Mukudaro kuti mudzimai wese aigona kutanga kudzidza sayenzi pasi pehurukuro: "Kuti tingakunda sei munhu," tichapa mashoma emitemo yepamusoro.
1. Uyu ndiye "Muchinda" here?
Usati washandisa spell yako, sarudza kuti uyu ndiye murume wezviroto zvako here? Pashure pezvose, haudi chero ani zvake ?! Iva nechokwadi chekuziva nezvakaitika kare, chengeta zvaanoita, dzidza tsika. Zvichida mukugadzira kuunganidza ruzivo, kusatarisira "kunzwisisa" kuchaitika. Zvinogona kuitika kuti iwe hauna kurota pamusoro pomunhu akadaro zvachose. Izvozvo zvamira, tora kufema, uye udzoke kutsvaga kwechinda mune imwe nzira. Mushure mezvose, chinonyanya kukosha iwe rugare rwako rwepfungwa.
2. Dzidza zvaanoda.
Iva nechokwadi chekuwana zvakanyanya kufarira musanangurwa wako. Dzidza zvakawanda pamusoro pehurukuro yaanofarira. Unganidza mashoko kubva pane zvakasiyana-siyana: mabhuku, magazini, Indaneti. Nyatsoverenga uye kurwisa. Inzwa wakasununguka kutanga kukurukurirana pane imwe nyaya inofadza. Iwe uchatonga munhu ane chido chakakwana uye unyanzvi hwako munyaya iyi. Izvo zvichaita kuti afunge uye zvichaita kuti iwe uremekedzwe. Zvido zvinowanzobatanidzwa zvakabatana sechinhu chipi zvacho.
3. Iva akavimbika kune shamwari dzake.
Nezvehukama hwemunhu ndima dzakawanda uye nziyo dzakanyorwa. Zvose izvi zvinoratidzira kuti kune shamwari shamwari dzinenge dziri mhuri yake yechipiri. Anoziva neshamwari dzake uye achiziva kuti "havamukandire mugomba risina chigadziko," vatorei sezviripo. Usaodza mwoyo murume kubva kumakwikwi nekambani mubhadhare kana muimba yewaini - kuremekedza rudo rwake. Ratidza mufaro nokuda kwekukunda kweshamwari uye kuchema kukunda kwavo pamwe chete neakasanangurwa, iva nemoyo wose mukunzwira tsitsi. Iwe uchakunda chero munhu nenzira iyi uye uwedzere kutara kwako mumaziso ake kusvika kumagetsi. Uyewo, iwe unowana kodzero yekuvimbika kwake kune vasikana vake nemapoka evakadzi.
4. Rudo rukuru.
Vakadzi, avo, vakaita sehombekombe, vanopisa uye vanononoka, vamiririri vehutano hwakasimba havafariri. Murume anokwezva nekuoma kwehukama. Chikamu chiri pamucheto uye kusakwanisa kutaurira kuti chii chaunotarisira munguva inotevera ndeye adrenaline kwaari, pasina chaasingakwanisi. Zvisinei, hazvidikanwi kuramba "kuchikomba" hupenyu hwake nekugara uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchinge uchitya. Imi mose muchakurumidza kuneta neizvi. Uye Mwari achirambidza, chikepe chichange chichitsvaga chichitsvaka gungwa rakanyarara, kunyange kana kwenguva pfupi.
Kuratidzira kuburikidza negodo rekuzvikakavara, shingairira kukumbira kwakanyanya kwemurume, asi ... mukuenzanisa. Nokudaro iye haasi kurega kuzviona iye chaiye, achitenda mazwi ako.
5. Dzidza kuteerera.
Zvakatipoteredza zvakatipa nzeve mbiri uye muromo mumwe chete. Vakadzi vanofadza, rangarirai izvi. Pasinei nemachero echisikigo, edza kuti usapfutidza munhu wako wakasarudzwa nekutaura uye runyararo rusingagumi. Varume vanokurumidza kuneta nevakanaka, asi chatty captivator yemwoyo yavo. Teerera kune waunoda zvakanyatsonaka uye akadzikama. Usamupopotera panguva yekukurukurirana. Kumbira mibvunzo inotungamirira, kumukurudzira kutaura pamusoro pake, kubudirira kwake, kubudirira uye kubudirira. Izvi zvichagutsa "dambudziko rinorehwa" reumwe munhu. Nokuti iwe unofarira unhu hwake, iye achakutakura iwe mumaoko ake. Pano, chokwadi ndechimwe "asi". Izvo zvichaitika kana iye asiri benzi rakanyanyisa uye kwete rukudzo rwekutsvaga, uyo asingakwanisi kuonga kukoshesa kwako.