Chokutanga, tinoziva kuti ndiani anogona kuonekwa seanotadza. Haasi munhu wese aisagona kusvika kune dzimwe nzvimbo, asingakwanisi kuita mari, anogona kunzi anoshaya. Kune vanhu vakatsaurwa avo mari uye nzvimbo munharaunda hazvirevi chinhu. Vane hupenyu mubasa ravari kuita, shamwari dzinoremekedza ivo. Ndine mumwe murume nemudzimai vakaroorana, ivo vakagadzira kambani yekunamata kwevana vavo. Vane mari shoma, nokuti munguva yedu vanhu vashomanana vanofungisisa nezvekukura kwekunamata kwevana vavo - vazhinji vevanhu vanoda mwana kuti ave nekutora mukudhika, mimhanzi, mitauro yekunze kune dzimwe nyika nezvimwe zvakadaro. Asi, zvisinei, vakaroora ava vane humwe hurumende, vane boka ravo revanhu vanofunga, ivo vanofunga kuti vanoremekedzwa uye vanodiwa vanhu. Uye nenzira imwe chete munhu haashanduri mutauro kuti avashevedze varasikirwa.
Sezvo mutemo, vanorasikirwa chaivo havana kufara nehupenyu uye vanowanzonyunyuta pamusoro paro. Pane imwe nguva ndakasangana nemurume aigara achin'un'una pamusoro pokushaya mari. Panguva imwecheteyo, haana kuita zvachose kuti achinatsire hutano hwake hwekudzidza kuitira kuti awane basa rakakurumbira. Uye kutaura kwedu zvishoma nezvishoma kwakamira.
Chimwe chiratidzo chesiye, izvi ndezvokuti munhu uyu haazoiti, haasi kubudirira. Shamwari yangu yaiwanzoedza ruoko rwayo pahupfumi, saka mumutambo wekutengesa, asi hapana paaigona kuwana mukurumbira weanyanzvi akanaka uye mushandi. Zvaigara zvichiita kwaari kuti haana kungofanirwa. Uye hapana chinhu chinoshamisa kuti mubhadharo wake wakanga wakawanda, uye kazhinji aifanira kuchinja mabasa.
Munhu akanganisa ndeyeiye asingaiti zvinhu zvake pachake uye asina chaanoita kuti aite hupenyu huri nani, anoenda nenzira isina kururama, paanenge achitenda kuti mumatambudziko ake, vamwe vanhu vane mhosva.
Mumwe wevakidzani vangu aifanira kunge ari munharaunda yeanorasikirwa. Maitiro ake emhizha akaratidza kuva kure kwazvo naye zvaaigona chaizvo. Aiwa, kuti awane basa rakanaka, akagara kwemakore anoverengeka kuti apinde zvidzidzo zvekupedzisira, akabatanidzwa nesayenzi, kwaaisingadi. Pane imwe nguva apo vekare vaaidzidza navo vakava vatungamiri vakuru, akavhiringidzika neimwe nzira yekukurumidza kuwanikwa. Zvose izvi zvakaitika kwenguva yakati. Anenge asina shamwari dzasara. Dambudziko rakaguma apo iye, asinganzwisisiki akabvuma kuti nyanzvi yezvemasayendisiti kubva kwaari yaisazoshanda, uye akatanga kushanda mubasa rake guru.
Sei usingadi kutaurirana nemunhu anoshaya?
Anokwevera pasi
Isu tose tiri kuedza chimwe chinhu chakanaka, uye uyo anenge achitambura ari kuedza kutitungamirira kudzokera kumwero wake. Mashoko ake aanofarira - "haana kurarama zvakanaka - hapana chinotanga! "Kana uchienda kunzvimbo yakadaro nemunhu akaora mwoyo, saka gadzirira kuti iye achanyunyuta pamusoro pekuti zvinhu zvose zvinodhura sei, uye iwe unofanirwa kubhadhara zvinhu zvose, kana kuenda naye mumugwagwa unofambisa vanhu, panzvimbo yekuenda mutekisi , kana kuti kudya kune imwe kudya kunze kwekafa.
Mune zvinangwa zvake iye anoshandisa munhu akabudirira
Munhu anoshaya achachema pamusoro pekuti unlucky ari muhupenyu, uye iwe une mukana. Uye panguva yakadaro iwe uchanzwa kuti iwe unokanganisa, izvi ndizvo zvinoshaya. Iye achashandisa zvakashata pahutera hwako uye pakupedzisira agara pamutsipa wako-anokuita kuti uzadzise zvishoma zvishoma zvaanoita, tora mari yakawanda yaasingazombodzoka, kugara mumba mako. Zvakakosha here kutaurirana nomunhu akadaro muupenyu?
Anova negodo pamusoro penhaka
Munhu anoshaya anogona kukuyemura zvawakaita mumaziso ako, kuimba kwauri nekurumbidzwa, uye oti nokuda kwemaziso ako kuti iwe usina kufanirwa kugamuchira zvese zvehupenyu, unokushevedza iwe. Asi iye pachake anofanirwa nazvo. Gadzirira kune chokwadi chokuti anogona kukanganisa iwe usati waunoda, shamwari, vakuru. Uye icho chikonzero chete chigodo.
Kukundikana kunotapukira
Zvose hazvisanzwisisiki, asi panguva imwechete ndezvechokwadi. Zvakanga zvakakodzera kuti nditaure neanorasikirwa, kuti ndaiva nematambudziko nemari, kushanda, nezvimwe zvakadaro. Pakutanga ndaifunga kuti yaiva njodzi, asi apo matambudziko akadaro akadzoka, ndakafunga kuti sei. Zvose zvinopesana nazvo ndezvokuti isu tinonzwira tsitsi nomwoyo wose kune anotambudzika, nokuti iye atozviwana muupenyu, ndiyo nzira yatinotaura nayo naye.
Chii chaunofanira kuita kana iwe "wakanamatira" munhu akadaro? Chokutanga, edza "kuidzidzisazve", dzimwe nguva zvinowanzoitika. Mupei kuti aende kumapoka, tsvaga basa, kuitira kuti, nenzira imwe kana imwe, agadzirise oga matambudziko ake. Kana akaedza kurega kubva pane izvi zvose, iye haadi, ipapo anobvisa ukama hwemarudzi ose naye. Munhu wose ndiye muvakirisi wehupfumi hwake.
Iye zvino tava kuziva kana tichifanira kutaura neanoshaya muupenyu. Tevera mazano aya uye iwe unonzwisisa kuti uwane kubudirira muupenyu, hazvisi zvakakosha muupenyu kuti utaurirane nomunhu anoshaya.