Zvisinei, kune mufaro wedu kana kusuruvara, pane imwe nzvimbo iyo isina kukundwa nechinoparara chinokanganisa kwemazuva ano maitiro: psychology. Uye iwe unofungei, mumubvunzo upi? Maonero pamusoro pekuumbwa kwemhuri.
Yeuka mazwi ekuru nanasekuru vako: ruoko mumaoko ako hupenyu hwako hwose, vana vashanu. Pakutanga, kuroorana kwaibatanidzwa nekuzvarwa patsva kwevana uye kwakashandirwa munzwisisiro yehuwandu chete senzira yekupa upenyu kune munhu mutsva. Vechiduku nhasi havasi vaduku kune vanhu vekare. Zvechokwadi, vashomanana vana nhasi, vashomanana vanhu vanozvara, asi heino mwana wokutanga mugore rokutanga rehupenyu pamwechete - nyore! Zvisinei, chido chakadaro chokuumba mhuri yakasimba inosangana nenjodzi pane dzimwe nguva: mhuri dzinoputsa, uye vana vakasiyiwa vanogara.
1.Hochetsya nokukurumidza zvakakosha kupfeka chiroto chemuchato uye tuxedo yakanakisisa? Iwe uchava nenguva, REGISTRY OFFICE munguva yemberi iri pedyo haichazobvisi.
2. Unoda kutarisa kuti iwe uchagara kwenguva yakareba zvipikiri zvakasungirirwa pamupanda we dacha, kushambisa masokisi nekuchenesa ndiro? Rarama mararamiro ehurumende uye unzwe zvose zvinofadza zvekugara pamwechete.
3. Unofunga kuti inguva yekutanga vana here? Iwe unofunga kuti ivo havatonyanya kuoma here kutarisira kwavari kupfuura yekati yemukati, uye mwana wako acharamba ari muhutano hunoyevedza sezvinoitwa pakutevedzana kwevana? Iwe uri kunze kwechokwadi, tinokukurudzira kuti urege kumirembera mumakore.
4. Uye kana pane chimwe chikonzero iwe haugoni kuva nevana? Icho chikonzero chokuurawa here? Yeuka vana vasina vana vasingatambudziki zvachose nekuda kweizvi zvisizvo zvishoma.
Unofungei, madakadzi madzimai, muri kubvunza mibvunzo iyi yose? Munyori wenyaya yacho? Kwete, varume.
Sei vachibvunza mibvunzo iyi? Pane zvikonzero zvakawanda zveizvi:
1. Wasanangurwa wako achiri muduku uye haadi kuzvinetsa iwe newanano. Kana iwe zvakare uri muduku uye unofunga, saka zvechokwadi, usakurumidza shamwari yako inofadza. Nzira ichakura. Uye kana iwe wagadzirira kushambidza masokisi uye kubereka mwana? Ini ndichafanirwa kutungamirira chikomba muhofisi yeChinyorwa.
2. Iye ari mugove. Anoda nzvimbo yako pachako, uye kukuona iwe munharaunda yake, unogona kutsamwa. Kuzvida uye kuberekwa. Kana kuti zvichida anoda kunwa doro manheru kana kuti, taura, ucheke zvikepe kubva pamuti, asi anoziva kuti iwe uchazvidzivirira? Saka, anosarudza kuroorana kwevanhu. Anoda kutarisa iwe.
3. Akange akaroora. Chechipiri "kufamba" kusvika ikozvino, masimba haana kukwana. Zvichida mudzimai wokutanga akanga asiri chipo uye akarova "cat" yako chero ipi zvayo yekuda kuenda kuhofisi yezve registry zvakare.
4. Haafariri mutoro. Upenyu hwake hwepanyama hunomukodzera zvachose. Uye hurumende yehurumende haibvumiri kune chero chinhu, nokuti hapana chibvumirano chinosimbisa kuti "iwe uchada nekubatsirana mukuchema uye mufaro".
5. Shamwari dzake dziri kugadzirisa kurambana. Nguva dzose uroke uye uvimbise kuti mushure mechitema mupasipoti iye achabva akadzikwa.
Zvikonzero zvekurarama chikwata chevarume vevanhu vakawanda chaizvo. Zvinoratidzika kwatiri kuti chinhu chikuru chezvinetso zvose kutya. Kutya kuti iye acharambidzwa doro uye haazorevi bhora, kutya kuti iye achazoita kuti ave munhu ane hanya, achitya kuti achafanira kutakura mutoro wemhuri yose.
VaMadzimai, kana mune munhu akaoma, unoda kuwana mumwe munhu kwaari uye kumuporesa pfungwa yeku "kudya pasipoti."