Kuziva kuti dambudziko guru remhuri nderevana vasina kukodzera, uye vabereki vanotarisira kuti mazano emumwe mupfungwa wepfungwa achavabatsira pakarepo, wekutanga wepfungwa, mupfungwa wepfungwa achakukurudzira kuti uzive maitiro akasiyana, uye kuziva kuti ndeupi wavo mwana wako. Nzira dzisina kurongeka ndedzimwe pfungwa isingagumi, inogara ichichinja nenguva, itsva uye itsva zvitubu zvinobuda, asi kusvikira zvino tava kuziva nezvekupararira uye kupararira kwazvo. Mune imwe neimwe tsika yaro, mitemo yayo nemitemo, zvinhu. Kakawanda ikozvino yakabatana zvakananga nemutambo wemimhanzi kana mutungamiri akaiumba.
Nzira yekutanga yekudzidzira yatinenge tichifunga ichave iine Goths, imwe yekare uye inonyatsooneka. Takagadzirira kutema zvinhu zvekare, kumakuva uye zvinotyisa, zvinhu zvinotyisa zvikuru. Vanoteerera kumitambo yechikoro, magetsi ejeri kana kuti gothic metal. Zvishongedze maGoth mumavhudzi madema, mutsara iwoyo unobvisa maziso, misumari nemiromo. A goth chaiye munhu akavharwa nehupenzi anoda kutaura pamusoro pekufa, kukanganisa kwekuva, kuzviuraya uye kusuruvara. Pasinei nhaurirano idzi dzose, ngozi yekuzviuraya yakafanana neyevamwe vakomana, uye maitiro akafanana haana kuwanikwa. Kunyangwe, nhamo, iyo yekare punk yakagadzirirawo kupinda muchechi, kuunza kusagadzirisa tsika dzevanhu.
Emo, zvichida yakawanda pakati pevechiduku vaduku, zvikurukuru vasikana, zvakare inenge iri kure kubva kune yakagadzirira. Vanogona kuzivikanwa nenhamba yakawanda yejiji uye rivets, zvipfeko zvinopisa uye zvepini, izvo zvinofananidzira mufaro nekusuwa. Uyewo emo kufanana nekupfeka sneakers nemabhananas nemufananidzo muchitokisi, uta uye chiratidzo chemafu. Mukutaura, kusiyana kwezvokupfeka kunogona kunge kwakasiyana, asi mavara anoramba ari akafanana: madzimai nevhinki, vakomana vane bluu. Emo anofarira kuvhara chiso chake uye kuita piercings: pamhino, rurimi, miromo, mashizha. Vhudzi ravo rakangofanana - bvudzi dema uye bhenze refu rinofukidza chiso. Iyo inofananidzira chokwadi chekuti vane hafu yezviso zvavo zvakajairika, uye hafu hafu-rima, sezvinoitwa murima. Vanoteerera kumhanzi dombo, pamwe chete neavo, ega, anonzi emo-kor. Chinhu chinokosha chemu emo ndechekugamuchira kwakanaka uye manzwiro, saka zita ravo, rakapfupiswa kubva "manzwiro". Vanotenda kuti mweya chaiye inopinda zvinorwadza kune chero kukundikana kupi zvako, inopinda mukunyengedzera uye kubvisa, uye inogona kuwanawo kufara kwechokwadi. Kunze kwemashure ose, emo ndiyo inonyanya kushaya mhosva. Uye kunyange zvazvo vachida Goths, kufanana nekufunga nezvekufa, vanocheka mwoyo uye vanocheka ganda ravo pamusoro pemakumbo, harina kusvika kuzviitiko zvekuzviuraya mu subculture.
Imwe yekare uye, zvichida, iyo yakareba "yakareba-mvere" pakati pemvura inoyerera ndiyo punk nesimbi. Punks nevashandi vesimbi vanosiyana mune zvavanotungamira, asi vakabatana nechimwe chinhu - imwe neimwe yemitambo iyi yakabva mumimhanzi, uye chinonyanya kukosha pamapoka aya hachisi chokupfeka uye chimiro, manzwiro kana kuti mafungiro akajeka, asi, zvaunoda kune rumwe rudzi rwemimhanzi. Vashandi vehuniki ndeimwe yemavhuvhu mashomanana anowanzoonekwa kwete vechidiki, asi kuvanhu vakuru, kusvuta kweboka iri kunogona kugara muhupenyu hwose. Hapana mimwe mitemo yakakosha uye maitiro - kungoita rudo rwemimhanzi inonyanya kukosha.
Vabereki vakaita semimhanzi iyi vanogona kutaridzika kusingagumiki, mheremhere uye nehasha. Izwi remitauro yakadaro inonyanya kuipa, kunyange kunewo mafirosofi zvakanyanyisa, pane zvinyorwa zvevanhu, zvinyorwa zvenhoroondo. Pano pese godo rekutungamirirwa kwesimbi kunowanikwa mashoko acho. Kwenguva yakareba kwakange kune nhaurirano pamusoro pemimhanzi yakadai, uye iwe, zvechokwadi, inogona kuita seyengozi, inonyanya kuve kurega kubvuma vechidiki kune dzimwe nzvimbo. Mushure mezvose, kune utsinye uye chisimba mukati mavo, izvo zvinogona kuchinja zvakanyanya psyche yemwana, nziyo dzaanoridzirwa pamusoro pemitemo yevanhu vasingadikanwi ... Zvinoratidzika kuti mimhanzi yakadaro inotyisa, uye uyo anoteerera, zvakadaro, haanzwisisi chinhu pamusoro payo.
Asi izvi hazvisi izvo, uye masayendisiti akaratidza kuti vechidiki vanoteerera mimhanzi yakaoma zvakadaro vari kupesana zvakanyanya kupfuura vezera ravo. Izvi zvinokonzerwa nekuti mimhanzi yakadaro, pane zvinopesana, inobatsira kutsungirira matambudziko ezera rekutsvaga, kukanda mukati mayo zvikwereti zvechisimba izvo zvinowanzoonekwa kune vechidiki, zvinobatsira kuenzanisa migumisiro yekurambwa kwevanhu munzanga. Saka, hapana chinofanira kutya, asi asi, iwe unogona kunyarara zvachose.
Asi ruzivo rwakasiyana, uye rumwe rwawo runogona kunge rusingagamuchirwi uye rwuri dambudziko. Saka chii, chinofanira kuitwa? Ko chiremba wepfungwa anopa zano rei panyaya yevana vasina kujaira? Chokutanga: usatye, gara wakadzikama, nokuti chokwadi chokuti mwana wako ndeyechidiki, zvirokwazvo, hapana chakaipa.
Iyi ndiyo nzira yekutaura iwe pachako, unhu hwako, kuedza kuwana ruzhinji rwevanhu uye kutora nzvimbo munyika ino. Kushevedzera uye kuonekwa ndeimwe nzira yekuzviratidza, uye izvi hazvifaniri kutyiwa. Mushure mezvose, kuyaruka kuri kuratidza uye maximimalistic, zvose zviri pamusoro apa zvinowanzoitirwa. Zvinhu zvinotyisa zvavanozviisa pavari ivo, chiratidzo chekufa inzira yekukundisa kutya kwavo, kunyatsoziva kuti vanovabudisa kunze uye vanorega kutya. Uyezve, cherechedza mazera emakore akasiyana: maitiro asina kukodzera uye mamwe mazwi akafanana akafanana neanoyaruka, kune vanhu vakuru uye vamwe vanhu vakakura mumitemo iyi inenge isina kumbosangana.
Saka, vana vasina kujaira - mazano epfungwa yevabereki, ndeapi? Nyanzvi dzepfungwa dzinorayirwa kuti dzigadzirise mararamiro ehutano hwemwana, uye iwe unogonawo kumutsanangurira kuti maitiro ake anotarisa sei kunze. Asi chaizvoizvo, vana vasina kujaira havatyi, saka tarisirai kusvikira mwana akura, uye amurege kutamba mitambo yake, achigadzirisa dambudziko ravo.