Wakatsvaga, unofadza. Zvino nyika inowedzera kuna papa, mbuya, vanasekuru, hama nehanzvadzi - vose avo vaanotaura navo nguva dzose. Nokuti nguva iripo, makungu anonyatsonaka mumhuri yega, asi zvino inova yakasimba ipapo. Anotanga kuenda kuchikwereti, dzimba rekushambira, chikoro chemimhanzi, anoziva vanhu vatsva uye anowana ruzivo rutsva pamusoro pekuzvibata uye mararamiro aanoita munzanga, ndezvipi zvinganamatira. Mumusayenzi, izvi zvinonzi kushamwaridzana - kufambira mberi kwevanhu uye kugadziriswa kune zvakatipoteredza. Nzira yekuita sei urongwa uhwu huve hwakanaka uye huri nyore kune mwana? Kuburikidza nekukurukurirana kwevana nevakuru nevezera ravo inyaya inokosha nhasi.
Anenge makore
Chokutanga, tibatsira mwana kukunda kutya kune vamwe vanhu. Mushure mekushamwaridzana pasina kukurukurirana hazviitiki. Chido chekutaurirana nevanhu muropa. Uye kwete muvanhu chete, nenzira. Mhuka dzakawanda dzinouya pamwe chete mumatanda - zviri nyore kurarama. Saka, mwana anoda, iwe haundi, asi iwe unofanirwa kubatana neboka. Kutanga, zvichamubatsira kuti awedzere kushingaira uye ave nechivimbo maari, uye chechipiri, achamudzidzisa mafungiro ekufunga. Mushure mezvose, vanhu vakuru vanoramba vachinyima mwana mune rumwe rutivi rwegadziriro: usazviita, usaitamba, usamhanyira ikoko, kana shamwari dzichiramba dzakaputika nemamwe mazano (kunyange kana pfungwa iyi iri kukanda hanzvadzi shomanana gomba mubhedha kana kuteka mhou pamapuranga). Zvisinei, izvi hazvirevi kuti mwana anofanira kubudiswa munharaunda yevana nenzira imwechete yekudzidza kushambira, kukanda mumvura - zvichida ichasvetuka kunze. Zvichida achabuda, zvichida achatora mvura. Mune nyaya yakanyanyisa, zvinokosha kufunga nezvehutano hwepfungwa dzepfungwa. Vana kusvikira makore maviri kana matatu vasingakwanisi kufara kana iwe ukavasiya ivo voga nevana vavakidzani: "Pataitamba pano mumatafura, tichava nekofi mukicheni." Usina nguva yokudurura kahawa pamikombe, sekubva kuchema kwevana kuchazonzwika: ipapo pachava nekunyanyisa. Vana vasati vava kuziva kuti vangave sei shamwari: vanotamba pedyo, asi kwete pamwe chete, uye chigamba chakajeka mumaoko echinhu chaicho chichava aple rekupesana.
Cherechedza: kubatsira
Kuti abatsire kugadzikana kuchinjwa, tungamirirei kune zvinokurudzira (asi pasina kufungidzira: kaviri pavhiki zvakakwana), panzvimbo yekutamba. Mumakore mana kana mashanu, vana vanotanga kufara chaizvo nekukurukurirana nevezera ravo. Uye kunyange zvazvo vana vari muzera rino varikukuvadza zvikuru: vanozvirumbidza pamusoro pevamwe, vanovhiringidza, vanorwisana uye kazhinji havayeuchiye nezvevamwe shamwari-shamwari, asi vanokwikwidzana, asi izvi ndezvekukwikwidzana kwakanaka - mushure mekunge vese vari kuedza kubata nekusangana nemuvengi. Mamiriro asina kujairika, angave ari vaenzi, circus kana metro, haavatyisidzi zvakare, asi, zvose zvinowanzovafadza. Ndicho chikonzero vazhinji vepfungwa dzepfungwa vanogutsikana kuti ndezvezera remakore mana apo mwana "anobereka" yegorokeji. Kunyorera: zvirongwa zvemakore mashanu zvichange zvisingakwanisi kutendeuka mumeralee, kana iwe ukazvikanda mumitambo miviri, kwavanenge vachiita zvakafanana. Mumakore matanhatu kana manomwe, vana vanova shamwari uye vakawanda vanoteerera. Vanotaura kwenguva yakareba "nokuda kwehupenyu" (vaigara vachinyanya kukurukura panguva yemutambo), vagovana zvakavanzika zvavo mumwe nomumwe, vachitaurirana pamusoro parwendo kuenda kuna mbuya, nezvimwewo. Ndiko, vanokurukura sevanhu vakuru. Uye izvi, zvechokwadi, zvinovabatsira kuti vashandise zviri nani kuchikoro. Kunyorera: panguva ino vana vanopinda mumapoka uye kazhinji shamwari "kune mumwe munhu". Kana mwana wako ari akadzingwa, tsvaga chikonzero chekukakavara uye kumubatsira kuti aite rugare nevadzidzi vaanodzidza navo - iye pachake haazokwanisi kurarama.
Mukuyaruka
mwana asingataurirwi anooma mumoto chaiwo uye mupfungwa. Uye kunyange zvazvo sangano rekushamwaridzana riri kunyanya kushanduka, wechidiki anenge atoita zvakanaka mumitemo yevanhu. Zvakanyanya izvo zvinozvibvumira kuzviputsa, kuputsa tsika dzakafanana. Nokudaro, kuzvirumbidza uye kuzvidzora. Kumanyorero: zvakakosha kuti wechidiki ave seshamwari dzake, iyi ndiyo nzira yekuwana simba. Saka usashamisika kana mwanasikana wako-mwanasikana, akakurira mumitambo yechikoro uye mabhuku, kamwe-kamwe akava fan of anime, apo kirasi yose iri kurwisana nayo. Yeuka zvakanyorwa pamhete yaMambo Soromoni: "Uye ichapfuura ..."?
About the kindergarten
Vana vanoda kutaurirana kwete nevezera rako chete, asiwo nevakuru: hama, shamwari dzevabereki, vanachiremba, vadzidzisi, vadzidzisi, nezvimwewo. Pashure pezvose, sangano rakasiyana, uye munhu anokwanisa kuwana mutauro wakafanana neumwe wevamiririri vavo. Uye hazvibatsiri kana mumwe munhu kubva kuvanhu vakuru achifuratira vana vako vanokosha mumhino kana kuti anozviverengera kwaari. Nokudaro, kubva pakuona kwekushamwaridzana, chikoro chechikoro chikomborero. Zvisinei, kana iwe uchitya kusiya mwanakomana wako kana mwanasikana wako kwenguva yakareba nevasingazivi (kazhinji mummies ane pfungwa yehutano yehutoro), kunyange nevadzidzisi vezvenyanzvi, mwana anogona kuwana mugove wake we "vakuru" kukurukurirana nevadzidzisi vanobva kumusha unosimudzira, mudzidzisi wekushambi, mudzidzisi mimhanzi, nezvimwe. Chinhu chikuru - usazvichengeta uri woga. Uye iwe unogona kungotora mwana wacho kuchikwata chechikoro kwehafu yezuva. Nenzira iyo, sarudzo yakadai, pamwe chete nemakirasi muzvikwata zvakasiyana-siyana zvekuvandudza uye zvikoro zvokutanga zvekuvandudza, inonyanya kuratidzwa kune vanorwara, vanozvidya mwoyo uye vanonoka vana (iyi yekupedzisira haigoni kushandiswa kuchikoro chechikoro chechikoro: havana nguva yekubvisa matoyi, kudya, kupfeka kufamba, vamwe vana). Kunyorera: vanaamai vane pfungwa dzakasimba dze rudo rwevabereki vanogona kukoka shamwari dzavo kumisha yavo nevana kana kuenda kunovashanyira. Nokudaro, iwe uchauraya shiri mbiri nedombo rimwechete: mwana wako anodikamwa achagara newe, asi panguva imwechete achazoshandiswa kune vamwe vanhu.
Nezvechikoro
Kune dzimwe nzira shomanana dzechikwata ichi. Izvi ndizvo zvavari: iwe unogona kusarudza pakati pechikoro chepachena uye chepachena kana, somuenzaniso, sangano rezvidzidzo nekudzidza zvakadzama zvidzidzo zvega, asi chinonyanya kukosha chacho hachichinje kubva kune ichi - hazvibviri "kuruma" kuchikoro kubva kuchikoro chechikoro. Asi izvi hazvidiwi. Pashure pezvose, chikoro chesekondari zvakare chikoro chekupona, apo mwana anodzidza kuwana mukurumbira, kutura, kushanda muboka. Hapana matambudziko akadaro kuvadzidzi vari zvikoro zvepamusoro. "Zvinotyisa kubva kuvanhu," vanomiririra zvakashata matambudziko evanoshamwaridzana nevezera ravo, saka vane ruzivo rwakawanda pane kungofunga pfungwa yehupenyu. Mukuwedzera, mune zvimwe zvikoro zvepamusoro, ruzivo rwezivo, marwadzo, rinosiya zvakawanda zvingadiwa: vadzidzi vanowanikwa mumapuranga chete nekuremekedza vabereki vavo. Kumutsetse: kana iwe ukapedza pakati pezvikoro, uchiedza kudzivirira mwana kubva pamagariro akaipa emugwagwa, ICHI hazvina maturo - zvinodhaka uye doro zvino, maziso, zvinowanikwa kwose kwose. Tinofanira kutanga, zvakare, nemhuri, tichitsanangurira mwana (kutsanangura zvinyararire, ushamwari, kugutsikana), chii chakanaka, uye chakaipa. Zvadaro achadzidza nzira yekudzorera vanodhakwa nemishonga uye hooligans. Uye iye achawana ruzivo rwakakosha, iyo ichazove yakakosha kwaari kwaari mukukura.
Uye musarwisana zvakare!
Kurwisana nevezera - chinhu chisingafadzi, asi neimwe nzira inobatsira. Pashure pezvose, mwana anodzidza kudzivirira zvaanoda. Basa rako nderokumudzidzisa kugadzirisa kusawirirana nerunyararo.
■ Kuzvipira mugari wenhaka kushandisa mazwi, kwete fist. Somuenzaniso, haugoni kurova muvakidzani mubhokisi rejecha, kana akaparadza shongwe yejecha, asi iwe unogona kuti: "Usabata, zvingava zvakanaka kana ndikatsika iwe here?"
■ Edza kugadzikana kugadzikana nekudzikisa mwana. Hazvina mhosva kuti iwe unoda kuranga mutadzi wemwanakomana wako, chengeta iwe pachako. Chokutanga, iye achiri mwana, uye iwe uri munhu mukuru, uye chechipiri, haungadziviriri mwana wako kusvikira pachegi yake?
■ Kana mwana wako ane zvimwe zviitiko zvechitarisiko (snub mhuno, marara, kuzara nezvimwe zvakadaro), kumunyengetedza kuti aite nyore. Dzidzisa mwana wako kuti atore - haafaniri kupembera mukupomera kutukwa uye usakurumidza kupinda muhondo (zvisinei kana nguva inotevera achatsamwiswa zvakanyanya, achiedza kutsamwa), uye edza kugadzikana achiti: "Hungu, ndine mafuta, uye ini ndinoda. iyo masaga ari kufamba, uye, tarira, iwe uchawa. " Chinhu chinokosha panguva ino ndechokuti urambe wakadzikama, kunyange kusava nehanya, ipapo vanokurudzira vacharasikirwa nehanya nazvo.
■ Usamanikidzira kuti mwana wacho anopesana nezvino, achiratidza kune vamwe ivo pachavo. Vana havadi upstarts - zvinoshungurudza uye zvinoputika. Saka kusvikira imwe nguva munhu muduku anokosha kuti arege kumira pakati pevamwe.
7 zviratidzo zvekusagadzikana kushandiswa
Mwana wako angave akaoma kutaura nevezera kana iye ...
- inobva kuchikwata chechikoro kana kuchikoro chakavharwa uye chinotyisa;
- hazvibvi pakurwara;
- iye anochema zvakawanda nokuda kwechikonzero chaicho chakajeka;
- haakuudze iwe kuti wakapedza sei zuva rake;
- mambakwedza inoronga vanyengeri, vachiramba kuenda kumunda kana kuchikoro;
- anotaura kuti haana shamwari;
- agere kumba oga, haazi munhu uye haafambi neshamwari.
Zvechokwadi, chimwe nechimwe chirimo pachacho hachisi chikonzero chekutya. Asi kana izvi zvose "zviratidzo" zvinoratidzirwa mumatambudziko, rubatsiro rwepfungwa rwezvepfungwa rinodiwa.