Kufambidzana kwechokwadi pamapepanhau akaendesa kuhukama uye kusikwa kwemhuri ndeyechokwadi, zvisingawanzoitiki, asi kwete zvakanyanya. Funga nezveimwe nzira ipi neipi yekufambidzana. Somuenzaniso, kufambidzana mumugwagwa. Mhuri dzakawanda dzakasikwa uye dzinorarama dzichifara sei mushure mokunge uchinetsana? Nditende, kwete kudaro. Uye avo vakazoziva paInternet? Izvo hazvisi zvakawanda zvezvo, kana iwe uchiverenga nhamba yevanhu vasingazivikanwi uye vanobudirira. Nokudaro, nzira yekuroorana haina kunyanya kukosha! Iwe hauzombozivi iwe uye sei kuti uchawana sei rudo rwako. Asi chimwe chinhu chakajeka - kana iwe ukagara nemaoko ako akabatanidzwa uye kumirira kuti vadikanwa vauye vagogodza pamusuo wako, unogona kumirira kusvikira makore makumi mashanu, kana kutomirira! Batsira vadiwa vako kukuwanai! Kamwe kuedza kufambidzana pamapepanhau.
Iyi nzira yekuzivana ine zvigaro zvakawanda. Chokutanga pane zvose, unogona kuratidzira mune chiyeuchidzo chakadikanwa chomunhu, kunyange kukwirira kwake kana kuyerwa. Nekubatsirwa kweizvi iwe uchachera vazhinji vanofanirwa kusarudzo, izvo iwe pachena haungashudzi paunosangana. Iva nechokwadi chokuti unoratidza makore ako, uremu uye urefu. Nyora pamusoro pako kuti iwe unofadza, unofadza uye wakanaka hausiko. Kutanga, vanonyora mumashamba ose vasikana, kwete kunyange kutamba uye kwete kunyatsonaka, saka murume uyu haashamisi. Chechipiri, munhu wese ane zvido zvake uye pfungwa pamusoro pekunaka kwevakadzi, ngaaone kukoshesa kunaka kwako, kushamwaridzana uye humwe hutsika paunosangana. Mukurondedzera zvinodikanwa kune shamwari yako yeramangwana, iwe unogona kungonyora-kureba kana kuti kwete kutengesa kumafuta, pasina kuratidza hurefu hwakakwana uye uremu. Kana zvakakosha kuti iwe uve nedzidzo yepamusoro, basa, imba yako - zvose zvinoreva, usanyara. Regai mushe varume vaduku, asi vakakodzera. Iva nechokwadi chekunyora pamusoro pokusavapo kwevanhu vasingadikanwi varume vane tsika dzakaipa.
Pakupera kwechiziviso, pinda nhamba yako yefoni. Zvakanakisisa zvese, kana iwe wapedza mushure mekuverenga kwako kuti zvakakosha kutumira MMS nemufananidzo uye nhau pamusoro pako. Nokudaro, iwe uchaona pakarepo mapikicha evanhu uye kuvhara kunze kune avo vasingadi iwe.
Pepanhau rakagadzirirwa vateereri vazhinji, uye mu rubric "Kudanana" varume vanotarisa avo vanofunga nemaune, uye zvakakwana zvakakwana nengozi, uye vachiona zvizivo zvavanofarira, vanosarudza kuedza zvichazoitika. Saka, nditende ini, ivo vachanyora SMS, MMS uye vanhu vakawanda vachakushevedza. Asi ini nokukurumidza ndinokunyeverai kuti kubva muhutatu hwose, mushure mokutaurirana pafoni, mabhairiro paSMS, misangano, pachava nevashoma chete, zvichida 2-3 varikumbira. Asi iwe unonyatsoda zvakawanda here? Tinoda chete chete, vadiwa uye vane rudo!
Ndinokurayira kuti uve nebhuku rinokosha raunonyora pasi mazita, nhamba dzefoni dzevarume vakakudanai, uyewo ruzivo pamusoro pavo rwawakakwanisa kuwana. Nenguva pfupi uchengetedze nhamba pafoni yako uye zvichida nemufananidzo kuitira kuti urege kuvhiringidzika. Ikoko iwe unonyora pasi naani, nguva uye kupi kwamakabvumirana pazuva, kuitira kuti musakanganwa. Ndinotenda, kuchava nemitemo yakawanda, SMS, kushanyira. Uye kusvikira iwe uchisarudza pamusoro pe "zvishuvo", bhuku rino richakubatsira kuti urege kuvhiringidzika.
Kune mibvunzo yevarume, vangani vanhu vanobvuma pane zvido zvenyu, vasati vataure zvakawanda, asi vachiri kutsvaga mweya wavo wekukakavadzana, vachitaura kuti zvitatu chete uye nemumwe waunosangana uye wakaziva kugumisa. Kana ukawana nhare kubva kune varume vasingakodzeri mvumo yako yekutengeswa, somuenzaniso, yakakwana, inopfupika yakakwirira kana kuti avo vasina chavanoita uye vanongoda kutaurirana pamusoro pefoni, pakarepo rega kutaura navo, musatengesa nguva.
Yeuka, kufambidzana chete kwechokwadi, misangano chaiyo ichakubatsira kuwana pfungwa yemunhu, saka usanonoka kukurukurirana kwefoni, asi unosangana chaizvo.
Kufambidzana kwechokwadi pamapepanhau hazvina kukwana, asi zvakadaro zvinowanikwa! Zvinokwanisika kuti iwe uchange uine chikamu ichi chakanakidza, uye mushure mechato nemudiwa wako iwe uchaenda kuhofisi yekunyora pamwe chete kukutendai nokuda kwekuzivana kwako, zvichida ivo vachanyora nyaya pamusoro pako mune pepanhau iroro!