Kana iwe ukakumbira munhu kwenguva yakareba, achabvumira

Ndiani anobereka zvakadaro?
- Uyu murume ari nyore kupa,
pane kutsanangura kuti nei usingadi ...

Vanhu vazhinji vanoda kuve nehanya, vanofadza mukukurukurirana, zvakare havazviratidzi muchiedza chakaipa. Kunyanya kunosangana nevakadzi. Asi upenyu hwakadaro zvokuti kazhinji hazvibviri kuvimba nesimba rega. Uyezve, vanhu vanogara munzanga, uye vanowanzoda chimwe chinhu kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Rubatsiro, kunzwisisa, zvipo ... Uye pano masayendisiti anoratidza kuti kana ukakumbira munhu kwenguva yakareba, achabvumirana. Asi iwe unotofanira kubvunza nepfungwa.

Usave wakabereka

Hapana anoda kufambidzana nemitambo. Zvichida zvinodiwa nomunhu akadaro zvichasangana. Zvechokwadi, kana iwe ukakumbira munhu kwenguva yakareba, achabvumira kubvumira chero chinhu, kuti abvise zvaanokumbira. Asi mutengo uyu, unoratidzika, wakanyanya kuduku-kune dambudziko. Ushamwari nehuwandu hunova hwakasununguka, uye zvino munhu anonzwa ane tsika yekuramba chikumbiro.

Mhedziso ndeyekutanga: hazvibatsiri kutakura, uye kukumbira "pahuma" kunodhura. Tinoda kuita zvinhu zvose nechese, asi isu? Saka, iyo inogara ichinyunguduka "Takadikanwa, ndinoda hombodo yehuto" ani naani achaunza kuchena kwakachena uye achisunga kukanda kwete nenguvo yehusi kumakumbo, asi pakupedzisira iyi "inotapira" ...

Sarudza nguva yakafanira uye nzvimbo yezvikumbiro

Fungidzira uri kugezera. Uye panguva ino foni iri kuchera mukicheni. Kuti upindure kushungurudza uye kushevedza, iwe unofanira kusimuka, kuoma, kubuda muimba yekugeza (zvichida - kukanda jasi). Mufaro unopera, bhati rinoputika, mutezo unopera ...

Izvo zvinoitika kune avo vatinokumbira kubatsirwa. Nokudaro, kana isiri nyaya yekukurumidzira, uye kwete yekukosha zvakanyanya, zviri nani kubvunza zvisati zvaitika: "Pane imwe nguva here?" Uyezve, nokuda kwechikonzero ichi, kugadzirisa mubvunzo, kugutsa chikumbiro, kuchakuchengetedza nguva nemari.

Kugumisa kwechipiri: zvechokwadi hazvifananidzi kubvunza pamusangano, mutambo webhola, kutsika mumugwagwa kusvika kune chiedza chitsvuku kunze kwekuyambuka pedo ...

Kumbira nguva dzose

Zvikumbiro hazvina hanya pasina chikonzero. Dai takanga tichinyatsofunga nezvemukati mutsara wekupedzisira wakadonhedzwa ne-interlocutor - zvino, zvichida, waizopenga. Uye usagumburwa: kana iwe ukakumbira munhu kwenguva yakareba, iye angangodaro akabvumira. Uye kana iwe uchikumbira kamwe chete, ichakanganwa chikumbiro chako sechinhu chisina zvazvinoita.

Zvisinei, kwaari iye bhizimusi rako rakadaro. Iwe unoda izvi ...

Kumbira mberi

Kukumbira chikwereti manheru manheru, sokuda kwaakawanikwa - zvinoreva kuzvipa mhosva kune ukama hwakaiparara. Sei? Iye zvino tichazozviverenga. Saka iwe unouya nechivimbo chakakwana chokuti musikana wako akawana mubayiro zuro, uye anogona kukwereta mari. Uye zvino-chii chakaipa - akatotenga chimwe chinhu chikuru. Iwe hauna kufara (uye kana nyaya yacho yakakomba, saka iwe wakatsamwa mukati), uchiedza kuchengetedza ushamwari kutaura.

Kana iwe uchizojaira kubvunza panguva yekupedzisira - saka nguva imwe neimwe chikumbiro chisina kugadzikana "chicharova" hukama. Nhamo.

Ita kukwanisa kuvonga uye kubatsira

Zvechokwadi, kana iri kazhinji, yakareba uye yakanyanyisa kubvunza munhu chero chinhu, iye achabvumira chero nyaya. Tucked up and will. Asi hazvidikanwi kugara mu "chikwereti chisingaperi", uye kwete kwete chete, zuva rega rega, asi zvakare mumutauro wesoteric. Ita munhu anokosha kana asina kufadza kwaari, anobatsira, kana iwe uchibvunzwa. Gara mumusasa wekupa, vanhu vane simba vane chimwe chinhu chokupa nyika. Uye zvino manzwiro ako pachako pamusoro pevakakumbira uye zvikumbiro zvechokwadi achatanga kuchinja zvikuru.

Iwe unonzwisisa kuti haabvunzi chete utera, asi anopa kwete chete iye ane zvinhu zvose uye ichi ndicho chikonzero chekuchinja kunovaka.

Ko kana iwe usingazivi kubvunza zvachose?

Kune boka rakadaro revakadzi kuti zviri nyore kwandiri "kuzvinyengetedza ini" pane kuzvikurudzira kuti "ndizvininipise", sezvavanodaro. Ichokwadi, masimba evanhu anoguma-kunyanya simba reamai vaduku, mukadzi akwegura, mushandi wechikadzi mumashizha maviri. Nokukurumidza kana kuti gare iwe uchafanira kubvunza - zvose kubasa uye kumba.

Kubvunza kwakanyanya nyore kana iwe uchinzwa chidikanwi chinokosha. Kana mubvunzo wacho wakakosha kuti "kana asi iye (-a) achabatsira - saka hapana anozobatsira, kurara pasi uye kufa." Muchiitiko ichi, nekutya vanenge vose vanodzidza kubvunza.

Uye kana mubvunzo uyu usingakosha zvakadaro? Chii chandinofanira kuita?

Zvimwe, zvishoma nezvishoma dzidza kubvunza. Chokutanga, chikwereti peni kana kushamba, saka-kumbira mumwe waunoshanda navo kuti abate yogiti kubva muchitoro, ipapo - kubatsira nemotokari yekugadzira ... Asi nguva dzose inokosha kuparadzanisa chikumbiro kubva pane izvozvi. Kuisa sponges nekutsvaga hazvisi zvakafanana nekucherechedza kukosha kwomunhu, kukodzera kwake uye unyanzvi, uye kubvunza. Kazhinji zvichida, kwete kamwe.