Usaedza kutyisa munhu. Usaenda kumatanho akawandisa. Usazvidza uye usatyisidzira chikamu icho naye, kana asina kukuroora iwe. Ngwarira kuti murume, achiyera zvose zvinobudirira nehana, achasarudza rusununguko rwechikoro, zvisinei neukama hwako hunoshamisa. Munhu wose, semwana, anoita kubva kune zvakasiyana. Kana iwe uchimumanikidza kuti aite chimwe chinhu, ipapo kubva pamweya wekupokana iye haazoiti. Kana chimwe chinhu chikarambidzwa, zvino chichava chaiyo, kana kuti zvichida kusaziva, kuedza kuzviita. Muchero wakarambidzwa unotapira. Saka ungaita sei munhu pachake achida kupa chipo?
Kutanga, taura nejaya rako pamusoro pekuti anomiririra sei upenyu hwemumhuri mune remangwana riri kure uye kana pane zvakadaro. Bvunza kuti anorondedzera sei kumhuri, kuvana. Funga nezvemhuri yake. Kana munhu akakurira mumhuri yakazara, kwaiva naamai nababa, uye mumhuri iyi pane kubatana uye rudo rwevabereki, murume wako nokukurumidza kana kuti gare gare achaedzawo kuumba mhuri yake. Kana musanangurwa wenyu akakwidziridzwa mumhuri isina kukwana kana mumhuri ine nguva dzose inonyadzisa, apo vabereki vanoremekedzana, saka zvichida iye achadzivisa mhuri saizvozvo, achitya kudzokorora ruzivo rwakasuruvara rwevabereki vake. Rwendo rwekubatana kumudzimai wepfungwa dzepfungwa anogona kubatsira pano.
Pane kutenda kwakafanana kuti varume kusvikira pakupedzisira vadzivisa kuroorana uye vanotya semoto. Maererano neongororo, varume vakawanda vachiri kuda kuwanana. Vanowanzofunga nezvekubatanidza hupenyu hwavo nemumwe mukadzi, kuva nehupenyu hwepabonde nguva dzose naye, uyezve kuva nevana. Ita mhuri uye uite hukama mairi.
Kune mumwe munhu akakuita iwe chipo, usatora matanho makuru. Enda kune chinangwa chako zvishoma nezvishoma. Iva nemurume nguva dzose uye kwose kwose, mumutsigire mune zvose. Murume anofanira kuva nechivimbo mukati mako, ziva kuti iwe ndiwe usingakusiyi pasi. Bvuma munhu wako sezvaari. Anofanirwa kuva nechokwadi chokuti kana akamuka mangwanani oga, kana kamwe-kamwe iye anoda kuchinja hupenyu hwake, achishandura basa rake kune rimwe risina kubhadhara uye rinogona kuva rakaipisisa asi rinofadza kwaari, haungagunun'uni.
Varume vanotya nevakadzi vanofanira kugadzirisa shamwari dzavo. Varume havadi kusiya zvinhu zvinovapa mufaro, nekuda kwehupenyu hwemhuri. Tsigira murume wako muzviito zvake zvekuzvivaraidza, ngazvive iyo bhora kana motokari. Usaedza kuitora kana kuidzidzisazve, tora sezvazviri.
Usarega rudo rwako ruchibuda. Tsigirei nemhando dzakasiyana-siyana dzinokosha: mashomanana mazwi ane rudo panguva dzenyoro, sushi yeJapan, asina kutengeswa muresitorendi, asi yakabikwa neimba yacho pachake, kubhadhara mabhiza.
Ratidza murume wako kuti iwe uchaita amai vanoshamisa. Varume vanobatwa netsitsi uye kutsunga kwevana chaivo.
Hapana humwe mapeji chaiwo ezvingaita kuti munhu ape kupa kwemaoko nemwoyo. Iva murume kumurume wako, mumwechete uye oga, pasina izvo iye asingazoiti upenyu hwake hwomunguva yemberi. Uye iwe haufaniri kumirira nguva refu kuti munhu atange kupa.