Vanhu vazhinji vanoda zvakasiyana-siyana mubhedha uye rimwe usiku hwakanaka iwe unokumbira mudiwa wako kuti akurumidze kukurova, uye zuva rakatevera iwe uende, "shandisa miromo yako", uchida kuti mudikanwi wako akanga achidzinga maoko ake. Kuti zvinhu zvose zvifambe zvakanaka kubvira pakutanga, unofanira kunzwisisa kuti chii chakaoma zvepabonde chinhu chakakosha, unoda kudzidza zvakaitika kune zvizvarwa zvakapfuura, uye wozoti!
Ndiitirei zvinorwadza ...
Masochism, sadism .... Vazhinji vedu vane mafungiro asina kunaka pamusoro pemashoko aya, uyezve, vanoita ushamwari husingafadzi. Munhu ane shungu ndeye munhu ane chitarisiko chaicho, uyo anoseka pamucheche, uye muchechi wemasikati inhengo isina simba inoda kushungurudzika.
Zvisinei, chokwadi, mucherecheri chinhu chinopararira kupfuura munhu wose anoshandiswa kufunga. Yeuka kuti unozvironga sei kuti udzikinure mazuva. Zvakamboitika here kuti vashandi vakakurumidza iwe kuti masochist pawakaona kuti kwemasikati uye kudya kwemanheru iwe unodya munhu mumwe chete? Vabereki vakanyunyutira misoro yavo uye vakakudana iwe sa sadist. Zvechokwadi iwe une bhangi rakasimba, kunze kwekuti, chokwadi, iwe hauna basa rakasununguka, asi pamusha iwe pachako uri kuranga mwanasikana nenzira isingafadzi. Hupenyu hwedu hwose hwedu tinotamba chimwe chinhu pasi, saka chakanyanya, saka hazvishamisi kuti ukama hwakafanana ne "muranda-tenzi" hwauya kumakamuri edu.
Chii chinonzi BDSM?
BDSM ishamwari inogona kutaurwa kuti inotamba mitambo inotenderera kune chimwe chinhu chemasimba. Vanhu vanogona kutaura zvakanaka, asi chaizvoizvo haisi mutsara wepabonde nenzira yakachena. Vakawanda vakaroorana vanotaura kuti iyi ndiyo mararamiro. Kana iwe ukatarisa BDSM kubva pakuona kwezvemagariro evanhu, saka tinogona kutaura kuti ichi chimiro kana chechidiki.
Ndeupi musiyano pakati pemasimba ekuita-kutamba mitambo uye BDSM kubva mumhando dzenjodzi dzekuzvibata, nokuti vose vakaroorana vane rusununguko rwekuita izvi, uye ukama hwakadaro hunobva kune anoda kutora simba pane iwe pachako? Chinhu chakakosha zvikuru hachisi kumanikidza munhu kuita zvaasingadi kana zvaasingazivi. Vanhu vazhinji vanofungidzira nezvechisimba vanotya kuratidza manzwiro avo. Pashure pezvose, kana iwe ukaona kuti hauna kufanana nevamwe vose, unogona kuwana chirwere chepfungwa, kuora mwoyo uye nezvimwe zvakawanda.
Kuvonga kutsvakurudza, zvakazoitika kuti vanhu vanoda hukama hwakadaro muhucheche vakaona kushungurudzwa kwepfungwa uye kwepanyama. Zvechokwadi, kana ukaenda kazhinji kune mumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa, unogona kubvisa mafungiro asina kupa kunetseka. Kusvikira munguva pfupi yapfuura, zvaizivikanwa kuti BDSM yaifungidzirwa sekutsauka kwemaoko uye yakakurudzirwa kurapa, zvose mune zvekurapa uye mune mamwe masangano anokosha.
Izvi zvaive zvakakonzerwa nekuti chikwata chakanga chakagutsikana - yose yekuita zvepabonde inofanira kugadziriswa pakarepo. Uyezve, vakaroorana vanofarira BDSM vakanaka zvikuru kune dzimwe nzira, saka mharaunda ye "varanda nevatenzi" yakazara zvakare nevamwe vanhu vane zviratidzo zvisingaoneki - vatengesi, fetishist nezvimwe zvakadaro.
Zvakakosha kuti usazotya kuratidzwa kwehutano hwako, usatya kuita miedzo. Kune mutemo wakadaro, uyo unonzi Mutemo weAngle, unoti-chero fungiro yawakashanyira, iwe hausi woga. Mune mhaka ipi zvayo, pachava nemunhu mumwe chete pasi pano anoda zvakafanana.
Vanenge makumi matatu kubva muzana vevanhu vakuru, pasinei nezvido zvepabonde uye zvepabonde, itai zvimwe zvinhu zveBDSM. Uye varoyi vanobata zvechisimba zvepabonde vanoshanyirwa nemunhu wese!
Duramazwi rinotii?
Rimwe duramazwi rinoti BDSM inomiririra izvi: Bondage ndiyo inorambidzwa rusununguko, Kuranga chirongwa, Sadism ndiyo kutonga uye Mazichism isinganzwisisiki. Mukutaura, mitemo inonyanya kukosha ndeyokuzvidira, njere uye kuchengeteka.
Kushandura munhu munhu anofarira kufara kwakadaro kubva pakuteerera uye kuisa pfungwa.
Zvose zvinofungidzirwa kunze
Kuita kuti hutano hwehutano husati hutsinye, zvakakosha kugovana zviitiko, somuenzaniso, hauzotanga kushandisa shamhu kune waunofambidzana naye, nekuda kwekuti iye akashandiswa zvisina kunaka, sezvinoitwa mufirimu kana kuverenga mubhuku. Munhu anotonga anofanira kutarisana nematambudziko iye pachake vasati vauise kune avo vari pasi.Zvekare, vose vakaroorana vanoda zvisarudzo uye vakasarudza pakuedza kwakadaro vanofanira kufungidzira mamiriro ezvinhu.
Izvi zvinorevei? Izvi zvakanyorwa zvakanyorwa pamapepa, izvo zvose zvinobvumirana nazvo, uye unofanira kunyora pasi zviito uye zvido zvaunoda. Pamwechete, unoda kurondedzera zvose kune zviduku zvishoma.
Kana iwe ukaisa script pamwe chete, dzimwe nguva hazvisi pachena kuti ndiani ari mubati uye ndiani ari muranda, kazhinji mumamiriro ezvinhu akadaro, zvinowanzoita zvigetsi zvemasimba varanda, kunyange kana iwe uchikurukurirana script, iwe uchava nemufaro mukuru Yeuka kuti hazvifaniri kuisa script zvose pfungwa vaspossetili!
Enda kuchitoro kuvanhu vakuru!
Sirafu. Muimba imwe neimwe pane chikonzero ichi, asi kwete mazamu ose akakodzera kurova. Hazvibviri kushandisa mabhanhire akaoma uye mabhandi ane nzvimbo yekununura - kuitira kuti iwe unogona kuzvikuvadza iwe pachako kana mumwe wako. Zvinorwadza zvinogonawo kukonzerwa nekubatwa kwechikwata, pasinei nokuti zvinoita sezviri nyore.
Handcuffs. Mutemo unonyanya kukosha weBDSM ndeyekudzivirira uye kusungira rusununguko Masters akasimba haashandisi zvipfeko chete zvinoputika uye zvisikwa zvechilika, kune tambo dzakakosha, nzira dzakakosha dzokubatanidza, michina yakagadzirwa ne-X yekurovererwa. Hongu, inogona kuonekwa kwete mumavhidhiyo chete, zvichida mushandi wako, anoita semunhu akazvininipisa, asi usiku anosimudza seizvi ...
The rod. Iko huru kune zvishandiso zvinobatsira, kunyanya kana ukasarudza kuzviita mumasikirwo. Zvisinei, munhu anofanira kungwarira, tsvimbo iri pasi pemapapiro ari pakati inodzinga ganda.
Stack. Chigadziro chakasimba uye chidimbu Masaga anokwanisa kuva neharo pamagumo uye asina.
Rudo uye chisimba
Muimba yako yekurara yakanga isinganzwisisi uye inotonhorera, uye hukama hwacho hwakarasikirwa nechishuwo chayo chekare? Wedzera pepper! Kuita zvepabonde zvakasiyana siyana, haufaniri kushandisa zvimbuputi. BDSM ndizvo zvaunoda.
Kana iwe ukatora chikafu chechilika, chiisungire kumeso omurume wako anodiwa kana mukomana, uye uzviite iwe pachako, ipapo iye achaita zvakadai sechidziro chakadai chekusununguka. Mumwe wako haazooni chete iwe usina kupfeka (zvekuti, chimiro chakanaka, asi hachizokuvadza kurasikirwa nekiti kikikiri), asi iwe unogona kunzwa uine rusununguko, zvachose kukanganwa kuti hauna kutarisa zvakakwana uye kuzvipa iwe purogiramu.
Kana iwe ukavhara imwe nhengo yeruzivo, iwe unobva wava mukuru. Zvechokwadi, iwe unogona kusunga chirapa chakakomberedza maziso ako, asi hazvina zvishoma, edza kuendesa chikwereti kune zvitsitsinho zvako. Asi kwete kwaari kuti akumbire tsitsi, asi kuti iye ave kurota kwekutsvoda kwako.
Kana iwe ukanyatsobatana nemaoko ehama, iwe unogona kuratidza zvose zvaunokwanisa. Zvakanaka, kana iwe ukasunga, zvino ndizvo zviri nani: rara pasi ufare.
Kuzara - ndizvo zvaunoda kuita rudo. Bvisa kunzwa kwako uye tendeuka.
MuBDSM, zvepabonde haisi nzira yekunyadzisa uye kuranga, asiwo kukurudzira. Tamba nemudiwa wako nokuda kwechido chisina kunaka, ipapo iwe uchava nemukana wekuedza pose, iyo yakareba kwenguva refu yakarota.
Yeuka kuti yakanakisa aphrodisiac isupfeki yakanaka kwazvo inogadzirwa nekatsvuku kana kuti yakasvibira.
Masayendisiti anoti:
- 75% ye simba repfungwa dzevanhu ndeyekuita zvepabonde. Ichi ndicho chinogona kupfuma chinoda kushandiswa.
- Vanhu vanozvarwa vane chido cheBDSM vashoma kwazvo, avo chete 2% ndivo vakadzi, uye varume - 5%. Iye zvino BDSM inodiwa nevanhu vazhinji. Uye yakaiswa pasi muhuduku, apo baba vane simba uye amai vane simba vari mumhuri kana kana chisimba chiri kushandiswa kumwana. Nokudaro, munhu anotanga kutarisa imwe hafu, iyo inogona kumubatsira kuona mafungiro ake echisimba.
Pane chimwe chikonzero chekukanganisa kwakadaro: ndeyekuda kwevabereki kumutsa mwana mukugadzirisa, asi vana havagone kugara mune zvose zvakanaka, uye saka simba rekurara pabonde rinooneka, rinotungamirirwa kwete kwazvinofanira. Munhu iyeye haagoni kutombotarisana neizvi, pano iwe unoda rubatsiro rwepfungwa dzepfungwa.
Congenital BDSM-propensity apo munhu anogona kugutsikana zvepabonde chete nekubatsirwa nemarwadzo.