Zvepabonde, zvichida, hazvizoshanduki hupenyu hwako, kugadzirisa zvinetso, hazvizokubvumi kuti upinde mukati memusana epasi rose. Asi zvakadaro, paanenge akaipa, ndiko, iwe unoona, kuomesa. Kunyanya kana mudiwa, musimboti, musina: uye wakanaka, uye ane hanya, uye achada. Asi iyo inosvika sei muimba yekurara, unotanga kufunga pamusoro pemabhedha akasiyana. Ndeipi chikonzero che "kusawirirana"?
1. Unogona kunge uri kutenderera nenzira dzakasiyana-siyana
Ndizvo pakutanga pakuona zvinoratidzika kuti rudo haruna ruzivo uye zvipingamupinyi. Kwemausiku mashomanana erudo pakutanga kwekufambidzana, iwe haufaniri kushuva maruva uye ruzivo rwaShakespeare mumutauro wepakutanga. Asi zvakanyanya kusiyana kwekudzidzisa, kurera, chitendero chisingatauri shoko raro rinorema mukuvandudza ukama hwako.
Sergei akaenda kuFrance. Pane imwe kamufaya akaonana nemukadzi. Mumwe murume akanaka akaita kuti ave nechiratidzo kune mumwe mukadzi wechiFrench uye, sezvaaigara achiita munyika ino inoshamisa, mukadzi wacho pachake akasarudza zvose. Vakasvika kumba kwake, pakanga pasina chakutaura pamusoro. MuFrenchwoman akanga asingazivi Russian, Sergei aiziva chiFrench chete mubhuku refirimu "Three Musketeers". Takaita zvepabonde - kutanga mubindu, zvino mukicheni iri patafura, padenga nechokudzima moto, muimba yekurara pamubhedha ... Pazuva rechipiri, murume uyu haana kutarisira: akashamiswa kuona kuti zvepabonde rimwe chete nekuda kwekufara kwakakwana hazvina kukwana.
2. Fadhi duku
Nguva nenguva, mumwe nomumwe wedu ane hanya nechinhu chimwe, uye, achichikwidziridza kune chinzvimbo che "mutemo wega", anoedza kusaputsa kamwechete uye nokuda kwemitemo yakagadzwa. Kazhinji zvinogona kukanganisa ukama nevasikana vakasiyana.
Irina - musikana akakurumbira, varume vaigara vachimuteerera, uye aikwanisa kusarudza vatsva panzvimbo yavo. Manheru ano chisarudzo chakawira parefu refu tsvuku. Akamutarisa nemeso akafanana, kubva kune iyo sweet languor inopararira yose mumuviri wake. Maawa mashomanana gare gare vakange vari pamubhedha. Achibvarura nguo dzake, akagumbatira, kutsvoda ... nguva dzose, asingamboregi, chero kupi zvako ... kwete pamiromo.
Irina akafunga kuti mukupisa kwechido chokutanga kusvikira rudo urwu haruna kusvika pamwero. Asi pazuva rechipiri ivo vakaita zvakare vasina kutsvoda. Chetatu, akabvisa zvakasimba musikana wacho achimunamatira uye akatsanangura kuti haana kumbotsvoda miromo yake, yakadaro mitemo yake. Irina akanga asina chaasarudzo kunze kwekusiya mumwe murombo ari oga nemitemo yake.
3. Kupfuura Zvaunotarisira
Isu tose tauya kuimba yekurara nemutoro wezvakaitika kare. Murudo wako wekare aifarira kana iwe uri, uye ikozvino iwe unoshandisa izvi zvinyengeri kune mumwe mutsva. Iwe unotsigirwa: kana wapfuura nguva yekupedzisira, uchapfuura "nehana" uye mune izvi.
Andrew aida vakadzi, vaida kuvapa zvipo, kutakura maoko avo uye kufadza mubhedha. Nemusikana wake wekare, akaedza marudzi ose ehupombwe, asi kunyanya yakatanga apo iye, achinyatsomesa mahudyu ake nemaoko ake, achinyengedzwa mukati make kuti apinde. Andrew anonyanya kushandiswa mumuenzaniso uyu wehupenyu hwepabonde iye akaita zvakafanana nemusikana wake mutsva. Akashamisika kuti musikana haana kutora simba iri. Aine kuchema kwekutambudzika, akamusundira kubva kwaari, uye, ataura zvinhu zvose zvaanofunga nezvake uye kunyengera kwake, akabva. Mukana wekuvandudza Andrei hauna kupa.
4. Chinhu chakashata
Kana, kubvira pakutanga, chimwe chinoshungurudza mumumwe wako chinokugumbura, usazvifadza iwe nepfungwa yokuti ichapfuura. Pane zvakasiyana, ichawedzera uye, pakuguma, inodzivirira zvose zvayo.
Ella akasangana paburamu ane murume akanaka. Vakatanga kunwa doro, vakataura. The interlocutor yakanga yakanaka uye inonakidza. Ella akasarudza-sei kwete, nokuti akanga asina murume ane kwenguva refu kudaro. Vakatsvoda mumatekisi, pamatanho, vachitsvoda apo Ella akaedza kuisa kiyi mukivha, kutsvoda muvanzira ... kusvikira asisunungura. Ella akaona tsoka dzake. Netsoka shoma shoma dzakange dzisinganzwisisiki shoma. Zvepabonde hazvina kushanda.
5. Tarisa pane imwe nzvimbo
Iwe unofunga kuti izvozvo iwe pachako zvepabonde pachako zvachose zvakarasikirwa nekunakidzwa kwayo kare? Iwe uri kukurumidza kunyorera izvi nekuda kwezera, kuneta, basa rakabatikana uye nhoroondo refu yekugara pamwe chete. Uye zvichida chikonzero chakasiyana zvachose? Zvichida kukoshesa kwako hakuna kurasikirwa zvachose, asi munhu waunenge waita naye?
Anna aida murume wake weramangwana zvikuru. Zvichida, saka zvakaonekwa kwaari. Nguva imwe neimwe, achifunga nezvake, akarangarira mumwe mukomana akasimba, mutambi, achiedza kukunda uye kubudirira. Akarangarira kuti akamudzivirira sei kubva kuHoligligans, kuti akaendesa sei maoko ake kuenda kuchipatara paakavhuna gumbo rake, kuti akazvitengesa sei zororo kuti amutengese zuva rekuzvarwa. Akamuda sei!
Anodiwa? ... Nenguva isipi manyorero anoshamisa Anna. Uye ndiani waanoda zvino? Muchiri wenzizi, muchero webhandi, ane gumbo risina kutenderera achifamba-famba pedo neimba uye achimirira, paanouya kumushure unotevera mubhokisi, achamushumira chikafu chesausage. Anna akatarisa nekushamisika pane zvainzi murume wake, uye akaziva kuti akanga asiri HE, kwete HOSE, kwete iye waaida zvikuru!