Nezera, maonero atinoita zvepabonde anochinja, saizvozvowo mafungiro kune varume avo vanoita zvepabonde kwatiri. Pamasikati makumi maviri, tinoda kunyatsorongedzwa nemaoko edu, kuisa maruva edu aidiwa nekutaura nekusingaperi maererano nerudo rwedu. Pamakumi matatu, handidi kuzviisa kune izvi. Paine makumi mana, uye kwete kana kunotyisa, kutaura kwakasimba kworudo hakusi zvachose.
Izvi hazvikonzeri kusava nechokwadi kuvakadzi, zvinotorwa zvishoma uye zvinotendwa kuti zvakangoita sezvakasikwa kuti zvinofanira kusvika kumurume. Isu tinowanzofunga pamusoro pezvinhu izvo ivo pachavo vanofunga sezvakanaka, vachiita mharidzo imwe chete nesu.
Mudiwa wemakore 20
Anobva azvipupurira nomwoyo wose murudo, anokukoka kumusangano wekupedzisira mu cinema, anopa maruva anodikanwa, anonongedza chimwe chinhu munzeve yako. Haana kunyanya kuteerera zvaunotaura kwaari (uye kana iwe ukapindura zvachose), anokutsvoda mumativi ose emuviri, asi chii pazera iri iye ane hanya nazvo?
Kutanga, basa rakabudirira. Izvozvo, hukama uye zvepabonde, hongu, zvakare, ndezvechido, asi kune zvishoma. Pakazosvika makumi maviri, murume uyu haasati ava nechokwadi cheiye, kuitira kuti atadze kukunda kwevakadzi avo vaaida chaizvo kukunda. Ukama hwakakomba nemukadzi asina kuroorwa, murume panguva ino haadi kudiwa. Kune dzakawanda zvakawanda zvingasarudzwa zvese zvakapoteredza!
Nzira dzekuita zvepabonde dzinogona kuonekwa nemashoko ekuti "gedhi rembhedha". Akagadzirira kuita zvepabonde munzvimbo ipi neipi, panguva ipi zvayo yezuva uye mune imwe nzira. Nheyo nemitambo hazvipo, hakuna dambudziko, sezvinodiwa zvepabonde. Kunyangwe zviri nani kana mumwe wako achipa chimwe chinhu chitsva, icho "vakomana vasina kuedza."
Cons: haanzwisisi nei uchida mimhanzi yakanyarara, champagne uye makenduru. Mukufunga kwake, zvachose zvinhu zvose zvaunoda kuti uite zvepabonde zvakanaka, une. Saka rudo kubva kwaari haufaniri kumirira zvikurukuru. Kazhinji mudiwa ane makore 20 haazive kuti chii uye sei. Uye zvakanyanya kudaro, uye kuti ungazviita sei kukugutsa iwe.
Anoda makore makumi matatu nemakore
Iwe hausi kuenda kumitambo yekunema naye, nokuti achakukoka iwe kuresitorendi yepa posh apo acharamba achitaura newe kwenguva yakareba. Kunyanya, pamusoro pangu. Panguva imwe chete, anonyatsoteerera zvaunotaura kwaari panyaya ino inonakidza. Anowanzotarisa uye anotarisa akatarisa mumaziso, anopa rupo maruva mune zvinyorwa zvinodhura zvakaisvonaka. Iwe unonzwisisa zvisati zvaitika kuti mushure mekudya kwemanheru iwe uchava zvechokwadi uri mubhedha wake. Zvisinei, haasati aomerera.
Mumwe murume ane makumi matatu anofarira kusangana nemudzimai akakodzera kwete kungomuka pedyo naye, asiwo kurarama. Iye haadi hake kungoita zvepabonde chete, asiwo hukama, kutendeseka uye kuvimba kwakasimba. Ndiko panguva ino kuti chido chinowoneka kuti mumwe munhu anofanira kumumirira kumba, uye musuo haufaniri kuvhurwa nemugove wake. Kunyange kutanga kwepfungwa pamusoro pevana.
Pros: Murume wemakore makumi matatu anokwanisa kuziva kukupa iwe mufaro chaiwo. Uyezve, iye pachake anoda kuti iwe uununure. Mune zvepabonde, iye achiri ane chido chechikara chevechidiki, asi chave chave chine mavara mumanzwi emupfungwa. Iwe uchagumburwa zvinyoronyoro, kutaura newe uye kunyatsotsvoda husiku. Zvakanaka, kana, chokwadi, iwe wakanga uri pamubhedha wake kwakanga kusina kuitika, kuti pachinenge ichiitika kakawanda.
Cons: kune zviito zvekuita zvepabonde. Murume wacho ane ruzivo rwakakwana kuti akutungamirire mune ecstasy isinganzwisisiki, akakurira zvakakwana kuti kufara uku hakusi pamubhedha. Nharo yega yeukama hwakadaro - mitemo yemurume wemakore makumi matatu nematatu yakanyanya kuoma kufanana. Mushure mezvose, rusununguko runoiswa pamutsara, uye murume wevana makumi matatu nemakumi matatu akagadzirira kumupa iye (uye iye pachake) chete kumukadzi akakodzera mukuzviisa kwake.
Ane makore makumi mana anodiwa
Anonyatsobata ruoko rwako paanotarira melodrama, anoteerera nyaya pamusoro pezvinhu zvako zvakavanzika, anokupa maruva anodiwa zvikuru, anokudzidzisa kuti unzwisise chikafu chakanaka, mafashoni uye zvepabonde. Murume ari kuda 40 kuwana, pakupedzisira, iyo inofanirwa kurarama. Kuziva kwekuti hafu yehupenyu inopedzisira uri woga inoita kuti munhu atarise mweya wekuzvarwa unogona kuchengetedzwa zvakachengeteka.
Pros: kumunhu wake 40 zvichida atoedza zvose, mune chero zvipi nezvipi uye kuenzanisa, kuwana ruzivo rwehupenyu. Uyu ndiye munyoro munyoro uye anonyunyutira, iyo inonyatsoita kuti kufarira kwako kuve kwakakwirira kwepamusoro kupfuura iwe, kuongorora hukama hwevanhu vose uye zvepabonde kunyanya kuburikidza nehutano hwakadini naye.
Cons: chido chichava chisingawanzovi, uye mukudzo iwe uchawana unyoro huwedzerwa nemaawa akawanda. Izvo makenduru aya uye rudo. Uye kazhinji kavhenekeri, iwe uchataura nezvezvinhu zvose zviri munyika. Dzimwe nguva, kusvikira zvepabonde hazvisviki.