwa nepfungwa, zvichimuita kuti apinde mupfungwa uye mutsika, zvichiita kuti ashungurudzike uye ashungurudzike neurotic.
Zvichida, vazhinji vanoita sevari kure nemigumisiro yakadai, uye ivo pachavo havazvioni ivo doro. Izvo hazvisi izvo, kunyange iyo "yakanyanya kudhakwa", sezvatinovadana, haazvizivi kuti akadaro. Ikoko hakuna kana chinhu chakadai sekudhakwa zvisina kunaka, nokuti kana iwe uchitaura kuti "kushandiswa kwakaipa", kureva kuti, chii chinoguma nemigumisiro yakaipa, kana pane doro, hatigoni kuwana chimwe chinoreva zvinoreva "kushandisa zvakanaka" ". Doro rinoshatisa mune imwe yehuwandu hwayo, uye hapana chinhu chakadai sehuwandu hwekushandiswa kwayo, kune chimiro chevanhu vanogara mumasikati mazororo iwe unogona kunwa doro, uye iwe unogona kudhakwa. Kushandisa doro kunyange mumari shomanana, uri kutotambudza mwana wako. Kana mumwe wemitezo yemhuri ari kutambura kudhakwa, mamiriro ezvinhu mumhuri anowanzosakwanisika, nokuti kudhakwa kunoshandura munhu wacho pachake, kunoita kuti unhu hwake huve hwakaipa. Iko kune kukakavadzana kunokonzera, kukakavadzana, kutyisa, kunyengera uye chisimba nevabereki. Izvi zvichange zvichitungamirira kwete kungoita zvepfungwa chete, asiwo kumanikidziro emuviri kwevana. Mwana wacho haakwanisi kukura nekuita, kuda uye kuzviziva pachake mune imwe nzvimbo iyo mumwe kana mumwe wevabereki anotambura nekunwa doro uye saka shanduko pasi pesimba rake.
Kune zviitiko apo vanhu vane danho rekutanga rekudhakwa vane "vana chaivo". Nokudaro, vamwe vanodhakwa, pasina mubvunzo, vanotenda muhomwe yavo uye kuti ivo, zvechokwadi, vane vana vakanaka, uye, zvechokwadi, doro harina kuvhiringidza nenzira ipi zvayo. "Sei ndisingadi kunwa, kana ndichiziva kuti shamwari dzangu kana shamwari dzinenge dzakakwana vana, hapana chinotyisa chichaitika kwavari," vamwe vanofunga. Asi izvi hazvisi uchapupu hwekusakosha kwekudhakwa, tinofanirawo kufunga nezvekuti inoratidzika pamwe chete nezvimwe zvinhu. Mukuwedzera, aya "vana vanozvarwa" pavanenge vachikura munguva pfupi kana gare gare vacharatidza kukanganisa uye zvinetso zvakakomba mumanzwiro-ezvo uye ega ega.
Kunwa doro kwevabereki kunotungamirira kune zvinetso zvekunetseka, zvakasiyana-siyana. Mune nhamba dzedu dzenyika dzinoratidza kuti vana vane chizvarwa chimwe nechimwe vanoberekerwa kakawanda uye vasingakwanisi basa, basa rekufunga, kudzidza, vanofunga zvakanyanya kudarika chizvarwa chavo chekare, uye kusagadzikana uye zviitiko zvehutano zvinowanzoitika kakawanda. Uye izvi zvose zvinotsanangurwa nekuti doro nechizvarwa chimwe nechimwe chinenge chichizivikanwa zvikuru, uye kushandiswa kwaro ndicho chimiro. Tinovigwa mune gungwa revanhu vanoita zvemagariro evanhu pamusana pekudhakwa, uye isu isu hatina kuuraya kwete hupenyu hwedu bedzi, asiwo hutano hwevana vedu mune ramangwana. Nokuti kugara kunofadza uye majee akavanzwa remangwana rakasviba rezvizvarwa zvedu, kuora kwevanhu. Vanhu vanozviuraya pachavo nevana vavo kubva mukati, uye chinhu chinotyisa zvikuru pano ndechokuda kwavo uye mupfungwa-zvekugadzirisa hutsika. Kubva pane izvozvi tine kuti 40-60 muzana yevana vanodhakwa vanotambura ne oligophrenia uye kuchera kwepfungwa. Vana vanotadza kunyatsoongorora mamiriro acho ezvinhu, havagoni kuongororai nenzira yakanaka. Manzwiro haana maturo, zviito hazvina kugadziriswa. Saizvozvowo anomalies inogona kutsanangurwa nekukurumidza kukura kwenheyo yenheyo. Kana tichitaura pamusoro pemigumisiro-yezvipfungwa zvepfungwa - vana vanodhakwa vanonyanya kufungidzika, kusuruvara kwenguva refu mukati mavo, vanowanzobatanidza kusava nemanzwiro.
Kuburikidza neurouropychological uye utano hwemwana zvakananga zvichienderana nokuti ane mhuri inonwa doro. Kushandisa doro, funga kwete iwe pachako, asiwo nezvevana vako remangwana. Funga nezvekuti iwe uye hakuna mumwe munhu achava nemhosva yematambudziko avo, unogona kutakura mutoro uyu hupenyu hwako hwose here? Pashure pezvose, dzimwe nguva unongoda kufunga nekumira, kuunganidza simba rako pachako, nyika, hama dzako nevana remangwana.