Munhu wose anoziva kuti mavambo okutanga munguva yedu haasi kunyanya kugamuchirwa. Kana hama dzepedyo dzichiedza kunyengetedza murume nemudzimai vachida kudzorerazve basa ravo guru, vachiedza kuudza pfungwa dzavo chinangwa chemhuri zuva rega rehupenyu.
Nyanzvi dzepfungwa hazvikurudziri kutanga hupenyu hwemhuri usati wasvika kumakore makumi maviri. Ichokwadi ndechokuti unhu hwevanhu vakuru huri kuitika, zvisinei nokuti huri varume kana vakadzikadzi, hunoswededzwa kuva nechisimba. Kunyange zvakadaro, "unhu" hunogara huchikwevedzwa norusununguko, kwete mukufunga chete, asi mukuita uye hupenyu. Uye kukura mune zvemari chinhu chakaoma.
Mukuwedzera, vechidiki vave vachifunga kwenguva refu vachive vakuru, vachitarisana neukama hwepakutanga, kakawanda vanovhiringidza rudo rwechokwadi neruchiva. Uye kuvaka mhuri yevechidiki chekuda, sezvaunoziva, hazvina kukwana. Nguva pfupi mushure momuchato, magirasi akazununguka anobviswa nehupenyu hwezuva nezuva: kubika, kushamba, kuchenesa. Kubatana nekudzidza kana basa. Mushure memwedzi miviri, vakadzi vane makore gumi nemanomwe vane makore nevarume, vane tariro inotonhora, yeuka dendere rakabatana nemubereki, kumhanya kwechikwata chesiku uye kuwanda kwenguva yakawanda. Misha yepakutanga inowanzoguma mukurambana, asi pazera remakore zvakaoma kuziva mutoro wematambudziko emhuri, izvo zvinotungamirira kumakakatanwa nekurambana.
Vanhu vazhinji vanofunga kuti zvakakosha kuroorwa nekutanga mhuri panguva iyo vose vaviri vanonzwisisa kuti vanodanana. Uye kana iwe ukawana dzidzo, ita basa, simuka pamakumbo ako, zvichida usingaregi kuratidza rudo. Hungu, uye zvinoreva chikamu chake chechipiri chinokura mumakore kana kuti kuwira.
Zvechokwadi mhuri yacho, kune mumwe nomumwe. Mumwe munhu akatogadzirira kuita chiito chakakomba nezera remakore gumi nemasere uye chizvarwa chechikadzi semhepo inopisa, uye mumwe munhu ane makore makumi matatu anoita semucheche. Maererano nevanodzidza nezvepfungwa, nguva yakanakisisa yekuroora mukadzi ndeye 23-26, uye nokuda kwevarume vane makore makumi maviri nemaviri, apo iye atoziva, akawana basa uye akasimba kwazvo.
Zvichida hazvikoshi, iwe uri nemakore mangani, zvakakosha kuvaka mhuri inotendeseka. Vanoti mhuri yakasimba ikozvino mune mafashoni. Munguva dzekare, mukomana nemusikana vakaedza kuchinja kuitira kuti varoore zvakanaka kana kuroora. Munharaunda yedu yemazuva ano kunyanya kukuru kunobhadharwa kune maitiro. Tinoedza kutarisa zvakakosha, kukurukura zvakawanda uye kana tiri kutaura, zvichida chimwe chinhu chinokodzera, tinosarudza munhu uyu. Asi chimiro chechinhu chacho chakakomba uye tinonzwisisa apo hupenyu hwemhuri hunotanga. Uye sezvamunoziva, unhu hunokwidzwa uye zvakajeka kuti pamakore makumi maviri haasati aperedzerwa. Ichi chimwe chezvakaipa zvakakomba zvekuroorana. Asi, pasinei nematambudziko akadaro, michato yepakutanga ine mativi avo akanaka. Kutanga, upenyu hwomumhuri hwemhuri hunoita kuti vakaroorana vakura nokukurumidza. Kunyange zvakadaro kuchinjeka mafungiro akakwana, nokuda kwechisarudzo chematambudziko. Kumuvirirwa kwepanyama kwekuzvarwa kwemwana.
Uye zvichida hapana imwe nguva yakakwana yekuumba mhuri, zvisinei, maererano nerudo. Uyezve, rudo rwakasiyana, manzwiro akasiyana uye mhuri dzakasiyana.
Aa, dai paive nemararamiro ekuumba mhuri inofara, umo zvingava nyore kuisa mukana wezera remurume nemudzimai remangwana. Uye kuverenga kwechirevo ichi kwakanga kusina kuitwa kuburikidza nemakumbo akaputsika uye hupenyu. Zvichida, matambudziko mazhinji anogona kubvisa vanhu uye hupenyu hahuna kufanana nemapuzzles asina kuonekwa.