Nezvekuvandudzwa kwekutanga nhasi, zvichida, vabereki vasingafadzi zvikuru havana kunzwa. Mumakumi emakore apfuura, uchapupu hunogutsa hwakawanikwa hwokuti kusakwana kwakadini mano ehupfungwa hwomwana. Asi zvakafanana, mazwi evamwe, vasati vashoma vanoremekedzwa uye vanoremekedzwa vadzidzisi, zvakare vanonzwika: masayendisiti, vadzidzisi, vanachiremba. Uropi hwehutachiona uye hutano husina simba hwemurume muduku hunoda maitiro ekuchenjerera zvikuru, uye kukurudzira zvakanyanya kweuchenjeri hakuzongobatsiri chete, asi kunogona kukuvadza zvinokanganisa mwana. Ichokwadi chose pamusoro pekukurumidza kufambira mberi kwevana - munyaya ino.
Ndiani akarurama?
Chimwe chikuru chekufunga kwekukura kwepakutanga chiri muchokwadi chokuti nekuda kwekuonekwa kwavo, mafungiro kumwana akachinja zvikuru. Kubvira panguva yekare kusvika munguva pfupi yapfuura, vaifungidzirwa vasina rubatsiro, vasingazivi, avo vane zvinodiwa kwemwedzi yakawanda vakaderedzwa kuti vadye uye vaome. Nhasi, vabereki vanofunga vanoziva kuti kunyange munhu muduku kuduku kakatova munhu ane pfungwa uye unyanzvi anoda kuverengwa. Tinogona kutaurirana nechivimbo pamusoro pekugadzirwa kwechimiro chemubereki. Iko makore gumi namashanu-makumi maviri akapfuura chete mavambo ega ega akanga ari kugadziriswa, nhasi anova mashoma. Vabereki vakawanda vanoomesa vana vaduku, vadzidzise kushambira nekuita maitiro akaoma-gymnastic uye, hongu, vanobatanidzwa mukutanga kwekuvandudza mano avo. Kune rumwe rutivi, ikozvino, apo chizvarwa chekutanga chevana chakakwidzwa nemapiyona chaiwo ekukura kwekukura akakura, zvinova pachena kuti yakawanda sei misungo iyo uye inosangana nemiedzo yakawanda inomirira vabereki vakatsika munzira iyi.
Circus yevana vakadzidziswa.
Ichi ndicho chakaoma kukudzivisa. Zvakanaka, kuti ungadzivisa sei kusaratidza kuvasikana vasikana vanobudirira zvinoshamisa zvemucheche mukuverenga, kunyora, mimhanzi. Iwe haungagoni sei kukurirwa nematarenda ake pamberi pehama dzako neshamwari? Nzira yekuramba sei kubatanidzwa mumakwikwi ematarenda maduku? Mushure mezvose, zvinotapira sei mwoyo paunoona pane imwe nhanho duku duku muchengeti wedhani mumutambo wakajeka kana muchechi wechiridhi anonyatsoita kambani yakaoma? Zvisinei, chiitiko chinoratidza kuti kuratidzwa kwokutanga kwetarenda kunokuvadza zvikuru kumwana uye kuvabereki. Kushamwaridzana kubatana nemwana kunobva kwasvibiswa nenyota, kugadzirira kusingaperi kwemakwikwi nemakwikwi. Panzvimbo yekuyemura kwechokwadi kunouya kusina maturo uye rudzi rwemakwikwi ezvakaitwa zvitsva.
Kana iye ari nyanzvi, ane nguva pfupi kumanikidzira mano ake ndiyo yakaipisisa. Vana, vane chipo chetarenda chero ipi zvayo, vane hurongwa hwakanyanya husina tsvina. Nokudaro, kusaruramisira kunobatwa nemitoro yevabereki kunogona kuita nyore nyore kuneta kwekutya uye kunyange zvirwere zvakakomba.
Midzi yevabereki pasina.
Ngatitendese isu pachedu: mumapfumbamwe matambudziko kubva kune gumi, chikonzero chekushingaira kwevabereki kusagutsikana nehutano hwako. Ndakanga ndichirota kuva mudzidzi akakurumbira, asi handina kukwanisa kuwana masvomhu nefizikiki zvishoma pamana mana. Ndakanga ndichirota nezvemakwikwi emitambo, asi vakarambwa nekuda kwezvikonzero zveutano. Ndaida kudzidza kutamba violin, asi kwakanga kusina runyerekupe ... Uye kamwe kamwe, apo mwana anooneka, vabereki vanodzidza nezvekukura kwekutanga. Icho chinotarisa kuti kune nzira yezvishamiso yekuti chero mwana upi zvake ave mucheche mwana! Chinhu chikuru ndechokutanga nenguva. "Pashure pematatu zvakanyanyisa!" Masters akayambira zvakasimba. Mwana wangu anogona zvechokwadi kuita zvose zvandisingadi, iye zvechokwadi achava mudzidzi akanaka, muimbi, mutambi. Upenyu hwemhuri yose huri pasi nepfungwa huru. Anobatsirwa nebasa rake, amai vake, kutengwa kwezvikomborero uye kubhadhara kwemakirasi inova nyaya huru yemari yemhuri. Vanasekuru naambuya, vanamainini, zvakare, vanobatana nehutambo hwose hwemhuri. Zvakakosha: tinounza genius! Nokuda kwenguva iyo, mwana, zvichida, kuti mufaro wevabereki uchaita zvose zvaanoda kubva kwaari. Asi paanova akwegura uye zvinoshanduka kuti haasi kurota basa semucheche, muvepi kana nyanzvi yemasvomhu, hondo chaiyo inotanga mumhuri. Pashure pezvose, muzita remangwana rake, vazhinji vakaurayiwa vakabayirwa! Pashure pezvose, akawana kubudirira kwakadaro kwakanakisisa!
Pasinei nokuodzwa mwoyo kwakamirira vanodada vanopapa uye vanaamai, kana kamwe-kamwe zvinotarisa kuti mwana akwegura haasisirizve pamusoro pekuzvikudza kwechechi mwana, uye vana vane vabereki vasati vaduku vane makore vakangobata chete, asiwo vakadzinga mwana wavo kure. Mwana wacho, achifunga kuti haana kurarama maererano nezvaanotarisira, acharwadziwa zvinorwadza. Kana, zvakanyanya kuipa, achasava nechokwadi: vabereki vanovada here kana kuti aiva iye anokosha kwavari, chete apo iye akaramba ari mhare uye anokunda?
Pakutanga Kana Panguva Yakakodzera?
Mumwedzi yokutanga yehupenyu, uropi hwomwana huri kukura nokukurumidza, uye kubatana pakati pemasero emagetsi kunoumbwa. Munguva ino, mucheche anowana ruzivo rwakakura rwezvake pamusoro pake uye nyika yakamupoteredza. Yeuka mazana mashoma kana kunyange mazana emifananidzo yakawedzerwa kana maonero ake - maitiro mashoma. Saka unoregerei kudzidzisa mwana kuverenga, masvomhu, mimhanzi munguva ino, panzvimbo yezera rechikoro, apo kukura kweuropi kwave kuda kupera uye chero ruzivo rwakakanganiswa nematambudziko makuru? Nokuti pakuita zvinhu zvose zvinotarisa zvishoma zvakasiyana. Kana mwana aberekwa, uropi hwake hahuna kuumbwa zvakakwana uye mumwedzi yekutanga iri kuwedzera. Asi kutanga, iyo madhipatimendi ayo anotarisira mamwe mabasa akaoma anofanira kutanga akura: kuona, kunzwa, kubata, kurongedza kufamba, kutaura. Uye chete ipapo nzvimbo dzouropi dzine humwe huwandu hwakaoma hunoshandiswa: manyorero, kunzwisisa kwekutaura kwakanyorwa. Uropi hwomwana ipurasitiki yakawanda, uye kana yakasimudzirwa kukurudzirwa kwemashure ekumusoro vasati vakura, izvi zvinogona kutungamirira kwete kuratidzwa kwezvipo zvekare, asi kune zvakanyanya kusagadziriswa: kunonoka mukutaura kwemashoko, kukanganisa mamiridzo, kusagadzikana, kana autism.
Izvi zvinoreva here kuti unoda kurega pfungwa yekuvandudza mano echeche achiri muduku, kuchiisa kuchikoro chechikoro, uye kunyange kuchikoro? Kwete zvachose. Iko kushanda kufanana kwemashoko kunotangira nguva yekutarisa kwayo. Kana panguva iyi mwana achizviwana ari munharaunda inobudirira, achadzidza nekuyeuka zvinhu zvose kana muviri wake nehupi hwake hwakagadzirirwa, iko, nenguva, uye, zvichida, kupfuura kare kupfuura zvinowanzogamuchirwa nguva dzakare. Izvi, mumutauro wezvino uno pedagogy, inzvimbo yekufambira mberi kwakanyanya. Saka, kana mwana akamuka kubva kumavhiki ekutanga ehupenyu hwake, avete pamuviri wake pasi kana mumutambo, apo pane zvakawanda zvemasvondo anofadza, haafaniri kukwira mukati memaawa matanhatu, asi pamwedzi mishanu kana kunyange mana. Kana mwana mumwe chete akachengeterwa sabelutym mumucheka, achiisa mudumbu rake kwemaminetsi mashomanana, anogona kutanga kutamba achioneka pakupedzisira kupfuura nguva yakatarwa kana kuti kutamba zvachose. Izvo zvinogona kutaurwa nezvimwe imwe nzvimbo yebasa. Mwana anofanira kunzwa mutauro waakataurirwa kwaari nguva refu asati atanga kutaura; ona magwaro nemashoko - vasati vatanga kuverenga, uye mapeni uye mavara - vasati vasveta.
Mune mamwe mazwi, kutaura nezvekukura kwekutanga, tinoreva kuti mwana wacho achakurumidza kusimba kupfuura zvisizvo, asi panguva yakakodzera. Izvozvi, kwete mushure mokunge yaiswa. Kune izvi uye unofanira kutsvaga vabereki vose. Uye pakupedzisira, bvuma ini pachangu chokwadi chokuti mwana haaiti chikwereti kune chero ani zvake. Uye mupe kuti ave LIVE.