Mazuva ano, vakadzi, pamwe nevarume, vanotora chikamu mubasa revanhu, vakabudirira kubudirira pabasa rose revanhu. Vane kodzero imwechete, mabasa mamwechete, mutoro iwoyo. Ndiyo mushure mekushanda-nguva yevakadzi yakasiyana zvakasiyana. Uye mumagazini ino, sezviri mune nyaya dzose dzine chokuita nevarume nevakadzi, kune kukonana pakati pevarume nevakadzi pane maonero aya.
Mukadzi tarisa
Varume vazhinji vanotenda kuti mushure mekudzoka kumba kubva kubasa, vane kodzero yekuzorora mushure mekushanda kwezuva rakaoma. Asi vakadzi vazhinji vanonzwa basa ravo rinobatanidzwa nemabasa epamba: kudya kwemanheru, masikati kana kudya kunofanira kunge kwakagadzirwa munguva, zvipfeko zvevana uye murume zvinofanira kushambidzwa, uye vana vanofanira kugadzirirwa uye kudyiwa.
Uchenjeri hwevanhu hunoti: "Kana iwe uchida runyararo mumhuri, iwe unoparadzanisa zvakaenzana." Zvisinei, chokwadi ichi chakakanganwa nevanhu vazhinji. Uye chinhu chokutanga icho vazhinji vavo vanoita pavanodzoka kumba mushure mokunge basa ravete pamubhedha, tora kure kure kubva paTV kana kuti pepanhau, uye kupedza kuguma kwezuva uchiita maitiro akadaro. Uye vazhinji vakadzi vanotanga kuenda kukicheni kana kutanga kuchenesa imba. Asi fungidzira, zvakadini nekukurumidza uye kunze kwazviri zviri nyore kuita mabasa epamba kana iwe uchivabata pamwe chete?
Zvichida inguva yekurega pfungwa yokuti mutoro wemabasa ose epamba inongowanikwa chete kumukadzi? Pasina mubvunzo, zvakakosha kudzidzira kushanda pamba kubvira paucheche, vose vasikana nevakomana. Mushure mezvose, mabasa ose anoenderana nebasa rekumba anofanira kugoverwa pakati pemumwe wese waro. Uye kana munhu achigona kudya kudya kunonaka, kuchenesa imba kana kuita chimwe chinhu chinonzi chinoitwa basa remukadzi, zvino mhuri inongowedzera.
Murume akatarisa
Zvinonzwisisika, munhu wose anofunga kuti anogadzirisa mabasa epamba. Kunyange zvazvo vakadzi vakawanda vasingabvumirani nemashoko aya, asi zvishoma nezvishoma vanosimbisa maonero evanhu, chidzidzo chakaitwa nechekutsvakurudza nzvimbo yezvinonhuwira zvekambani Dove.
Maererano nekudzidza uku, varume vanotenda kuti vakadzi vanongotarisa zvavanoita pakuchengetedza imba. Nyanzvi dzinopikisa kuti chikonzero cheizvi kukwanisa kwevakadzi kuti vaite kubva kumamiriro emhuri "chiitiko".
60% yevarume vakaongororwa vakati basa ravo rekumba rakaramba risingaoneki neshamwari dzavo. Asi panguva imwecheteyo, maererano nevarume ivo pachavo, kuchenesa chimbuzi, kubvisa marara, kutora nzvimbo dzebhedha uye mamwe mabasa epamba anotora maawa 13 pavhiki. Asi vakadzi vanoratidzira nemaune basa ravo rechikoro pamusangano, vakataura hafu yevakabvunzwa.
Asi, chii chaizvoizvo vanhu vanoita kumba? 85% yavo inopikisa kuti mutoro wokubvisa kubva mudzimba yemarara inongova pavari chete. 80% yevanhu vakapindura vakati vaive vakasunungura "hafu" yavo kubva pakupfeka zviremara zvakakura, vachitakura zvikwama nekutenga uye zvokudya. Inenge 78% yevamiririri vehutano hwakasimba yakashuma kuti vane basa rokutenga zvokudya zvemhuri.
Nokudaro, maererano nenyanzvi, varume vanoita basa rinokosha kune vatungamiri vehupfumi hwemhuri. Asi zvakare, chidzidzo ichi chakanyatsofunga maonero evanhu uye maonero evakadzi vazhinji haazovhiringidzi. Saka dambudziko rebasa rekumba richaramba riri rakakosha. Saka, varume nevakadzi, ingobatsirana, uye mhuri yako ichava nani uye yakasimba.