Zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti kushungurudzwa kwemaitiro anokuvadza panguva yekuzvitakura kunokonzera zvirwere zvisingaiti mumwana uye zvakananga amai vake. Vana ava vanowanzotanga kusvika (mwedzi minomwe yekare) vane uremu hurefu uye hurefu shure kwekuzvarwa kwavo. Vanongoda chete kutarisira vanachiremba nekuwedzera kurapwa. Kazhinji, vana vanofa muchizvaro kana kuti pamuviri unopinda nehutachiona husina kunaka. Uyezve, zvinofanira kuonekwa kuti kunyange mushure mokuberekwa mwana achinyatsodyisa mukadzi, kunwa doro kana kuve nechido chokutsvuta fodya, anogona kudarika mukaka wamai zvose zvinokuvadza kuhutano hwake. Saka chii chinokonzera doro uye kusvuta fodya panguva yekudzivirira uye kubereka?
Mhinduro kumubvunzo uyu inozivikanwa nepamusoro pevanhu vose, uye inonzwika kure nekubatsirwa kwemukadzi anenge ava kuda kuberekera mwana wake uye asingambofungi nezvemigumisiro yezviito zvake zvakaipa, izvo zvingakanganisa remangwana rake.
Migumisiro yekusvuta fodya. Mazuva ano anenge anenge matatu musikana anoputa. Havadi kutarisa mune ramangwana ravo. Utsi hwefodya hune nhamba yakawanda yezvinhu zvinokuvadza, iyo carbon monoxide, methyl doro, tar uye zvakawanda. Nokudaro, kufema mweya uyu, isu tiri pachena kune ngozi, kwete isu chete, asi mwana wedu asati aberekwa zvakare.
Chinhu chinotyisa zvikuru cheutsi hwefodya ndeyeikotini. Anopinda mumuviri wemukadzi, nokudaro achiwana kumucheche wake. Kurwisana panguva imwe chete, yake haina kusimbisa nervous system, iyo inogona, mumamiriro ezvinhu akaipisisa, inokonzera rufu rwake, uye mune zvakanakisisa zvinokonzera matambudziko evanhu. Asi izvi hazvirevi hutano hwakanaka zvachose - zvinoita kuti mwana ave nehutano husina kusimba uye zvirwere zvisingaperi. Uyewo, utsi hwebhegi hunokonzera matambudziko nemapapu emwana. Mwana anogona kuona kukuvadzwa kwekuora mwoyo kana kusava nemhepo yakakosha nokuda kwekushanda kwemapapu. Nezera, izvi zvose zvinogona kukura kuva chirwere chisingaperi. Muchidimbu, hakuna munhu anogona kupa mhinduro chaiyo kumubvunzo: kwemakore mangani, mwedzi, mazuva kana kunyange maawa, mukadzi anosvuta fodya, anokanganisa hupenyu hwomwana wake?
Doro nemigumisiro yaro. Kune vakadzi vazhinji vanonwisa doro, vacheche vanoberekwa vane zvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana zvehutano hwemwoyo. Kukundikana mubasa remwoyo, kushungurudzwa kwepakati yenheyo system. Ava vana, sekutonga, nguva dzose vachichema, vane kuoneka kwakaneta kusinganzwisisiki, kusava nenzara uye chiso chisina kunaka. Nechirwere chepachibereko chepakati penheyo system, mwana anoramba akaremara muupenyu. Kunyange, dzimwe nguva, pane zviitiko apo mubereki pakarepo haana kuona zvisizvo zvine chokuita nehutano hwomwana wake, asi nezera, zvinowanzova zvinooneka. Kuvandudza kwepfungwa kwomwana kunononoka kusvika pakero yegerereji. Mune ramangwana, zvinova zvakaoma zvikuru kuti vana ava vararame. Ava vana havana zvachose kufunga kwekunzwisisa, ivo vakavharwa uye havadikanwi.
Doro, iyo inopinda mumuviri wemukadzi ane pamuviri, inokurumidza kupinda muropa uye kuburikidza neparcenta inosvika kumucheche. Saizvozvowo, kana amai vanonwa, saka, zvichida, pamwe naye, achiri muchibereko chake, mwana wake anonwa zvakare. Mwana wacho ane nguva yakawanda muhuwandu hunodhaka uye izvi zvakakwana zvokuti hurongwa hwake hwemitsipa huchava nehutano hwakashata. Izvi zvinowanikwa zvachose panguva dzose dzomukadzi pamuviri. Chibereko, chiri mukugadziriswa kukura nekuvandudza, unoita izvi panguva yekubatana nedoro. Izvi zvose zvinokanganisa mashoma mashoma emuviri wemucheche. Zvinokwanisika kunyange zviitiko zvekufa kwemwana panguva yekuberekwa.
Kushandisa doro zvisina kunaka panguva yekuzvitakura kwakazara nekurasikirwa kukuru kwevhitamini kubva mumuviri waamai, izvo zvinokuvadza kwete utano hwomwana chete, asiwo hutano hwemamiriro ehupenyu hwaamai vake. Uyezve, vakadzi vakadaro vanowanzosangana nekutapukirwa ney toxicosis uye kukura kwezvirwere zvakasiyana-siyana zvisingaperi munguva yekubereka.
Nokudaro, mukadzi, pakutanga kwezvose, anofanira kuona kutyisa kwechiito, uye kumira munguva. Mhuri yake inofanira kumubatsira mune izvi nekuedza kutsanangura kusatenda kwemigumisiro yeiye nemwana wake, uye pakuguma, kumukurudzira kuti haafaniri kuva "muurayi" wemwana wake, uyo asati aona chiedza chakachena. Mukadzi wese ane manzwiro eamai uye panguva ino havangamiri. Chinhu chikuru chichasvika mupfungwa dzake uye, kutanga kune zvose, kumupa iye mukana wekuona zvaari kuita.
Kana iwe usingakwanisi kurwisana, zvino kubva pamidzo iyi pachako, zvino chokwadi chengetedze iwe nehutano hwako hwevanhu, kunyanya panguva yekubata, kubva kune vanhu vanotora doro uye utsi. Funga pamusoro pezvinokosha kupfuura iwe, kunwa girasi rewaini uye utsi fodya kana hupenyu hudiki husati hwaona chiedza mukati mako.
Kana iwe usingadi zvinetso zveutano iwe nevana vako, saka, panguva yekuzvitakura, zvakakosha kukanda mapfumo pasi, doro rakasimba: cognacs, liqueurs, vodka, zvakasiyana-siyana zvekambani, rum, whiskey uye kunyange zvakaderera-doro zvinonwa. Ikozvino inofanira kunzwisiswa kuti kune mukadzi ari munzvimbo, kune chirwere chakachengeteka chechinwa chine doro pachikamu chayo. Uye, kunyanya kuchena, pasina migumisiro yefodya yakasvuta. Saka pano zvakakosha kushandisa pfungwa uye kufunga pane dzimwe nguva, migumisiro yakadaro isingakanganwiki.