Mukadzi haasi utera husina simba
Saka zviri munharaunda yedu kuti chiito chepabonde chakakamurwa kuva chakasimba uye chisina simba. Izvi zvakasimbiswa zvakanyanyisa mupfungwa dzedu kuti chero kukanganisa kubva pane "chimiro" kunoratidzika sekusina maturo. Asi pane pane charter iyo yatinofanira kurarama nayo? Sei kufara kwedu kunofanirwa pane izvo vamwe vanhu, zvachose vasina kure nesu, vanofunga kuti vakarurama.
Mukadzi wezana remakore rechi21 isununguko rwakasunungurwa. Haafaniri tsitsi kana kuzvidzora. Onasama inogona kupa kukanganisa kune chero munhu. Vose vasikana vanoda kusununguka uye kuzvimirira, panguva imwechete ivo vari kuchema kuti "vanhu chaivo" vakafa. Hungu, nguva dzeHussars dzakapfuura, asi nhasi mumwe anogonawo kuwana "munhu wega" munhu. Ngatitarisei, hatisi muslin madzimai. Kumibvunzo yedu haikwanisi kuenzanisa munhu wose, uye chaizvoizvo kwavari kwatiriwo kune mibvunzo.
Murume anofanira kuva netsvimbo! O, ndiregererei nokuda kwekutuka, asi murume anofanira kunge ane tsvimbo chete pantshi. Uye vamwe vose - zvakanyanya kufungidzirwa. Iwe unoda kuti murume wako ave munyoro uye anoteerere, kuti aifanira kupa nguva yake yose kwauri uye "nyundo" pane shamwari. Asi mune ipi yehuhu huno huratidzwa huri, hunonzi, tsvimbo? Hapana vanhu vakanaka. Isu tose - seti yehutano nehutano, iwe unofanirwa kuisa skotory.
Nhasi, vanhu vashomanana vanozviona sevasina simba uye vasina kudzivirira, saka nei vakadzi vachifanira kuonekwa sevarume? Sezvo tichitarisa "... uye bhiza riri pachimiso richamira, uye imba inopisa ichapinda ..." murume uyu anofanira kunzwisisa kuti pamberi pake ichinhu chisina simba uye chinotambudza princess? Vakadzi vane chikonzero - varume vakadaro vakatiita. Nhema, nhema, nhema! Vabereki vedu vakaita izvi kwatiri (uye kuvonga kwavari nokuda kweizvi), vakanga vari kugadzirira upenyu hwevanhu vakuru, vakatipa shumbi rezivo uye unyanzvi hunotibatsira kurarama munyika ino. Vakatidzidzisa kuti tirambe takasimba uye takasimba, kuvimba nehupenyu huno isu pachedu. Saka iyi ichiri mubvunzo mukuru, ndiani ane hutano husina simba pano.
Iwe - "strongman", I - "kuderera"
Zvechokwadi, iyi haisi simba repamutemo. Mukadzi asingakanganisi uye akasimba nguva dzose anotsvaka kuzviisa pasi kumurume wake. Zvinokwanisika kukurukura kwenguva yakareba chikonzero ichi: kana munhu asingatambudziki, kana kutya kwekukundwa uye akadzingwa akasimba. Chinonyanya kukosha ndechekuti kusarudzwa kwomunhu anenge asina simba kuti awane chikamu chechipiri kunogona kuunza mufaro kumukadzi.
Hongu, mumamiriro ezvinhu aya, ivo vachafanirwa kupatsanidza nzvimbo: iyo ichava mupi, uye iye achava mutariri wehanzvadzi. Asi ndiani akati izvi zvakaipa? Tiri kutaura pamusoro pegigolo, iyo inokonzera kushandiswa kwevakadzi vakanaka, tiri kutaura pamusoro pevamwe vaviri umo mukadzi anotora zvakawanda uye anotora nzvimbo yakakwirira kupfuura murume.
Yeuka Soviet picture "Office Romance." Heano kune iwe muenzaniso wakanakisisa wekuti hukama huri pakati pemukadzi bhizinesi uye mushumiri akawandisa zvakakwana hunogona kupfuurira. Uye izvi hazviiti mumabhaisikopo chete.
Mukadzi akawana zvakawanda muhupenyu anoda imba yake kuti imirire mumwe munhu achamuda, anokoshesa uye anokoshesa. Uye kazhinji basa iri rinoshandiswa zvakanakisisa neve-munyoro-munyoro uye akanaka-chaiwo "mutsigiri wepakati", uye kwete meso ane utsinye kana mubhizimisi anobudirira. Ikokupedzisira, naporiviv, sarudza vakadzi, vanovhiringidza kusimbisa kwake uye kubudirira, asi iwe unogona here kushamisika mukadzi uyu-vamp.
Vanofara pamwe chete
Ndinotenda, murume ari pedyo nemukadzi ane simba anewo nguva yakaoma. Chero zvingave zvingareva, zvisikwa zvinotora nguva, uye kuziva kuti munhu anofanirwa kunge ari benzi mumaziso evashamwari, vavakidzani nehama dzake hazvimupe rugare. Asi kune munhu akadaro, mafungiro omudzimai wake anokosha. Ndiye chirevo chehupenyu, ndiro dombo rake, shure kwaanove akasununguka uye akadzikama. Haafaniri kutora mutoro wekuita zvisarudzo zvakakomba, nokuti shoko rekupedzisira nguva dzose kune mukadzi.
Uye zvakadini nemukadzi? Neye, zvinhu zvose zvakajeka zvakare. Nemhaka yehupenyu hwake, anototora zvisarudzo zvinokosha, mirairo nemitemo. Haafariri hupenyu, uye pamwe kamwe chete. Asi iye anokwanisa nguva dzose kusendamira panyaya iyi kumunhu wake. Uye vangani vedu vanogona kuzvikudza pamusoro peizvi?
Kuunza mutsara
Hazvikwanisi kutaurwa kuti pane vakadzi vazhinji vanogona kumira pedyo ne-rag-man (kwete mhosva kune vane simba rakasimba). Regai vakadzi ava vashoma kwazvo, asi ivo vose vakafanana uye vane kodzero yekufara. Kana vakagutsikana nehupenyu hwakadaro, kana vasinganzwisisiki pedo ne "nedomuzhchinami" yavo, ipapo tinogona kungova negodo chete. Uye hapana chakakwira kuchikama chavo nezano rokuti "rikande", "iwe unofanirwa kupfuura", "iwe uchazviwana uri nani". Zvichida ndiye chinhu chakanakisisa muupenyu hwake. Mufaro kwavari!