Apo chishamiso chinoitika, hapana anoziva mberi. Dzimwe nguva munhu anomirira kunzwa uku kwemakore mazhinji, asi hazvirevi mumoyo make. Asi izvi zvinoitikawo zvakasiyana-siyana ... "Kunyange mukerekeji, mwana wangu akadanana nemusikana kubva muboka. Akatakura mahwisi ake, matoyi, asi musikana wacho aisafarira kutaura naye. Yakasvika kusvika pakuti Misha akatanga kurara zvakaipa usiku. Mudzidzisi akati akatofugama pamberi pemusikana uyu, saka akamubvumira kugara naye. Ndakaedza kutaura nevabereki vaNastya, asi vakati mwanasikana wavo Misha haana kuda mwanasikana wavo uye havagoni kubatsira. Taitofanira kutumira Misha kuchikoro kubva pamakore matanhatu, saka haana kuzoonanazve naNastya. Misha atotanga kukanganwa nezve "rudo" rwake, asi gore rino Nastya akaenda kuchikoro, ndinotya kuti izvi zvichava kushungurudzika kwepfungwa kwemwana wake, zvichida kumutumira kune imwe chikoro? "
Unoyeuka here ma heroes epamufirimu "Iwe hauna kumborota" - mukomana nemusikana murudo, uyo vabereki vake vaisadi kuti vana vavo vasangane? Uye yekupedzisira yemutambo "Romeo naJuliet"? Kune mienzaniso yakawanda yekuti kupindira kwevabereki mune ukama hwevana kwakakonzera mitezo yakaipa. Isu tinowanzozvidza manzwiro evana vedu. Tinofunga kuti haisi yakakomba, uye tinoziva kuti vachapfuura nokukurumidza. Chido chokutanga chevabereki - kubatsira mwana wavo-anotungamirira, pakupedzisira, kune chisarudzo chekudzivisa, kwete kurega, kutora ... Asi iwe unogona sei kudzivisa kana kukuita kuti ude? Kudzivisa dambudziko racho, haugoni kuzvigadzirisa. Mazano akadaro anogona kutungamirira kukuti mwana, achivanza manzwiro ake, haachazovimbi vanhu vokwake, haazovabvunzi. Uye chido chevabereki che "kuisa marara" hazvibviri kutungamirira kune chero chinhu-kana pane rudo pasina michina isingagoni kuita, kunyanya kubva pamucheche iyo inonyanya kukosha yehukama hwevanhu. Saka, inonyanya kukosha basa iro munhu mukuru achabata munguva iyi yakaoma kumwana: shamwari inogona kuvimbwa nechakavanzika, kana muvengi, kubva kune imwe inoda kutiza nokukurumidza sezvinobvira.
Tichazotaura here?
Kana, shure kwezvose, zvakaitika kuti mwana wenyu wokutanga akauya kwamuri, uye kunze, rudo rusingadiwi, kutanga, kuwana simba, kushivirira nenguva yekutaura pachena naye. Dzosanisa mwana kubva murudo rwokutanga, kumumikidza kuita mitambo inonakidza, kutamba neshamwari. Yeuka rudo rwako rwokutanga, taurira zvawakanzwa iye zvino, zvawakanga uchifunga nezvazvo, kuti hukama hwako huri nani nemunhu iyeye hwakagadzirwa sei (kana husina kutanga). Mwana wacho achakwanisa kunzwisisa uye kuteerera mazwi ako mune imwe nyaya iyo nyaya yako inonzwika uye, zvechokwadi, yakatendeseka. Panguva yekukurukurirana, zvinokosha kuyeuka kuti zviri kwatiri isu, vanhu vakuru, kuziva kuti chii chinozosiya rudo rwekutanga mumweya wemwana. Zvichida, kune vamwe, manzwiro evana anoita seasina maturo uye anonyadzisa, asi chaizvoizvo, manzwiro evana angave akaoma zvikuru kupfuura aya evanhu vakuru. Nokudaro, mubvunzurudzo nemwana iwe unofanirwa kunge uchingonyanyisa kudarika kune munhu mukuru. Kuvhiringidzika, kusanzwisisana kubva kuvabereki kunogona kukonzera mwana kunyatsogadzikana mupfungwa, uye manzwiro ekuderera anogona kunyange kutendeuka kunetseka kwekutya, kuora mwoyo. Kutya kutarisa kunyengera mumaziso evamwe vanhu kunogona kuuraya chido chekuda mwana.
Apple kubva kuapuro
Muchikoro chisati chava uye chikoro chechikoro chechikoro (makore mashanu kusvika ku5), kufambiswa kwemwana kunonyanya kutungamirirwa nemhuri: vana vanotevedzera Amai nababa mune zvose, kusanganisira hukama. Kana murume mumhuri achiremekedza mudzimai wake, ipapo mwanakomana wake acharatidza kuti ane hanya nevasikana. Kana mukadzi achizvirega achidanidzira kumurume wake, zvino mwanasikana wake, zvichida, haazorwara nevakomana. Inofanira kugara ichiyeukwa kuti kubva pamazuva ekutanga ehupenyu hwevana isu tinodzidzisa vanaamai kana vanababa vekuuya. Icho chiito cheimba iyo ndiyo inofananidzwa munyika yekunzwa kwemwana. Zvakakosha kudzidzisa mwana nzira yekuvaka zvakanaka ukama hwake nevakomana vakasiyana, apo vana vanongodzidza kuda uye kubvuma rudo kubva kune umwe munhu. Usaudza mwana kuti: "Hongu, iwe une Nastia idzi ..." Mashoko akadaro anodzidzisa mafungiro ekuda, akagadzirirwa kune vakawanda vari pamwe chete. Taurira mwana wako kuti aremekedze manzwiro evamwe vanhu.Kana chinhu chisina rudo chisati chidzoke, pane zvikonzero zveizvi: Ipai mwana kunzwisisa kuti kudonha murudo ndikunzwa kwakakwana, iyo inofanirwa kusatya uye kudzivisa.
Munyika yekunzwa
Kuwana rudo rwekutanga, vana kazhinji havagone kuratidza mutambo wose wemanzwiro avo nemanzwiro avo. Basa remunhu mukuru nderokubatsira mwana kuti azviratidze munyika yekunzwa kwake. Ita kuti mwana wacho aite basa nemaitiro akadaro-mitambo.
"Pictograms"
Gadzirira chips anenge masendimita mashanu kubva paupamhi kubva pakadhi rakakura. Dhirova pamusoro pavo manzwiro akasiyana - kusuruvara, mufaro, kushamiswa, kutya (inofanira kutarisa chinhu chakafanana nemashizha). Kurova mwana mwana mamiriro ezvinhu akasiyana-siyana anogona kubuda mukukurukurirana kwake nevezera rake, uye kuratidza kusarudza chiso icho panguva ino chinonyatsomubata mupfungwa.
"Murimi"
Izvo zvinodikanwa kuti pamutambo uyu, mune vatori vechikamu 5-6. Kumbira vana kuzvisarudzira mufananidzo wehuva - somuenzaniso, rose, chamomile, bell, a dandelion. Sarudza nemubatsiro wezvinyorwa izvo zvichava "mutariri" wekutungamirira. Anomira pakati pechitenderedzo ndokuti: "Ndakaberekerwa semurimi, ndakatsamwira, maruva ose akandirova kunze kwe ... Asters". Astra anoti: "Oh!" Murimi wemiri: "Chinetso chii kwauri?" Astra: "Mukuda ..." Gardener: "Ndiani?" Astra: "MuVasilka!" Vasilek: "Oh ...", nezvimwewo. Uyu mutambo unodzidzisa vana kugamuchira manzwiro, kushivirira.
"Thumbelina"
Dzorerai pamwe chete iyi yose inozivikanwa nhau G.H. Andersen, ozoita kuti afungidzire uye ataure zvaizoitika kuna Thumbelina, kana chimera chisina kuwana nguva yekutora iyo, kana yaifarira mole, kana isina kusvika kumativi akare eef kana kana elf yakanga isingadi. Kutaura zvingasarudzwa zvekusimudzirwa kwechirongwa, mwana achadzidza kuchinja, kukwanisa kutarisa mamiriro acho ezvinhu kubva pane zvakasiyana-siyana. Kune mukomana, zvingave zvakakosha kwete "Thumbelina", asi, somuenzaniso, "Steadfast Tin Soldier".
Tale Rudo
Kuita kuti zvive nyore kunzwisisa zvinosangana nemwana, iwe unogona kutamba mutambo wakadaro wokuedzwa naye. Ratidzai kutanga kwenyaya yacho: "Pane imwe nguva pane imwe chidiki. Aive neshamwari dzakawanda, uyewo vana vaduku, vanofara, vakasimba, vakagumburwa, saiye. Puppy aifarira chikafu chaigara mudivi. Imbwa yacho yakanga yakaisvonaka, asi isina kudzivirirwa ... Uye mwana akawira murudo naye. Akasangana nemucheche ndokutanga kutamba naye. Asi shamwari dzeputi dzakaseka kwaari: "Iwe imbwa! Chii chaunotamba nekati? "Uye rimwe zuva chirwere ..." Regai mwana arambe achiita nyaya yacho. Nyatsoteerera teerera mhinduro - ndeipi maitiro achasarudza: achaenda here neshamwari kana kuti achadzivirira kodzero yezvisarudzo zvake here? Anoramba kubatana nechisikwa chake chaanoda kana kuwana nzira yekuyananidza shamwari neshamwari isiri yadzo. Kune musikana, shandura mavara ezvinyorwa mune dzimwe nzvimbo: chikafu chinoda kuva shamwari neshumba yakasimba uye yakangwara. Iwe unofanirwa kuchenjererwa nemagumo, umo mucheche anoramba kutaurirana nemucheche. Farai nemucheche, kana achiuya uye kuti ayananise sei dzimwe mhandara nechecheche (somuenzaniso, kutanga mutambo mukuru).
Ngativerengei
Izvo zvinoitikawo kuti mazano evabereki anogamuchirwa nemwana ane utsinye. Anotenda kuti haanzwisisi, asi achiri kuda kuwana mumwe munhu achaona manzwiro nemanzwiro akafanana. Mari yacho ichauya yakachenjera uye ine mutsa ... bhuku rine rudo. Apo mwana anoverenga zvakawanda, anotanga kunzwira tsitsi nevanyori vebhuku racho, uye izvi zvinoita kuti pave nekufambisa kwepfungwa dzake. Uye apo vabereki nechecheche pamwe chete vanoongorora zvavanenge vadziverenga, mitswanda inoitawo kuti ive nemashoko uye intuition. Vana vezera remakore ekutanga vachanzwisisa nyaya yaSt. S. Aksakov "The Scarlet Flower." Inoratidza kuti rudo runounza sei munhu manzwiro ebasa, mutoro uye unoshandura chikara mumunhu.
Nyaya inonyanya kuzivikanwa naPerrot "Cinderella" inodzidzisa kuti rudo haruregi makaro, nhema uye zvinotungamirira kukundwa kwekururamisira uye zvakanaka.Kunyaya yenhau yeG. X. Andersen "Swineherd" mukuru wekugadzirira nekuda kwekuda kuita zvibayiro zvakawanda, asi kune vaanoda Zuva rekupenya Kurukurai kuverenga nemwana, bvunza kuti nei muchinda akaramba rudo rwemambokadzi, uyo anonyatsoda masimba.
Kuvana vechikoro, vaudzei kuverenga nyaya yaVictor Dragunsky "The Girl on the Ball" (kubva ku "Deniskin Stories"), munyori anonyatsorondedzera zvinetso zvemukomana zvinoenderana nezvakaitika rudo rwekutanga. Nhau ichabatsira vabereki nevana kutaurirana zviri nani. Teerera kuti baba vako vanonzwa sei pamusoro pemwanakomana wavo. Verenga "vakuru" ndima nemwana, kunyange kana mwana asingakwanise kuonga sampu yehurukuro yakakwirira yaAna Akhmatova, Sergei Yesenin, manzwiro uye mafungiro akaberekwa nemanzwiro akanaka e rudo achaparidzirwa kwaari.